r/cebur4r_dating

Try lang let’s talk it out.

35M, single, working professional, and trying my luck here because why not 😄

I’m into endurance activities, staying active, random road trips, food trips, and conversations.

A bit about me:
• 35 y.o
• Single
• Family-oriented
• Respectful and easygoing
• Into fitness
• Can carry conversations and actually replies 😅
• More into peace, loyalty, and simple things these days

Not really rushing into anything. Open to friendship, constant kausap, dates, or seeing where things naturally go. If you enjoy coffee, food trips and If you have stories to tell and good energy, we’ll probably get along.

I am seriously going crazy over this girl, and my anxiety is through the roof right now. 😭 I finally scored a date with her, but I am so nervous about where to bring her. I really don't want to mess this up.

Here is the thing she is not into those super fancy, intimidating fine dining setups. She told me before that she loves cozy, aesthetic cafes with good coffee, pretty interiors for her Instagram, and maybe some really good pasta or pastries. She also prefers quiet, chill places where we can actually sit down, talk, and get to know each other, instead of loud bars or crowded malls.

Please recco 🥹

Let’s be each others constants :))

Hi, I want to get into the dating scene but want to take it slowly. For now, I'm only asking for one date maybe could be more if we fit each other's bill.

About me:

- Working Professional

- Interests: Anime, Manga, Manhwa, Games, Fanfiction, AUs, Books, Movies/Films, Series, Music, Musical/Broadway, BL, Travel

- MBTI: INTJ

- 5'2, 62kg

- Politics: Left Wing (Leni Robredo Voter)

About You:

- SINGLE

- Working

- Slim / Fit / Normal / SLIGHTLY Chubby

- Taller than me

- GENTLEMEN

- Politics: Left Wing (DDS/BBM are not welcome here)

This is a SFW only thing. We can discuss through chat the date plan. Please give me an interesting introduction.

Also down the line i will be asking details about you like: physical characteristics/attributes, job etc. Please get ready to answer since I will share as well.

Before the date, my plan is that we will video chat to avoid potential scammers.

Share xad sa imohang thoughts para ma gorabels ra atong convo

About me:

5'0

registered civil engineer

sad gurl

It’s been a while since I went on a date and I missed the fun and little kilig after the date went well. I missed having a constant whom I can talk daily. I feel like I missed out a lot when I chose not to date when I was in school/univ. Now, I am all out of options. Everyone’s either hooking up or already taken. This is a long shot, but I don’t want to not give this a chance.

Dili sad ko makaexperience anang organic encounter kay sigi ra kog puyo sa balay so if you want a partner nga dili laagan, ako jud ni.

About me:

- skinny

- 5’0

- people say im a 7 or 8 (but i rate myself a 6)

- i have a lot of scars that im still trying to get rid of

- employed

- i dance

About you:

- i hope you’re at least 5’5 (just a preference since it’s the cutest height diff for me)

- i hope you’re as blunt as me. we’re adults now. let’s be upfront with our intentions

- i hope you’re around 26-30

- i hope you’re okay with chatting first until i get comfortable to meet u

- i hope you’re okay with exchanging pictures first

- i hope you’re not a dds or a marcos apologist or an elitist

Hiii I'm new here :) since I'll be moving to Cebu on July to study at Cebu Doctors' Univ, I'm here to find friends or someone to connect/talk to since I'm from mindanao.

About me:

- 42kg

- 154cm

- Olive skin tone

- likes cats

- loves to watch movies & series

- I'm pursuing a second degree at CDU

- funny (as my friends said lol)

- easy going

Does anyone wanna go out? I don't wanna bed rot today. We can eat out 🙇‍♀️

Hey everybody! would love to invite you sa among gc if you want to join esp those people na ganahan mag run/hike or any hobbies kay welcome rapod didto. Pwde pod pang side quest and bardagulan if ma boringan.

Char lng kinsay molibre jabee dra guys gutom kaau as in nursing student ko now gatuon i need food but nahurot na ako allowance 😞

I’m 34F currently single.
Ladies be careful of whom you date and filter it out
Some men are just too good to be true

Guys if you aren’t over your ex, pls don’t even try to date

‼️ Kinda Long Story ‼️

I just wanna share this and maybe get some enlightenment from you guys.

Me (25M) met someone here on Reddit (25F) last year. I’ll call her Nics. Honestly, she’s one of the prettiest girls I’ve ever met. Chinita, cute, slightly chubby, very feminine manamit. Exactly my type gyud. If the timing and situation were right, manguyab gyud unta ko niya.

She replied to one of my posts, then nag exchange mig pics sa TG. We appreciated each other’s photos and decided to eat at Tamp after 3 days. Funny enough, late siya almost 1 hour so medyo nahasol ko kay syempre first impressions matter. Pero pag abot niya? Na erase tanan. Grabe ka pretty and super fun kasturya.

