u/Sad_Departure_4824

( I posted this on another forum but from my experience this forum always helps)

This Particular sin has ruined me so badly wallah it’s ruined my relationship with Allah swt ,these past few months my iman has been going thru ups and downs I would do the sin and not repent for a week or so and in that week I wouldn’t even read salah and then after that week I would repent and then I would end up going back to the sin and im tired of it idk what’s wrong with me i woukd cry my eyes to Allah swt asking for forgiveness and a couple hours later when im in the bathroom or in my bedroom alone id do the sin ive posted so many Reddit posts about this but this one’s coming from my heart . I used to be so close to Allah swt but i would throw it away every time when shaytaan came to me with the temptations. What’s made this sin so much of a norm to me is because of how unorganised my life is I’m 18 and I’m currently unemployed and ill be honest I wake up at 2pm and doomscroll for most the day the only productive thing I do is look for jobs and sometimes I don’t even do that. This all basically started after I finished college and I didn’t really have things to occupy my day with Tommorow I’m going to stop this cycle forever inshallah. Could anyone please advise me on what I can do instead of scrolling and what can help me with this disgusting sin.My dad is very understanding I think I might tell him and I feel like he’ll be able to help and I’ll feel like it’s abit off my chest because my dad thinks of me as a good Muslim

This sin has ruined me so badly wallah it’s ruined my relationship with Allah swt ,these past few months my iman has been going thru ups and downs I would do the sin and not repent for a week or so and in that week I wouldn’t even read salah and then after that week I would repent and then I would end up going back to the sin and im tired of it idk what’s wrong with me i woukd cry my eyes to Allah swt asking for forgiveness and a couple hours later when im in the bathroom or in my bedroom alone id do the sin ive posted so many Reddit posts about this but this one’s coming from my heart . I used to be so close to Allah swt but i would throw it away every time when shaytaan came to me with the temptations. What’s made this sin so much of a norm to me is because of how unorganised my life is I’m 18 and I’m currently unemployed and ill be honest I wake up at 2pm and doomscroll for most the day the only productive thing I do is look for jobs and sometimes I don’t even do that. This all basically started after I finished college and I didn’t really have things to occupy my day with Tommorow I’m going to stop this cycle forever inshallah. Could anyone please advise me on what I can do instead of scrolling and what can help me with this disgusting sin.My dad is very understanding I think I might tell him and I feel like he’ll be able to help

I read isha a bit ago and idk why but I just felt like not reading at all I just read the 4 fard and left it at that , I feel so guilty now I’ve been having declines in my iman and I recently got bak on track but it’s slowly going down again plz does anyone have any advice I least to have such a soft heart now i feel like it’s been overtook by darkness.

I read isha a bit ago and idk why but I just felt like not reading at all I just read the 4 fard and left it at that , I feel so guilty now I’ve been having declines in my iman and I recently got bak on track but it’s slowly going down again plz does anyone have any advice I least to have such a soft heart now i feel like it’s been overtook by darkness.

Just turned 18 recently and wow I’ve been struggling with this disgusting habit for 5 years now , for the past few. Months my iman has been fluctuating a lot , a week ago I started to get bak on track I was doing dua from my heart ,crying for repentance and feeling grateful for evrything but yesterday I relapsed and today I didn’t read any of my salah I don’t know what to do I’ve been in this cycle months now I hope it stops - normally when I did the sin I would repent straight away but now I don’t it’s like something is stopping me plz give advice

Past few months my iman has had a lot of fluctuations Alhamdullilah I’m back to reading my salah now - during that period I was going thru hardships and before when my iman was okay I would do istighfar and salawat daily but because of my iman decreasing I haven’t done it Ina long time so it would be motivation for me if some of you guys could share your miracles or duas that got answered

I’m overthinking so much nowadays ,it hurts my heart and I genuinely can’t go out about my day the worst outcomes come to my head all the time and I have so much fear for the future . plz could somebody give me advice

