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This is how the timeline appears to have unfolded:
They went on a few dates initially, but by both of their accounts, it wasn’t especially romantic. Allie said they only exchanged side hugs, and Steven even claimed he called his mother afterward and said, “I think I made a business partner, but I don’t think she’s into me.”
Then Allie’s lease opportunity in New York fell through, leaving her without a place to stay for several months. Steven convinced her to come to the ranch and film with him. That’s a highly unconventional way to get to know someone. Instead of building a relationship through normal dating, they were suddenly together virtually 24/7, surrounded by a production crew for long days over the course of several weeks.
During filming, their relationship accelerated rapidly. They became intimate, Steven was love-bombing & talking about the future, and everything seemed to move at lightning speed inside of this isolated bubble. It may have been exciting, but it also may have been overwhelming for Allie. Since she was already contractually committed to the show, she likely couldn’t simply walk away if she started having doubts.
After filming wrapped, they took a few trips together. Steven met her family in Texas, they spent time together in Los Angeles, and they continued creating content for her growing Instagram and TikTok brand.
Then came Stagecoach. For Allie, it wasn’t just a music festival; it was work. She had commitments with numerous brands to create content and model their clothing. Steven didn’t even want to attend because he dislikes festivals, but he also didn’t want her going without him because he was worried she might end up in a situation where she could be unfaithful.
The day before the festival, they had a conversation about the future, including the possibility of getting engaged or married by the end of the year. Whether they were equally enthusiastic about that vision is impossible to know, but it’s not hard to imagine that one person may have been more invested than the other. (Clearly)
Steven eventually left Stagecoach early to return to the ranch for work. Allie stayed behind, attended an after-party, had a few too many drinks, and spent time dancing with friends, including one male friend at an after party where there was an alleged lap dance and some time alone together in a room. The now-infamous videos were recorded and sent to Steven. We saw the one of her standing next to someone at a concert but Steven claims there’s way worse ones that are incriminating and prove she cheated (I don’t believe this)
What happened next became public. Steven crashed out & went on Instagram, publicly insulting her and calling her degrading names like HOOKER/wh*re etc. Whether or not he felt betrayed, the nature of his response was humiliating and inappropriate ESPECIALLY given Allie’s work and brand deals. He knew that. He was trying to hit her where it hurt & it worked.
Allie replies with her now infamous text “you’ll never hear from me again” I think Allie had already been questioning whether the relationship was right for her and had one foot out the door… & the public fallout may have given her the perfect opportunity (and clarity) to walk away from something that, deep down, never felt quite right.

Obviously, I could be wrong. But I am basing my information on various podcasts/interviews/content that each of them have posted.

For the psychology nerds in the sub Steven is beyond fascinating 🙋‍♀️ The Oedipus complex is Freud’s theory about unresolved childhood attachment to one’s mother & how it shapes adult relationships with women. The Madonna–whore complex is when someone mentally divides women into those they can love and respect versus those they can sexually desire but struggles to do both with the same person. Aka— in the beginning of the relationship you are a sexualized goddess they worship & then once the limerence stage is over you become their care-taker/ mother and your sexuality is weaponized against you.

Lots of speculation about Steven dating again as well as his Instagram activity. Allie posted this last night 📸 I don’t think she was trying to be subtle about it 😎 The man in the photo is from a previous post and someone who knew her personally said here that it’s her wealthy ex boyfriend from Austin. I don’t know his name. And before any Karen’s complain about the amount of Allie posts…. she’s new cast and a big part of this season’s story line so let us live! This is what Reddit is for 🫖

Since they’ve been purchased by Bravo do you think there will be a reunion? After everything that has gone down since filming I would LOVE to see a reunion. Dear Andy/ Bravo TV… please make this happen 🙏 🍿

well…high school aged, that is.

A couple former boyfriends of Allie’s (one ex husband) all athletes as someone else who knew her mentioned. And a few pre-plastic surgery photos. I actually think she looks way better before. Also, not throwing shade at her—- everyone has exes & plenty of people look much different when they were younger. But when you put yourself on national television people become curious about who you are so it’s fair to discuss in my opinion.
EDIT: to clarify- It’s at least 2 men. One is her ex husband Garrett Grayson. The other guy is Trevor Knight. The man from the boat I’m unsure of

Will 2/3 of these boys be heading to prison soon?

After watching the preview of next week’s episode and her comments about Steven lasting 20 seconds in bed— (as well as her seeming like she’s acting and hyper aware of the cameras) — do we we think she’s a mean girl who’s “bubbly happy-go-lucky” thing is just an act?? 🍿 (We already know Steven is mean! That’s not in question lol)

He comes off as the sweet/ self controlled one. Maybe that’s not the case after all 🫢 Definitely explains the wedding freak-out and him deleting Instagram. His wife Allie gives me Tanya Tucker vibes (Stand By Your Man) BUT she got upset about the prenup and there was never one signed so this makes me wonder if she has one foot out the door ….

My two cents after watching the premiere ….. I see zero chemistry between these two. He’s WAY more into her than she’s into him and it’s pretty cringe to watch. Especially her recoil when he went in for that kiss 😆 I think he’s use to having women fawn over him so the fact that she was hard to get and not very interested is why he fell so hard and wanted to marry her so fast. Genuinely think she just finally agreed to date him for the exposure (and I’m not shading her) she is a successful influencer and this is good for her brand.