u/Sad_Departure_4824

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimCorner/s/0I58jku5x4

I need advice pls

I posted this 6 days ago and since then I had been clean up until a couple hours ago I ended up relapsing again Wallahi I feel like a scum I missed two of my salahs today aswell I had cried tears in my dua yesterday asking Allah swt to forgive me for the times I had done this sin but then today I ended up going bak to the same sin. My heart can’t take it anymore this past week when I was praying I barely felt the tranquility I miss my old iman I’m crying as I type this message , this sin has ruined my life.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimNoFap/s/tIhNbW58nb

I posted this 6 days ago and since then I had been clean up until a couple hours ago I ended up relapsing again Wallahi I feel like a scum I missed two of my salahs today aswell I had cried tears in my dua yesterday asking Allah swt to forgive me for the times I had done this sin but then today I ended up going bak to the same sin. My heart can’t take it anymore this past week when I was praying I barely felt the tranquility I miss my old iman I’m crying as I type this message , this sin has ruined my life

I’ve gone thru hardship for the past 5-6 months and instead of getting closer to Allah swt I sinned and barely prayed and Alhamdullilah I’ve found my way back but wow I’m so attached to dunya I remember when there was a time when I didn’t care about anything dunya wise aslong as I had my deen but now I find myself overthinking and stressing about my future because of how attached I am to dunya

Been unemployed for 6 months now and I’ll be honest in these 6 months instead of connecting to Allah swt I sinned and missed a lot of prayers Astagfirullah it was suppose to be a hardship that gets me closer to Allah swt Alhamdullilah I’m getting back on the deen now . I tried istighfar and salawat for rizq I did it for months it didn’t work but now I’ve had a epiphany on why it didn’t work when I did the istighfar my intention was rizq not to get forgiven and when I did salawat my intention was also rizq so I’ am going to renew my intentions and inshallah I will see change. For the unemployed Muslims how do you guys deal with it ?

Alhamdulliah I haven’t relapsed for 4 days this the longest I’ve gone without it for 2 months or so now inshallah it stays like this, doing dhikr daily has helped me a lot and going to sleep early ,inshallah we all defeat this sin

So I’m 18 and I just left College with a lvl3 light vehicle diploma and I need experience before I actually apply for a entry level role so I’m more confident with the physical aspect side of mechanics( college was mostly theory barely any physical work) so I email a garage in my town if I can come in for voluntary work and the owner replies saying I can for a few day’s I meet him prior and he seems very friendly and overall a nice guy . I go in on the day and the way hes just rude to me ( the way he was talking , mannerism) and I go on about the day doing everything he asked me to. So I go bak the day after and he says to me “ I think we should call it a day mate, your not good enough” after that I left and I walked back home (half an hour walk) this whole situation has been a deterrent for me to reach out to other local garages asking for voluntary work . I feel very disheartened and I think about that whole situation a lot.

So I’m 18 and I just left College with a lvl3 light vehicle diploma and I need experience before I actually apply for a entry level role so I’m more confident with the physical aspect side of mechanics( college was mostly theory barely any physical work) so I email a garage in my town if I can come in for voluntary work and the owner replies saying I can for a few day’s I meet him prior and he seems very friendly and overall a nice guy . I go in on the day and the way hes just rude to me ( the way he was talking , mannerism) and I go on about the day doing everything he asked me to. So I go bak the day after and he says to me “ I think we should call it a day mate, your not good enough” after that I left and I walked back home (half an hour walk) this whole situation has been a deterrent for me to reach out to other local garages asking for voluntary work . I feel very disheartened and I think about that whole situation a lot.

So I’m 18 and I just left College with a lvl3 light vehicle diploma and I need experience before I actually apply for a entry level role so I’m more confident with the physical aspect side of mechanics( college was mostly theory barely any physical work) so I email a garage in my town if I can come in for voluntary work and the owner replies saying I can for a few day’s I meet him prior and he seems very friendly and overall a nice guy . I go in on the day and the way hes just rude to me ( the way he was talking , mannerism) and I go on about the day doing everything he asked me to. So I go bak the day after and he says to me “ I think we should call it a day mate, your not good enough” after that I left and I walked back home (half an hour walk) this whole situation has been a deterrent for me to reach out to other local garages asking for voluntary work . I feel very disheartened and I think about that whole situation a lot.

