u/jaderacecar

So I’m in a relationship with a guy I’m completely in love with. Everything about the relationship is perfect including the sex life. Before I was with him I was in a relationship with another girl for many years and neither she nor I watched porn. My boyfriend was always very open and honest about his casual watching of porn a couple times a week or something. (We don’t live together for context) tbh I don’t see the problem because I kinda always thought that was a common thing for men and my boyfriend said he doesn’t watch for the girls that are in it. Even as I typed that out though it sounds stupid to me. It grosses me out thinking about him getting off to other women because even if he says it’s not for them that’s what I feel like it’s about mostly. Essentially I want to know if any of you men out there watch porn and it genuinely is a casual thing for you? Or should I be concerned?

In two weeks it’ll be 4 months since I’ve been on the Mini pill. At first everything was fine with no symptoms until what I think was the 2nd week of the 2nd month being on it. I started getting double periods and even random spotting for sometimes up to a couple days during the month. I’ve heard this is all normal with the mini pill sometimes so I’m not all that concerned. But yesterday morning I woke up and the first thing that hit me was overwhelming depression I couldn’t stop crying trying to get ready for work and then I started getting insane cramps a few hours later. Now I’m full blown dealing with my period exactly two weeks after my last one and the pain and amount I’m bleeding is extremely heavy for what’s normal for me. Not to mention the cramps are very intense. Im just so irritated by how irregular it’s made me because it’s fucking with my sex life and the mood swings before and during bleeding is worse than ever. I almost quit completely last night and didn’t take my next pill but I read that if I stop at the end of the pack it can help regulate me 🤷‍♀️ idk what should I do people