u/its_ashlayyy

ok so starting off, i know my bf loves me and i love him. weve been together for 2.5 years.
but sometimes i feel like i cant get his attention like i used to. he seems very focused on his phone when we are by ourselves, or like when were riding in the car (which i understand) but when hes around people like his friends at work or whatever, hes so happy and laughy. i get jealous and insecure that im doing something wrong… he is also always on his phone when im not around, so why doesnt he answer my messages most of the time?
when i bring this up, hes seems very quiet or says something like thats not what happens. hes not mean, hateful, or mad, but if i bring it up so much he does get irritated.
what can i do?