u/jam_chillin

30 [F4F] Cant a girl get pretty friends

I've only been in Cebu for like 3yrs, moved here for work but now WFH na and still stuck in Cebu bc I have a bf here.

3yrs now and I still dont have people that I could really call "friends", esp women. I mean I know people, I have hometown friends who live here too, but people my age have kids and families already. We dont get to hangout or do the same things anymore.

Bf has a lot of friends, but those are guy friends, tho I'm comfortable with them, I just want girlfriends who I can relate to.

This might sound sad but I swear I've been fine with it for a long time. But since wfh, I need a change of pace for my sanity. I wanna be able to go cafe-hopping, visit pop-up markets or have brunch, without dragging my bf's ass everywhere.

I'm also an introvert so I cant just go up to people and talk to them lol. And again, wfh, so I dont get to meet people casually.

Im mestiza, kinda good looking, curly hair, 5'3, a creative, cozy gamer, politically opinionated, Marvel fan, loves good food and matcha, and the beach!

Basically, I'm just here to look for friends that are sponti, fun, a little wild, and who could bring a much needed CHAOS in my life.

I work at nights, so im off limits by then. Tell me your fun stories and I'll live vicariously through you. Only women PLS. lol

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u/jam_chillin — 3 days ago