u/jamieenchufemichelle

Im a 20F and Ive been super emotional lately about my sinus issues especially about finding out how chronic and clogged i am after not knowing for years. I work as a cna but with kids and ive been getting flares 1-3 times a month for the past 5 months consecutively and nothing seems to work. Usually i get them probably 4 times a year but now its been like 8-10 plus events and the year isnt even over yet. The mucus will stop pouring out of my face when the flare ends and just pour down my throat instead. I finally got a ct and it was just all grey on the right side and polyps as well and met with an ent and was told my adenoids are humongous and my septum is very deviated. Ive lived with this face pressure and neck pain and ear pain and nasal drip for so much of my life and i just cant believe it. I constantly feel terrible and dont want to do anything i feel exauhsted when i have no reason to be. Im always mouth breathing. We are trying one more round of antibiotics before we plan for surgery and i just feel so like relieved but also so like impatient i really want to feel better and enjoy my life again :(. Does anyone else just feel super worn down and unable to enjoy things cus they constantly dont feel good? Everytime i swallow i can just feel my adenoids and it feels so inflammed in upper part of my throat. I hope the antibiotics work or if surgery has to happen it happens soon and it goes well. Does anyone have any advice? Or would like to share there story?

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I had originally asked another sub but stumbled across this sub and i think this is the demographic id like to hear from.

im a 20F in a relationship with a 22m and he has been great to me. He suffered thru a lot of drug problems but got thru them and has helped me out a lot. Recently, he lost his amazing job and ive been kinda helping him out. Hes trying to get back on his feet but it hasnt been working out much. We stay together at either my dads apt or his moms. My dad is 67 and is retiring this year and is finally moving from the major city we live in back to his small town home to help his mom in her final years and be at peace. He wants me to come with and even invited my boyfriend to come with as well. Wed have a big house, no rent, nature everywhere and a true oppertunity to focus on our futures with out the burden of finances. If i stay here with him, we both would need to be working full time ( i live in a major California city to give u a hint ) to be able to live on top of going to school. i have Adhd and have been diagnosed since a kid luckily and i dont know if id be able to survive with that much going on when i already didnt do the best in school and i have big dreams. If i go with my dad, id be able to work as much as i please ans go to school without much worry. Id be able to start over some place new. Something i never got to experience when i was younger. I want him to come with me so bad but i dont know what to do weve been together 2 years and I just cant imagine leaving. This is the longest and most serious relationship ive had and i dont know if i should take on the weight of staying and risk falling down again with my only support being miles away on the east coast. Ive lived here my whole entire life never moved or anything and i just wonder whats out there. He seems like he doesnt want to come unless he absolutely just fails here. Its just so overwhelming and november is getting closer and closer.

My question is if this oppertunity was presented to u at my age what would u do? Would u regret not taking it? Maybe some similar stories or like good thoughtful advice ? Please let me know or ask me questions id be happy to elaborate

so i got super lucky and got hired at a pediatric clinic for my first job. But the bullying ive been enduring feels crazy and it all revolves around this one girl and other people as well. Everyone makes fun of me actively leaves me out of things and it’s every day ans hasnt lessened since the day i started. They have terrible clocking in and zero charting system besides a paper bathroom log and for my future i feel like maybe a SNF would be better for me. I eventually would like to work at a hospital while pursuing nursing. Although pediatrics is where my heart lands i honestly cant stand the environment and i love the job but going to work everyday feels like soooo terrible. I think the girl is going to quit soon but i cant help but feel
Like this isnt gonna end any time soon because its not just her. Like ill literally make a small mistake then get ganged up on laughed at then some how the whole clinic knows and is making fun of me. Ive only worked a month but i feel like i can make way more money as well. I kind of settles takinf the job for a lower wage jusy because it was pediatrics.

Should i apply to jobs and when i find one quit? Should i stay longer ans see if it ends ( its been 2 months) or am i over reacting?

Summary: work place bullying in peds facility makes me want to find a new job