u/jaykay35

"Do not try and bend the spoon, that's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth. There is no spoon. Then you'll see, that it is not the spoon that bends, it is only yourself."

Manifestation is not something you do. It’s not a spell or witchcraft that you perform, it is how the world (reality) functions. You are never not manifesting and it’s not something you stop doing or turn off. I actually hate the word manifesting / manifestation because it makes it sound like some woo woo BS, like something we do outside of ourselves to get something outside of ourselves.

There is nothing and no one outside of you.

You are the operant power of YOUR reality. Which means you control all things in YOUR reality; the things that happen to you, the way people act towards you. Reality shows up and appears to you based on what you’ve decided for yourself and who you claim you are: I am rich, I am loved, I have the best house and car, I have the man of my dreams….or I am poor, I am never chosen, I don’t have enough, the person I love doesn’t love me.

This is how you control it, and how you can change it. For example: your reality presents the unfavorable to you, a nasty and impossible circumstance. For those that continue to live unaware of the power they have over reality and why it’s appearing the way it is, it is true and set in stone and out of their control to change. But for those who understand the workings of manifestation, and what it really is, which is the physical presentation of your inner thoughts and world, it is a redirection within themselves to align to the version of themselves that lives in the reality they desire.

Our brains receive millions of information bits every second but our conscious mind only process 10% of that. Where does the other 90% go? It’s still there, but because we are not aware of it (and aware of something else) we only see the 10%. But that 90% is obtainable once you become aware of it and exist there.

This is reality, but the world has kept many people stuck….texts like the book of Thomas and Mary were abolished from the church in fear of not being able to control humanity. For if every person knew they were god, the world would be a different place. And that is why some achieve greatness, a life of fulfillment, heaven on earth while others spend life in fear, lack and worry, reaching their own personal hell before they even die. Because heaven and hell were never places you went to in the afterlife, they are realms of existence in your living life.

Regardless of the spiritual teachings, this concept of reality and how it works is what countless scientific studies of both physics, biology and psychology have proven. Manifestation is merely understanding how reality works. It’s not a thing you do, it’s the backbone of the human experience and therefore you’re doing it all the time. The key is being aware of what it really is and how to actually control it in your favor.

There is an underlying fundamental truth that separates the ones that manifest everything and the ones that can’t get “the law” to work for them. And that is understanding how reality works and how the 3D presents your desire. Everyone says the 3D is a mirror, so why do people keep looking to it for the “truth” or the “real world”? Why do people not understand that the 3D can only reflect what you show it?? I hope after this post, your attachment to the 3D will cease to exist and you will never look to anything external for answers ever again.

Let’s begin with the story of Snow White. The Evil Queen has her magic mirror. She asks it frequently: “Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?” She asks, “knowing” it’ll say her. But if she really knew she was the fairest of them all, why did she keep asking? Why did she need the constant validation and reassurance if she knew that in her core? It came down to an underlying assumption that many in this community have: “I need the mirror (3D) to tell me who I am and what I have.”

Eventually, the mirror can only reflect what she believes about herself. Her believing there could be someone better than her eventually led the mirror to present Snow White. The mirror wasn’t betraying the Queen. It was faithfully showing her the state she kept returning to because that is all it could do. She essentially manifested Snow White out of thin air to replace her because she feared she was replaceable….sound familiar?

So how do you actually let go of what the mirror tells you and actually change what it’s reflecting back to you?

Take ownership.

To actually receive what you desire, you must understand that you are the only cause. Everything, the good, the bad, the beautiful, and the ugly, comes from you. Whether consciously or subconsciously, you created it, and it appeared to you only because you had awareness of it.

The power of God within us is not an easy power to control without true understanding of it, which is why many struggle to get the results they seek. You must understand that the power within you does not discern good and bad for you. It only presents what you ask it to present, whether you actually want that or not.

