Feel like I have married a wrong woman
I don't know how to say this. I am new to Redditt and never posted like this before. The community which I belong to has arrange marriages quite common. Parents arranged this girl for me and it felt ok at the beginning. We have our Courtship period of about 10 months. During that period at around 3rd or 4rth month, I felt something strange. She was so available at the start, like love bombing, but afterwards it was a bit slow. I understood that we were in different time zones and both are working and its fine.
Afterwards, her male friends. She has many male friends. It kind of bothered me. When I asked her, she said womens are not good friends (like they are jealous of each other). She drinks along with her friends(male friends) and on many occassions. I thought for once in August to break it off but I didn't. I started ignoring her and kept the focus on my shit. She felt it and said that you llok sad I am coming over to Australia.
She came in September, and I brought her flowers. The reaction was terrible. She said she does not like flowers, I mean appreciate the gesture for once. She is quite controlling as we have started living together, such a social media addict. She is setting up her boundaries quite straight. I don't feel like coming home after work these says. I am working more hours and picking up more work as she cannot work atm (does not have any work visa). Her birthday is coming up and she wanted an S26 Ultra.
I have been living single for like a decade. Is it something familiar?
Should I be worried? Is my single life is the reason that I have trouble adjusting? Or is she is a Narcissist person? I mean she fucking cooks me dinner and tell me 10 times, us should not eat that much, look out for your weight. FMD I am working hard on site, no one sees that. I am in a dilemma mate, I don't know if this relation is gonna work or not.