I’ve been unemployed for a long time and For the past 2 months my iman has been on and off , I’ve been struggling with a certain sin (this is my coping mechanism because of all the rejections I get) - for the time I’ve been unemployed I would do istighfar and salawat daily but I still would get nothing back I would cry in my duas so much but still nothing and I think this is the main root cause behind all of this( instead of having tawakul i just did this sin). normally I would do the sin and repent but nowadays I won’t even repent I’ll just go downhill from there and not pray at all. I tried to return to Allah swt a week ago but I ended up doing the sin again and from there I just went back downhill -not praying etc. When my parents tell me to pray I only do the actions. I would have Islamic videos come up on my social media but now I haven’t had any and those videos would be like a sign from Allah swt telling me to come back to him and I haven’t had them for weeks. I feel like my heart is completely black from all the sins and I don’t truly believe Allah swt will forgive me . This the worst my iman has ever been I would of never imagined it to be so bad it keeps me up at night . plz someone who has gone thru something similar and has overcomed it plz tell me how i dont want to die in this state I want to change I want my connection to Allah swt to be like how it used to be

I’ve been unemployed for a long time and For the past 2 months my iman has been on and off , I’ve been struggling with masturbation (this is my coping mechanism because of all the rejections I get) - for the time I’ve been unemployed I would do istighfar and salawat daily but I still would get nothing back I would cry in my duas so much but still nothing and I think this is the main root cause behind all of this( instead of having tawakul i just did this sin). normally I would relapse and repent but nowadays I won’t even repent I’ll just go downhill from there and not pray at all. I tried to return to Allah swt a week ago but I ended up relapsing and from there I just went back downhill -not praying etc. When my parents tell me pray I only do the actions. I would have Islamic videos come up on my social media but now I haven’t had any and those videos would be like a sign from Allah swt telling me to come back to him and I haven’t had them for weeks. I feel like my heart is completely black from all the sins and I don’t truly believe Allah swt will forgive me . This the worst my iman has ever been I would of never imagined it to be so bad it keeps me up at night . plz someone who has gone thru something similar and has overcomed it plz tell me how i dont want to die in this state I want to change I want my connection to Allah swt to be like how it used to be

For a month I’ve been indulging in sins not repenting and barely praying salah (maybe 3 on a good day) and during this time my image of Allah swt was very wrong I would say things like Allah swt only helps others not me and I’m destined to fail in life etc (a bit of context I’ve been going thru hardship for a while I would be consistent with istighfar and salawat and I would cry in my duas daily for a way out ,slowly I just lost tawakul and that led to all of this)

an hour ago I realised how much sins I had been doing carelessly and I read salah and I cried my eyes out (first time in a while) and I feel like not even that is enough to get forgiven ,now I don’t know if I should even do dua to Allah swt for ease and I feel like the worst Muslim ever what do I do plz give advice this guilt is unbearable

For the Past 2 weeks every day I’ve been relapsing , and missing my salah I don’t know what got to me but it was the lowest of low I ever had deen wise . Today I brought myself back to Allah swt I asked for forgiveness and I’ll be honest because of how far gone I was I was wondering if my forgiveness will even be accepted , I have a Quran app that shows different ayats daily and I went on the app today and the ayat was” And Allah swt is the all forgiving “ subhanallah may Allah swt help us defeat this sin , no matter how far away you’ve gone come back Allah swt loves to forgive

I’ve spent the past 2 weeks spiralling down in sin and now I feel like I can’t go back to Allah swt, I used to be consistent with istighfar and salawat and read Quran daily now I just about read my salah , I don’t know what to do and also regarding istighfar how do I stay consistent with it even after doing it for months on end with no sign of any doors opening and how do I go back to asking Allah swt for ease and asking him for things I feel like after all this sinning I don’t even deserve it , after I read my salah I don’t even do dua I feel like I don’t even deserve to talk to Allah swt and if I do it won’t help me because I’ve done so much sins . Plz give advice