( I posted this on another forum but from my experience this forum always helps)

This Particular sin has ruined me so badly wallah it’s ruined my relationship with Allah swt ,these past few months my iman has been going thru ups and downs I would do the sin and not repent for a week or so and in that week I wouldn’t even read salah and then after that week I would repent and then I would end up going back to the sin and im tired of it idk what’s wrong with me i woukd cry my eyes to Allah swt asking for forgiveness and a couple hours later when im in the bathroom or in my bedroom alone id do the sin ive posted so many Reddit posts about this but this one’s coming from my heart . I used to be so close to Allah swt but i would throw it away every time when shaytaan came to me with the temptations. What’s made this sin so much of a norm to me is because of how unorganised my life is I’m 18 and I’m currently unemployed and ill be honest I wake up at 2pm and doomscroll for most the day the only productive thing I do is look for jobs and sometimes I don’t even do that. This all basically started after I finished college and I didn’t really have things to occupy my day with Tommorow I’m going to stop this cycle forever inshallah. Could anyone please advise me on what I can do instead of scrolling and what can help me with this disgusting sin.My dad is very understanding I think I might tell him and I feel like he’ll be able to help and I’ll feel like it’s abit off my chest because my dad thinks of me as a good Muslim

This sin has ruined me so badly wallah it’s ruined my relationship with Allah swt ,these past few months my iman has been going thru ups and downs I would do the sin and not repent for a week or so and in that week I wouldn’t even read salah and then after that week I would repent and then I would end up going back to the sin and im tired of it idk what’s wrong with me i woukd cry my eyes to Allah swt asking for forgiveness and a couple hours later when im in the bathroom or in my bedroom alone id do the sin ive posted so many Reddit posts about this but this one’s coming from my heart . I used to be so close to Allah swt but i would throw it away every time when shaytaan came to me with the temptations. What’s made this sin so much of a norm to me is because of how unorganised my life is I’m 18 and I’m currently unemployed and ill be honest I wake up at 2pm and doomscroll for most the day the only productive thing I do is look for jobs and sometimes I don’t even do that. This all basically started after I finished college and I didn’t really have things to occupy my day with Tommorow I’m going to stop this cycle forever inshallah. Could anyone please advise me on what I can do instead of scrolling and what can help me with this disgusting sin.My dad is very understanding I think I might tell him and I feel like he’ll be able to help

I read isha a bit ago and idk why but I just felt like not reading at all I just read the 4 fard and left it at that , I feel so guilty now I’ve been having declines in my iman and I recently got bak on track but it’s slowly going down again plz does anyone have any advice I least to have such a soft heart now i feel like it’s been overtook by darkness.

I read isha a bit ago and idk why but I just felt like not reading at all I just read the 4 fard and left it at that , I feel so guilty now I’ve been having declines in my iman and I recently got bak on track but it’s slowly going down again plz does anyone have any advice I least to have such a soft heart now i feel like it’s been overtook by darkness.

Just turned 18 recently and wow I’ve been struggling with this disgusting habit for 5 years now , for the past few. Months my iman has been fluctuating a lot , a week ago I started to get bak on track I was doing dua from my heart ,crying for repentance and feeling grateful for evrything but yesterday I relapsed and today I didn’t read any of my salah I don’t know what to do I’ve been in this cycle months now I hope it stops - normally when I did the sin I would repent straight away but now I don’t it’s like something is stopping me plz give advice

Past few months my iman has had a lot of fluctuations Alhamdullilah I’m back to reading my salah now - during that period I was going thru hardships and before when my iman was okay I would do istighfar and salawat daily but because of my iman decreasing I haven’t done it Ina long time so it would be motivation for me if some of you guys could share your miracles or duas that got answered

