r/cebur4r_dating

Is the promise where "If I/we reach 30+ yrs old, can we try again" something to hold on to or not?

For context, this kind of promise was presented to me by my ex, then followed with my recent situationship. I figured na if I held on and be there, they'd think of me and possibly "fast track" the process. Sadly puros nang ghost sa ako efforts but still tried (I'm dense af in reading if they don't wanna see me anymore cuz they didn't explicitly say).

Few weeks later, I got some chika where naa na daw sila bag.o and said chika has been a source of my anxieties for chasing new relationships. I opened up this weird promise thing to a friend of mine and said it was sketchy cuz I became a "plan B" or the "settle for less" option.

So I wanna ask the others dri if promises or statements like this something to look forward to? I just need closure to know I'm not closing opportunities especially since I was ready to commit and be serious on these relationships (not at the same time, separately). I don't even know what the norm of dating is, so di ko ganahan mag badmouth about how they do their thing even if it hurts me (or rather hurting myself since all this overthinking kay ako rang binuhat lol).

TLDR: Two relationships of mine have been turned down, but left with a promise na "when they're 30+, I can try again". Is it worth the wait when I'm hearing rumors that they're seeing someone?

Hi. Anyone up for a sfw date? Just get to know each other and see how things unfold. I’m not in a hurry for something, I just miss the dating life haha

Got fucking baited by this guy I talked to here. “Chubby” daw pero we swapped pics and socials and the guy was FUCKING MASSIVE.

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, OWN YOUR WEIGHT!

34 • 5’5• 50kg • Morena • Slim • Face card never declines 10/10

I’m happiest exploring new places, trying local food, and collecting memories instead of souvenirs. I never say no to good coffee, beaches, sunsets, road trips, and ’80s/’90s music.

This weather has me craving good coffee and even better conversation. Looking for someone who’s easy to talk to, has a great sense of humor, and enjoys café hopping.

If you’re around Cebu, recommend your favorite coffee spot or convince me why we should try yours.

First post here since last year.

Happy weekend! Laaya oy e date ko please i wanna get out aris balay.
No to hook ups lang. Wholesome lang unta, i wanna have deep conversations with someone. Sometimes i think opening up to a stranger feels better.

Hmu!

Have you ever wonder why how ships stay afloat no matter how big or small, new or old it is? I sometimes wonder too, I see ships that are old and rusty and it still stays afloat. Most ships that are tested by time are regularly the most trusted ships by their captains, or it could be of a doubt thought by passengers and onlookers because of how shaky it looks.

So somehow I learned of the Archimedes’ Principle. This principle says that a boat floats when the weight of the water it displaces is equal to or greater than its weight, called buoyancy force. I think ships are awesome and the older it works, the greater it sails.

Bitaw oy, sorry ha nga gi bombahan ra tikag intro nga way hinungdan, para ra ni ma distract ka gamay hahaha.
So when does our ship sail? Uban ships raba no kay nag dugay gyud kay buoyant ra silag vibes, an example would be your parents or older couples. Maytag e ship ta ni Lord nya di ta ma capsize dayon ba hahaha

Me?
- 5’10”, standard to dadbod body
- a working professional
- previously had unique hobbies, wanting to go back but never had the drive to.
- diverse humor and somehow a journey storyteller.

You?
- someone that I can feel like home, also MAKE and KEEP a good conversation going.
- a very interesting and interested person is a plus.
- nothing follows (bonus ra gyud ang uban)

Tara, let’s apply the principle and sail this ship that will stand the test of time! 🛳️

I've been on and off Reddit lately, mostly because I was looking for info about the job I'm applying for. So mao nato hurot na english, curious raku na a ba gyud nagmemeet diri? Patry daw ko haha

Abt me:

Moreno guro

5'7 🤦

Gwapo dili pero pwede na

Chill ra gyud taaaa

Iseen ra ninyo guyss

Looking for women gamers on Discord. I want to build genuine friendships first, see if there's chemistry. Let's game and chat!

This girl is officially done with her fun phase and is finally ready to date with intention. If you're on the same page, keep reading. 🤍

About me:

Fair-skinned, thicc, 5'2", gym girlie, confident, and working as a nurse. I love coffee, matcha, reading (yes, I own a Kindle), and binge-watching GOT and HOT. I also have a very unhealthy relationship with brain rot TikTok. I'm naturally extroverted, easy to talk to, and can get along with pretty much anyone. I'm tagalog btw but can understand and speak bisaya a bit (about 1/2). Can also do aircon or kanal humor or both if that matters hahaha

About you:

24–30 years old, good-looking (chinito or cute is a huge plus), medium to muscular build. Sorry, no lean or chubby guys.

Please have a car (I just wanna dress up pretty), be hygienic, respectful, emotionally available, and emotionally intelligent. You should also be willing to plan and shoulder the date. No students, please.

I'm open to a one-time date and seeing where things go if we genuinely click. No pressure—just good company with genuine intentions.

If you think we'd get along, send your details (no details = no reply). Please respect my preferences. See you in my DMs. ✨

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Dia kos laing nasud unya mingaw usahay. Ganahan lang ko makig chika ug unsa nay bag-o sa Sugbo. Asa nindot ikaon inig sunod uli nako puhon. Or kung kumusta na ka? Haha. Please kanang naa pud sense kastorya. Dli lang kog (n)sfw. Hehehe hmu if ganahan sab kag kasturya.

Helloooo. I’m bored and wala na jud ko mahimo here (tho gikapoy man gikan work, pero di lang gihapon ka sleep huhuhu). If nahan ka istorya, buhi pa ko!

me: alipin ng salapi, scrub suit, crocs user, ancillary dept.

Please please please reco your fav song/s!! 🎧

Huhu medjo baho ug hininga akong na meet, unsaon pagsulti? Tho nagproblema rako kay dili ra ako iyang ka meet everyday sa iyang layf

as in baho gyud iyang baba, dili sa pag saway but idk if aware ba siya

Knsay up makig chika og nonsense nako? Ganahan rako makipaglalis kay gisapot ko. Nya imong buhaton ra kay e calm down ko nya if ganahan ko makig away balik mo g raka HAHAHAHAHAH ayaw og balos. Pero unta cute ka para ganahan ko mangaway permi nimo ehehehehehehehe

Hello! Been in Cebu for a while now and still don’t really have friends outside of work. Looking for someone I can go on dates and side quests with. Help me discover the city more!

me: 28f, introverted but im trying, works in corpo, foodie, likes to read, single for 7 years now wow

you: around the same age, cebu city local or at least knows his way around, hopefully easy on the eyes, pls be single

dm me a short intro and let’s see how this goes

first time doing this! i’m really bored rn and kinda wanna go out for a drink with someone who’s outgoing and can literally talk about anything. i miss those random conversations while just sitting in the car and driving around :’)

So I have been hooked to the fifa world cup lately and just wanna know if there are other people here na interested sa topic. If so kindly drop the country you are rooting for in the comment section :))

Hi lets chikaaaa

Have you ever felt like your life is stuck in a loop?
Murag everyday, same ra gihapon. Work, chase a goal, achieve it… then somehow, empty na pud. Repeat.

No matter how much I accomplish, it never feels enough. Murag pirmi naay kulang, bisan wala ko kabalo unsa gyud.

I know this is a very common feeling, and daghan na siguro ang nakaagi ani. Pero I really need everyone’s tambag. Basin naa moy perspective o experience nga makatabang.

What is wrong with me? Why is it so hard to satisfy myself? Ngano lisod kaayo ma-content?
Tambagi ko, kuya. Ate. Unsa inyong gibuhat para makagawas mo ani? Did it ever get better?