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Is it selfish of me to not shave my down there?

I started to notice that mine is pretty thick and that my pubes sometimes fall below. I like wearing shorts because I'm sensitive to clothing in general. I really can't stand long ones. And when it comes to underwear, I prefer boxers, I can't stand tight fabric on my skin in general. The thing is, I'm starting to notice my pubes falling. I can deal with my room, but am I selfish for letting it happen outside my room? Outside the house? So far, whenever mine appears, the adults are chill about it. Most probably don't notice and the ones who do were understanding. I kinda feel bad tho.

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u/jaybanks1000 — 12 days ago
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Getting rid of the feeling of shame and guilt when it comes to masturbating and exploring?

I'm growing up in a place that's pretty reserved. No one really talks about puberty or anything related to it. Bodily functions are shamed. Can't/don't really talk to anyone irl abt it. So like I recently started to masturbate, but like sometimes I feel like it's wrong. Like it's just weird and idk if others do it. Sometimes I feel like I'm the only weirdo who does it. After reading stuff from this sub, I've noticed that ppl are saying it's healthy and fine. Exploring is also fine. And the minimum number of masturbation per month to avoid prostate problems is like 21. But how do I get rid of the feeling that it's wrong to masturbate and explore what I like? How did you do it?

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u/jaybanks1000 — 12 days ago
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Are penises supposed to grow much bigger in size when erect compared to flaccid? Mine doesn't grow much

Saw someone mention penis when flaccid and erect. Turns out usually penises grow much bigger when erect? Mine doesn't tho. I don't think the size changes much? Will it happen later on in puberty?

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u/jaybanks1000 — 13 days ago
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Using condom in my sleep to counter wet dreams?

Basically I'll be going on a trip and I'll be away from home and a lot of the conveniences for a while. I have regular wet dreams like 3-4 times a week. I posted something similar yesterday but people recommended getting tighter underwear or something. Thing is, I really don't like tight underwear or underwears in general. I'm pretty sensitive when it comes to clothings in general. My skin feels super uncomfortable. So I have this idea to use a condom while asleep so that when I do have a wet dream, it won't be noticeable. Do you think it's a good idea? It's just a temporary thing, it's not like I'll be away forever.

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u/jaybanks1000 — 13 days ago
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How to handle wet dreams when waking up

Sometimes I do get wet dreams and the bed just gets soiled. How do I deal with it when waking up? So far I wash my boxers on the sink, squeeze it and put it in the laundry. Would other ppl know? Kinda embarrassing ngl. Should i ask for a change of bed sheets or just leave it be? Idk if others can smell it and I'm just nose blind or something. Am I overthinking it? I just don't wanna make things awkward

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u/jaybanks1000 — 16 days ago

What's your experience like over the years?

I'm still new to nudism. Usually do it in my room but I have done it in the forest and at the beach. Looking to connect with other nudists. Preferably older and experienced nudists. I've chatted with people new to nudism but I'm curious how nudism has changed over the years and what you've experienced.

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u/jaybanks1000 — 16 days ago

Precum stains on underwear. Is there a way to handle it?

So idk if this is a common problem literally everyone has or not. Basically I produce a lot of precum to the point that it turns out the inside of my underwear is covered in it. I had no idea until recently. I'm very sure ppl who do my laundry noticed and it makes me pretty embarrassed. It's not just 1 drop or a tiny smudge. It's literally smeared. It ends up drying and becomes very visible and shiny. I don't really ejaculate often and whenever I do get an erection in the day, I just ignore it.

How do I handle this? I'm not sure of what to do.

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u/jaybanks1000 — 16 days ago

When should I stop exploring myself?

So I know that puberty is when we're curious about ourselves. Like literally everything about ourselves. I know ppl around me try out a lot of stuff, but like what's a good sign to stop and draw a line?

I'm talking about everything, but mostly exploring my own body. Like I didn't know that masturbating is actually ok but not if when done with porn for example. So like how do I know what I can and shouldn't do.