After lunch we watched a movie, things got spicy, we kissed, almost did the deed. She told me she “liked me a lot,” and honestly I felt the same.

But after that first date, things became confusing.
Our texts were very minimal. Slow replies, sometimes 20 to 30 minutes, sometimes whole days without replies. Pero okay ra unta kay dili man mi uyab and she told me daan nga dili gyud siya hilig mag text and she sleeps a lot. I understood that.

Over the next 4 months, nagkita mi 3 more times. This time we already did the deed every date. Every time magkita mi, sweet kaayo siya. She would tell me she misses me, thinks about me all the time, really likes me, and wants to try harder sa communication. Every time she comes back, I fall harder.

Then after every date… mura rag mawala siya.

Cold again. Barely replies. Sometimes nothing at all.

Then 2 months passed with zero contact. I even deactivated my IG because sige kog stalk sa iya stories and it was honestly messing with my head.

Then suddenly, she messaged me again asking if gusto ba ko makig eat out. Of course niyes ko immediately.

Nag VL pa gani ko sa work just to see her.

That day felt perfect. Nag samgyup mi, she bought me ice cream, holding hands, smiling at each other, very sweet gyud. We watched another movie did the deed and honestly that was probably our best “performance” together lol.

Again she told me:
“I miss you.”
“I always think about you.”
“I’m sorry wala ko nagparamdam.”

She even made plans with me for the following week. Pilates daw mi and she told me to text her when naa ko sa akong work site near her place.

For the first time, I genuinely thought:
“Okay, maybe this is finally our turning point.”
After the date she texted me nga nakauli na siya and matulog na.

Then pagka ugma…

Nothing.
No texts.
No replies.
No updates.

2 weeks na and still nothing.

I honestly feel sad and a little stupid. Murag napaasa ko. Murag backburner ra ko niya. Like someone she remembers only when convenient or when she feels lonely.

The gym honestly saved me a bit kay didto nako ginagawas tanan emotions. Pero after workouts, usahay magamit gihapon kog burner account just to stalk her stories.

Part of me wants to move on.
Part of me keeps hoping she’ll message again.

I really don’t know what to do anymore.

mingaw man ang life walay bebeboi. lover girl in me wants to find the right person, and i hope i do get to find him.

about me

25

5'5

Chinita

Working professional

about you:

same age or older

at least 5'6

working professional

see you sa inbox :)

friends?

I prefer genuine connections and good conversations.

I’m 28, around 5’6–5’7 ata ko pero ipa-double check pa nako lol. Into archery, running, reading, gym, and trying new things pud. Ana sila arangan daw kog nawng ug murag pirmi naka-aircon haha, pero ikaw na bahala judge ana.

Anyways, padung na pud ko 30 so medyo gi-accept na nako nga basin single jud forever hahaha. Pero yeah, ganahan lang ko mo side quest, meet good people, and make genuine memories along the way.

If naa moy ma suggest or interested makig connect, let me know. Thanks!

looking for someone ka chika ♡

kanang dili dry katalk pls 😭 i wanna talk to someone nga naay substance, fun, medyo nerdy, and kaya makig sabay ug random topics at 2am HAHAHBAAHZhAHA. someone who can listen pud and dili puro small talk lang.

preferences:
• older than me
• taller than me (5’3 ra ko 😔)
• if naka glasses, plus points kaayo fr
• good listener + funny sad

about me:
chinita, 5’3, college student, super yapper, chubbyy and currently into fitness🤞🏼

First time on here :> I’m looking for someone to connect/talk to and let’s see if we vibe!

A little about me:

- 24
- licensed professional
- 164cm (5’4 1/2)
- 53kg
- fair
- wears glasses but hates them
- i read a lot
- vv family oriented and a cat lover hehe
- kind of sensitive but will lash it out when crossed lol
- i’ve only ever been in one rs in my life. I don’t go around.
- I’m a girly girl. I like make up, bags, and cute things. I enjoy dressing up and looking good.
- I sometimes play pickleball and go running.

I’m looking for:
-someone taller than me pls!! When i say I’m 164cm that’s from my medical exam (not lying ab it). I’ve dated someone around my height and it didn’t turn out well lol so maybe mas naa pay chance sa taller dudes
- a gentleman. I don’t need to explain loll
- idc if you’re moreno, chinito, mestizo, all those identification blabla basta you’re clean looking and you know how to pick up after yourself !
- a kind person. kind to animals, children, elderly
- someone who’s maybe into sports/ fitness
- it’s a plus if you also read but it’s ok if you don’t
- a professional/college graduate

I’m open to sharing pics/igs

I wanna make my weekends memorable. I wanted to try hiking, running, tennis, cafe hopping, and more.

Note: I'm a beginner though.

Please include me if you have groups for the above-mentioned. I wanna make most of my weekends.