Looking for your thoughts (non swingers at swinger events)
A few years ago, I posted as a non-swinger looking for thoughts from people in the lifestyle about people who are not in the lifestyle attending your events. That would be us. We have a lot of swinger friends, enjoy hanging with our swinger friends, and enjoy parties filled with swingers.
When I mentioned this on a forum a while ago, I didn't get many replies, but those that I did get were negative. They tended to be along the lines of "get lost!" And while I totally understand that, I wanted to do a better job of explaining this time around and see what you thought.
We are firmly in the "over 40" age demographic. For people who love to dance, drink, and party, the options are few and far between. And if you like to go to themed parties and dress for the theme, the options are nonexistent. My wife loves to dress sexy, flirt, dance, and just about everything associated with the lifestyle except the actual "lifestyle". I am similar.
So, with that said, would you tolerate people like us showing up to your parties, or would it upset you? My friends make it sound like it's no big deal and encourage us to come, but then again, they are our friends. I'm curious to see what a non-friend would think.