u/itheopacarophile

Why couldn't Rory answer this question? She and Dean talk a lot about so much. Movies, music, books, life. They argue about issues and make up. They discuss, they communicate.

The writers annoy me sometimes.

And then when they make her date Jess, who they are setting up to supposedly be soo deep and have so much to talk about.... They make him her worst boyfriend who barely communicates.

With how close they are to the Headmaster?

I fell like he would have seen "Lorelai Gilmore" and known that was their granddaughter.

Some actors think that yelling and shouting is the best type of acting so it could be this.

But Dean yells at everyone... Rory, Luke, Jess, even Kirk!

Everyone else is looking for their mail merely annoyed... He is angry. Yelling.

Edit:

I think a lot of people got defensive about this.

I'm not looking for explanations or excuses why he yells... Yes, Rory was emotionally cheating and gaslighting him. Yes, Luke. Yes, Richard. Yes, Lorelai... Yes Yes Yes. You can make a thousand reasons for his yelling.

I am just pointing out how frequent and jarring his yelling is.

Instead of just going along with whatever Lorelai thinks.

Whether she sticks with it or not. I like to see her own personality fight through...

I am watching this scene and Lorelai genuinely thinks it was okay to just invite Dean to watch the movie with them without asking Rory first...

Its almost the same as Emily inviting Rory's schoolmates to her Birthday party without asking her first.

Then Lorelai is offended that Rory compares her to Emily.

Why did Lorelai tell Emily she was at a wake for the cat? After refusing to accompany her to the cousin's funeral?

Thoughtless or Careless?

I'm rewatching and wow... She was so upset. She even threw a tantrum in front of guests. And Rory is even scared to answer the question properly... It almost feels like Lorelai is the exact same as her mother.

Controlling.

The difference is that Lorelai doesn't have a wild child who fights back. She has Rory who asks her "are you mad"?

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