For the past week I have been relapsing every single day basically, normally I would sincerely repent with tears but I don’t even find myself feeling guilty, normally I would do dhikr but I don’t even do that - my deen is at rock bottom don’t think it’s ever been this bad I have bad thoughts of Allah swt ,rn I’m going thru hardship and I’ find myself feeling envious of others and angry about my own circumstances. Plz give advice

Salaam, 3months ago I left my job because the wage was very bad and I had the thought in my mind at the time that Allah swt is Ar Razzaq I’ll find a better one ( the unemployment is a test from Allah swt to see if I firmly believe that)

Since then I’ve became very lazy - when I had a job I had somewhat a decent routine but now during my unemployment days this is what I do - I wake up at like 2pm even sometimes at 4pm ( I would of fell asleep at 4am the previous night as I stay awake for fajr which is at 1am in the uk and after that I normally stay awake as I can’t sleep and doomscroll ) I make sure I’m consistent with my dhikr so I do 2,000 istighfar and 200 salawat, I pray my salah, read few pages of Quran and I apply for jobs , when I’m not doing any of those things I’m either doom scrolling , watching something on Netflix or playing with my baby sister(playing with my baby sister is the only thing I do that is kind of beneficial) I have no hobbies at all and I feel like such a loser .

I hate this routine it makes me feel like I’m just being a burden for everyone in my household. can anyone give me advice on how to stop doomscrolling and what I can do in my spare time. Doomscrolling is just a waste of time and time is the most valuable thing we are given by Allah swt but I just find myself always doing it.(Just To clarify I just turned 18)

Salaam, 3months ago I left my job because the wage was very bad and I had the thought in my mind at the time that Allah swt is Ar Razzaq I’ll find a better one ( the unemployment is a test from Allah swt to see if I firmly believe that)

Since then I’ve became very lazy - when I had a job I had somewhat a decent routine but now during my unemployment days this is what I do - I wake up at like 2pm even sometimes at 4pm ( I would of fell asleep at 4am the previous night as I stay awake for fajr which is at 1am in the uk and after that I normally stay awake as I can’t sleep and doomscroll ) I make sure I’m consistent with my dhikr so I do 2,000 istighfar and 200 salawat, I pray my salah, read few pages of Quran and I apply for jobs , when I’m not doing any of those things I’m either doom scrolling , watching something on Netflix or playing with my baby sister(playing with my baby sister is the only thing I do that is kind of beneficial) I have no hobbies at all and I feel like such a loser .

I hate this routine it makes me feel like I’m just being a burden for everyone in my household. can anyone give me advice on how to stop doomscrolling and what I can do in my spare time. Doomscrolling is just a waste of time and time is the most valuable thing we are given by Allah swt but I just find myself always doing it.(Just To clarify I just turned 18)

I’m 17 and I’m from Uk and I’m going to be finishing college with lvl3 light vehicle diploma, my dad will be able to get me into an apprenticeship as he works in the council , I’ll be honest the time I’ve been at college I haven’t learnt that much at all and I’ve just about been passing the exams. I’m scared that cause I’ve got the lvl3 diploma behind me the ppl I’m going to be working under at the apprenticeship wil expect me to know so much while I just about know the basics and can barely use the tools. I like cars but my lack of knowledge is an issue ,me going along with this apprenticeship do you think it will help???

I’m 17 and I’m from Uk and I’m going to be finishing college with lvl3 light vehicle diploma, my dad will be able to get me into an apprenticeship as he works in the council , I’ll be honest the time I’ve been at college I haven’t learnt that much at all and I’ve just about been passing the exams. I’m scared that cause I’ve got the lvl3 diploma behind me the ppl I’m going to be working under at the apprenticeship wil expect me to know so much while I just about know the basics and can barely use the tools. I like cars but my lack of knowledge is an issue ,me going along with this apprenticeship do you think it will help???