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Lisa Rinna ( soap star, Harry Hamlins wife, RHOBH housewife) wrote a memoir years ago and provided advice on giving a blowjob that gives the impression of deep throating without doing it. sharing below. thoughts?

The Seal and the Ring

This is a great technique I learned from Lou. Basically, it is the first and most important step to giving great oral sex.

Form the Seal by closing your thumb and index finger around your mouth like you're making the "okay" sign. Then with your thumb and forefinger, tighten and release the pressure. This, known as the Ring, controls how deeply the penis enters your mouth. By using the Seal and the Ring, you can create a deep-throat sensation without taking the entire penis into your mouth (this move also prevents gagging).

Continue to let your hands help you. Use your Seal and Ring hand to twist the shaft. And don't forget "the stepchildren" (Lou's term for the testicles, as they tend to be ignored). With your free hand, fondle or stroke his testicles very lightly.

And remember, technique is important, as you don't want to hurt anything (cover those teeth!), but enthusiasm and willingness are just as important. Your partner's response will give you all the encouragement you need

I’m intimidated by them. When I get sent pics on sniffies or the other apps they stop me in my tracks. I’m much taller than 6’3 and have a bear build.. belly and ass included. The guys that reach out tend to be more endowed. 7” plus. I had one tell me that big asses are made for big dicks. in a way I can see what he meant as a longer dick would get through meatier asses and still have enough left when it goes inside. But depending on position almost any size can get inside so he may have just been horny lol

I don’t know I just think it would hurt both length and girthwise. Or become difficult orally. maybe the picture angles make some appear larger than they actually are. All the dicks I’ve encountered in person have been 6” or less and it’s been wonderful. But I haven’t yet tackled one larger.

how have some of you gotten used to pleasuring larger dicks orally/anally in a way that feels good to you? For those that douche do you do it differently if the dick will be bigger

It’s a ridiculous problem to have, but it’s a bit of a mental block for me and I want to get past it

If there are past posts that talk about it, I can search deeper here.