I’m overthinking so much nowadays ,it hurts my heart and I genuinely can’t go out about my day the worst outcomes come to my head all the time and I have so much fear for the future . plz could somebody give me advice

I’ve been unemployed for a long time and For the past 2 months my iman has been on and off , I’ve been struggling with a certain sin (this is my coping mechanism because of all the rejections I get) - for the time I’ve been unemployed I would do istighfar and salawat daily but I still would get nothing back I would cry in my duas so much but still nothing and I think this is the main root cause behind all of this( instead of having tawakul i just did this sin). normally I would do the sin and repent but nowadays I won’t even repent I’ll just go downhill from there and not pray at all. I tried to return to Allah swt a week ago but I ended up doing the sin again and from there I just went back downhill -not praying etc. When my parents tell me to pray I only do the actions. I would have Islamic videos come up on my social media but now I haven’t had any and those videos would be like a sign from Allah swt telling me to come back to him and I haven’t had them for weeks. I feel like my heart is completely black from all the sins and I don’t truly believe Allah swt will forgive me . This the worst my iman has ever been I would of never imagined it to be so bad it keeps me up at night . plz someone who has gone thru something similar and has overcomed it plz tell me how i dont want to die in this state I want to change I want my connection to Allah swt to be like how it used to be

I’ve been unemployed for a long time and For the past 2 months my iman has been on and off , I’ve been struggling with masturbation (this is my coping mechanism because of all the rejections I get) - for the time I’ve been unemployed I would do istighfar and salawat daily but I still would get nothing back I would cry in my duas so much but still nothing and I think this is the main root cause behind all of this( instead of having tawakul i just did this sin). normally I would relapse and repent but nowadays I won’t even repent I’ll just go downhill from there and not pray at all. I tried to return to Allah swt a week ago but I ended up relapsing and from there I just went back downhill -not praying etc. When my parents tell me pray I only do the actions. I would have Islamic videos come up on my social media but now I haven’t had any and those videos would be like a sign from Allah swt telling me to come back to him and I haven’t had them for weeks. I feel like my heart is completely black from all the sins and I don’t truly believe Allah swt will forgive me . This the worst my iman has ever been I would of never imagined it to be so bad it keeps me up at night . plz someone who has gone thru something similar and has overcomed it plz tell me how i dont want to die in this state I want to change I want my connection to Allah swt to be like how it used to be

For a month I’ve been indulging in sins not repenting and barely praying salah (maybe 3 on a good day) and during this time my image of Allah swt was very wrong I would say things like Allah swt only helps others not me and I’m destined to fail in life etc (a bit of context I’ve been going thru hardship for a while I would be consistent with istighfar and salawat and I would cry in my duas daily for a way out ,slowly I just lost tawakul and that led to all of this)

an hour ago I realised how much sins I had been doing carelessly and I read salah and I cried my eyes out (first time in a while) and I feel like not even that is enough to get forgiven ,now I don’t know if I should even do dua to Allah swt for ease and I feel like the worst Muslim ever what do I do plz give advice this guilt is unbearable

For the Past 2 weeks every day I’ve been relapsing , and missing my salah I don’t know what got to me but it was the lowest of low I ever had deen wise . Today I brought myself back to Allah swt I asked for forgiveness and I’ll be honest because of how far gone I was I was wondering if my forgiveness will even be accepted , I have a Quran app that shows different ayats daily and I went on the app today and the ayat was” And Allah swt is the all forgiving “ subhanallah may Allah swt help us defeat this sin , no matter how far away you’ve gone come back Allah swt loves to forgive

I’ve spent the past 2 weeks spiralling down in sin and now I feel like I can’t go back to Allah swt, I used to be consistent with istighfar and salawat and read Quran daily now I just about read my salah , I don’t know what to do and also regarding istighfar how do I stay consistent with it even after doing it for months on end with no sign of any doors opening and how do I go back to asking Allah swt for ease and asking him for things I feel like after all this sinning I don’t even deserve it , after I read my salah I don’t even do dua I feel like I don’t even deserve to talk to Allah swt and if I do it won’t help me because I’ve done so much sins . Plz give advice