u/interkittent

A while ago I bought a jsk from vinted and felt good in it so I ended up buying a bunch of other things, but the issue is I just never wear them. It's both cause I just feel really uncomfortable with all the layers and different elements and also I just feel like I look dumb and too much and not like myself. Which sucks cause I like the clothes I got and I think other people look really beautiful in their coords but yeah. I tried to wear stuff at home just to chill and get used to them but even then I feel really uncomfortable after a few minutes. So maybe it just isn't for me but not sure if I'd regret selling most of my things.

I think the issue partially is that I tend to like really simple/old school stuff like this or this and most of the clothes I have are at least a bit busier than this. But also not sure if I should experiment with getting even more things lol

I really love all my lolita clothes but whenever I try to wear them when I have a bad hair day or look tired or stuff like that I just end up feeling worse, like I don't look good enough for these types of clothes and just can't stand wearing them. But when I genereally feel good about how I look then I love to wear them and really feel like myself in them. I'm pretty new to lolita and like other styles too so I wouldn't wanna dress like this every day but rn I feel like I don't wear my clothes enough even though I want to.