Is it weird that I still go to the club where my boyfriend was assaulted?
Hi guys! I’ve never posted on reddit before so please be patient with me. My (18F) boyfriend (18M) and I went to a club for the first time with some friends a few months ago. It was both of our first time in the club and it was a gay club (we’re both bisexual please don’t come for us). We were especially careful of being safe, mainly focused on me as I’m a girl, which was a big mistake. He went to the bathroom and I told him to go (I hate public bathrooms because I’m a germaphobe) and we were both alone while he went. Big mistake I know!!! He came back and told me he had spilt his drink down his front (he was shirtless) and a girl he didn’t know had licked it off. We left immediately and he’s mostly gotten over it. Obviously I feel terrible for leaving him alone but this isn’t what the post is about. I returned to that club with my gay best friend last week and had an absolutely amazing time. I had asked my boyfriend before we went if he was okay with it and he said it was fine. He didn’t show any body language that said he wasn’t okay with it. I’m not posting this because he called me out for going back, I’m feeling guilty in my own mind. Is it wrong to go there even if he says it’s okay?? Any advice would be really appreciated.