It’s a tough pill to swallow, but if you can accept that the unfavorable circumstances that happened to you came from you, then and only then can you start to change them. If you don’t understand that you are the source of everything that appears in your reality and you are the only one creating everything in your reality, then you will never get this to work for you. Maybe a couple of wins here and there, but for those who want radical life changes that actually stick, this is the number one key first step.

Understand your operating system.

To better understand how this God power works, you must understand that the subconscious is running the show. Your conscious mind is the captain, but your subconscious mind is the actual ship or vessel that gets you to your end desire. It’s been programmed with automatic GPS to its final destination and is the means of actually making it happen. I’ll be using this ship analogy a lot going forward in this post.

You can use your conscious mind to influence the course the subconscious ship will take, but if you don’t interrupt the automatic GPS programming, the ship will continue on its projected course.

Your subconscious has been shaped over years and years of experiences and repetitive thinking. While it can be seen as your resentful, grudge-holding enemy, it is actually your friend and ally. It wants to keep you safe, but it sees safety as normality, the projected GPS course it’s taken every time it’s set sail, and it will not budge off course unless you make it.

This is why people do techniques, because each time you interrupt the navigational GPS, your direction reroutes. If you’ve seen my other posts, I don’t recommend vain techniques that don’t actually change the subconscious. A change in the subconscious comes from a decision (which techniques can help REINFORCE THAT DECISION), but it is only that decision itself and how firmly you can make it that actually redirects the ship.

You must decide that you are changing the course of the ship, and once you make that decision, you must stick to it, knowing that the ship will now take the route you decided on. Don’t keep checking if the ship has redirected, tell yourself you know it has because you decided it.

Change nothing but yourself.

You can reprogram your ship’s GPS navigation through your self concept. Your self-concept is essentially your ship captain training. It’s how you know that you are in control. It is how you silence the first mates making you question or doubt whether you should change the GPS course. It’s how you become the captain of your own life, knowing that only your decision matters and everyone and everything else will follow your ship’s commands.

Again, do not do self-concept in vain to get something outside of you. Do it to know who the f you are and know your power.

Back to the mirror: the 3D can only show you YOU. So what do you want the mirror to show you?

That’s your self-concept. That’s where you focus your techniques if you’re going to use them. Everything and everyone can only reflect how you see yourself.

Don’t worry about anything outside of you trying to tell you that you aren’t these things. These are mere echoes and whispers of your old programming as it decommissions or tricks of the devil when Jesus starved for 40 days and 40 nights, if you want a biblical spin. Don’t let them keep you stuck.

You are the captain. You are the only one holding decision-making power, and despite what your shipmates may say, they must obey and carry out your orders.

Give yourself a new story, a new identity, one that has all you seek and embrace it in all capacity: the way you think, the way you react, the way you carry yourself. The more you embody this new identity, the more easily the ship redirects. You cannot keep looking outside for any answers, the answers come from within you. You gotta stick to it though. You can’t choose a new story and keep going back and forth, can’t choose a new destination and still think you’re heading towards the old one; the ship needs clear decisions to drive a change in directional course.

Enjoy the journey to your final destination.

Take the pressure off the situation once you’ve made a decision about what you want. Take the timeframes, the due dates, the external forces, and throw them overboard into the sea off your ship. These things do not matter or exist to God.

Once God decides, things unfold in whatever way nature deems. There is a gestation period. It took God seven days to create the world….allow yourself the physical, emotional, and spiritual space to relax into your desire.

When you force or bring extreme effort, you do not give the GPS enough time to recalculate the course of the ship. You must trust that once you, as the captain, have updated the navigational system, it will all work accordingly and bring you to your arrival.

Do not rush the journey or force the ship to arrive faster than it can. Simply sit back and enjoy it, and allow the wonders of the world to make their way to you.

You already did your job. You chose the destination. You changed the coordinates. You gave the command.

Now stop running down to the engine room every five minutes to see if the ship is actually moving.

Give thanks for the new course you’ve set, and find moments of peace and joy knowing it’s all yours already and you’re on your way to it.

The mirror does not need to tell you who you are. The shipmates do not get to decide where you’re going. You do.