Like vaping for example. I know it's bad but my friends do it. But what if I didn't know? When's the moment I should question? Tbh I wanna try this thing called prostate massage but idk if that's overboard

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u/jaybanks1000 — 17 days ago

Not having the confidence to use the urinals because of my phimosis and pubes.

So I have a pinhole phimosis that's pretty small, probably the size of a pencil, and I'm not confident in using the urinals. I never really thought about it until I realised that mine looked different. Also, I don't shave and don't wanna shave which makes it stand out more I guess?

Another reason is because it kinda takes a while for me to pee. I can't just let it all out in one go. I gotta let it flow a bit slower and adjust it when needed.

What do you guys think of this? I don't wanna alter what's down there but idk

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u/jaybanks1000 — 1 month ago

Should guys shave regularly? Does it really matter?

So my pubes are usually very thick I think. I mean it looks like a jungle usually. It's pretty hard to shave ngl. Does it really matter if I don't shave it? Does it affect my hygiene or something? I'd like it to be natural. Is it uncommon to be natural? Also what's the best way to shave I'm curious?

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u/jaybanks1000 — 1 month ago

New to nudism. What do you guys usually do when nude?

I usually just chill and listen to music. Sometimes when I'm outside I go for a swim or lie down and look at the sky. What do you guys usually do during your nude sessions? Indoor, outdoors, group, solo it doesn't matter. I'm open to ideas

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u/jaybanks1000 — 1 month ago

I have a pinhole phimosis. Been stretching it for a while now. Slowly but surely getting used to it

So I have a pinhole phimosis. Can't pull back at all and the hole is pretty small. Decided to try out stretching and idk if it's working. For now I'm just getting used to the routine and sensation. It's not bad tbh. I'll keep updating my progress. Let me know if any of you have any experience in stretching foreskins

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u/jaybanks1000 — 1 month ago

How should I adapt my nudist lifestyle once winter comes?

So pretty new to the lifestyle and was having fun being nude outside during summer. But summer is over and the weather is getting colder. How do you guys adapt to that? Do more indoor nudity? Bring some kind of heater outside? Looking for some ideas to progress my nudist lifestyle even during winter. I don't wanna wait until next summer to try stuff outside

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u/jaybanks1000 — 1 month ago

Do you guys prefer to shave or be completely natural?

I'm new to nudism and I've never shaved anything other than my facial hair. Do any of you guys shave body hair? I can't decide what to to tbh....

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

Jelly-like semen? Is it normal?

I just noticed that I do let out semen that's kinda jelly like. I mean literally feels like it. Kinda solid. Do I need to get it checked or something?

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

Been stretching my phimosis for around a week. is it supposed to take a really long time for it to improve

So I have a pin hole phimosis and I've been stretching it for a week now. Is it supposed to take a really long time to improve? Hope I'm not getting scammed

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

Ideas for nudity locations?

So I'm new to the community and I usually do it in my room. I've already tried doing it in a forest and recently the beach. It was the most amazing experiences I've ever felt. What other locations should I try out? Open to suggestions! Also what are your experiences when it comes to locations?

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

I have a "pinhole" phimosis. Anyone else ever had it? Basically the opening is really small

So I have a "pinhole" phimosis. Does it go away naturally or would I need to do manual stretching over time? FYI I can't pull it back and the opening is really small

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

Solo nudist here. Any ideas on what I can do to progress my nudist life?

I mostly do it in my room, but I've tried being nude in a quiet forest which was incredible. I wonder what more I can do to progress further. Thinking of trying out the beach or something. It's pretty quiet. Hardly anyone there usually.

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago

I'm new here. Looking for friends

Hi I'm new to the community. I only tried nudism recently. For now I'm a solo nudist but I plan to expand that in the future. I mostly do it in my room but sometimes I do it outdoors in a forest. I'm looking for friends!

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u/jaybanks1000 — 2 months ago