How to deal with my sister's clairvoyance/intuition about my relationship
My sister is extremely spiritual and says she receives messages/visions/intuitive thoughts. She recently told me that my current relationship is ‘not meant to last,’ that I’m repeating old patterns from my previous marriage, and that he's not the man for me, she said she was send very intense messages during the whole week and she didn't want to tell me because i was on a trip with him and she didn't want to cause me distress.
The issue is that this relationship actually feels very different to me from my previous one. We’ve been together for about two years (not just casually dating for a few weeks), and overall things are objectively going well. We support each other, I’m close to his family, and we were even discussing bigger future steps like moving in together (yes we're not rushing at all).
What makes this difficult is that my sister has had strong intuitions before that sometimes turned out to be accurate, so I can’t completely dismiss her perspective emotionally, but she also told me that one if the guy i was seeing was my soulmate and turn out it was a 4 month thing and i was heartbroken.
I also struggle with anxiety and attachment fears after a painful divorce caused by betrayal, so now I’m stuck overthinking everything and questioning whether I’m ignoring ‘warnings’ or just letting fear and external influence poison something that was actually making me happy. I do trust my sister and we're very close so this is not her being a jerk or anything like that.
I’m not really looking for people to tell me ‘your sister is crazy’ or ‘all intuition is fake.’ I’m more interested in hearing from people who are spiritual/intuitive themselves: how are you supposed to handle this kind of information in a healthy way without becoming paranoid, hypervigilant, or sabotaging your own relationship?
Thanks for reading !!