u/itsproducer_kayz

Dating apps, social media, and even casual encounters make it seem like we have endless options. Swipe left, swipe right, DM here, number there… but when you step back, most of those choices feel like angori different doors leading to the same hallway.

The illusion is that we’re choosing between unique partners, but often it’s just the same patterns repeating, shallow conversations, recycled attention, or people chasing validation especially ipapa I think most girls are seeking male validation . It makes me wonder, are we really choosing partners, or just picking different packaging for the same outcome?

Sometimes I think the only real choice is refusing to play into the illusion at all protecting your peace instead of chasing another option that isn’t truly different. Time is precious we could use all that energy juggling between 5 people in other productive endeavors.

So as I was on Facebook reels I came across this podcast, I forgot the name. There was a lady there ranting on and on saying that if there was no sugar daddies "madhara" anouya Kuma university kutsoma these gals there would have been a lot of school dropouts.

well that's just a bunch of bullshit I don't think none of these gals are spreading their coochies for these madhara's for tuition or even accomodation if they are in Rez. it's probably for the rich lavish lifestyle they wanna enjoy the outings and fancy shit. Also no matter how deranged a family is 9/10 they won't be sending out their young daughter out into the jungles of tertiary with inadequate tools. They always have the necessities but lack of sexual discipline and peer pressure has forced our young sistas into this lifestyle.

So how can we as a society and siblings or parents help our young sistas from this.

Before y'all come at me let me explain a bit. I'm not really interested in the girl's money but I would actually like to be with someone who has something going for her in her own life. It's not like I want her to be like that tungwarara kid rich but have some kind of stability.

There are gals where you find out that she isn't doing nothing with her life at the moment like school or work you'll definitely know that you're gonna be billed most of the time , like my data is finished, I'm craving this and this yooh .

So lastly I'm gonna say if she's not gonna help me make money, save money, manage money or bring in money she's worthless.

I have seen a lot of people saying that women will forgive men for cheating but frankly I think that's a lie. When you're married this is a whole different kind of issue, it might seem like they have forgiven you on the surface but deep down they resent you and probably might wanna kill you in your sleep. So you can think everything is ok but I advice you to get a DNA test for junior he or she might not be yours lol.