Make the decision, give the command, and then allow everything else to reorganize around it.

I wanted to share an experience I recently had and how simply going within and changing my thoughts changed it all.

I met a man while traveling in a beautiful country. He was perfect, checked my whole list, could give me the world and all I desired from it.

But he was a player. I knew this from the things he said, stuff that he had in his apartment…

It triggered me at first, and as soon as i left, I felt the distance between us, not just physical but emotional.

Seeing me would have been easy, but he made no effort, came up with excuses, made me feel like just another visitor in his sexual passport.

And this went on for a day or two, until I blatantly reminded myself who I was! He was only reflecting my story of being not good enough, being another fling for a few days; my ego was dominating over me rather than my IAM.

I flipped the script, decided nope he is mine, he is wrapped around my finger and will do anything to see me and make me happy and give me the world. That he is so smitten by me, I’ve changed something within him. That he can’t be apart from me, that he would move mountains for me. I just kept telling myself over and over again this new story, and feeling all the feelings of it being true and real; the satisfaction, the gratefulness, the accomplishment. I let it feel natural, not overjoyed just “yeah this is great, this is exactly what I deserve” I felt content within, and sought to only look to my imagination for the truth.

And just a few hours after flipping the story and STICKING TO IT, embracing the feeling of having him and how wonderful it is he wants to give me the world, everything changed.

Suddenly my phone blew up. An uncontrollable need for him to want me, need me, be with me every second of every day came over him.

Hes coming tomorrow to pick me up on his yatch and take me sailing for a few days.

Let this serve as an example of the power your mind can have. It can either work for you or against you. Remember when things are yucky, it is because you made it yucky. Ignore what the 3d tells you, and give yourself the story you actually want in the 4d. It will happen but only if you allow yourself to actually decide what is true and disregard the rest.

Circumstances don’t matter. Nothing matters. Only what you decide does.

Stop trying to force something to happen, stop trying to make someone change, stop looking for signs that it’s working. Don’t you remember, there is nobody to change but self.

All things happen to you, through you, from you, because of you.

When you change, the way you see the world changes. Can you not trace the patterns, the repeats, the synchronicities, the same “plot twists”? Can you not see that when you’re not new, nothing in the else in your world is new?

Problems and people may take different appearances, but they are merely disguises of the same problems and people you face within yourself. Your negative beliefs, assumptions, doubts. There is no devil or demon, outside of the one that lives within yourself. That is original sin, that is the challenge god gave us and told us we must rise above to be one with him when god made us into what we are…himself.

You are god, and god is all things; the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly. You have the power to change ugly into beautiful and good into bad; it goes both ways. And as a result, the power to change your world either in your favor or against. Do not let this power go to waste. Do not let this power be spent on the things you do not wish to see and experience for yourself. Do not let satan try to keep you stuck in the same life of sin (lack of desire fulfillment). Instead, embrace who you are, know that the impossible is possible for you, that the same power that created the unfavorable can also create the favorable.

Trust in your power, know that it can and will happen for you. Trust in the identity of having what you want, and embrace it/enjoy it. Seek the inner reward so that the outer reward has no choice but to follow. Nothing out there can stop you from experiencing what you want unless you let it. Don’t let the negative things eat away at you, instead tell your inner demon “no youre wrong this is how it is now” and drop it. Resist the devil within you like jesus did for 40 days. The devil can do nothing but keep you stuck.

You got this!

Unfavorable circumstances will happen. And that’s ok. Just remember where it came from first. Within your mind.

Everything comes from the mind first. And your mind determines your world. If you follow Neville and understand the power within your mind, the godliness of it, you begin to see the world and the things in it for what they truly are.

Our reticular activating system sees hundreds of thousands of things in a split second, but only filters a tiny fraction of that into our awareness. That fraction is deemed relevant because you decided it was relevant. Anything you’ve accepted as normal, true, real, or important will continue to be reflected back to you because of your RAS. You decide, your RAS shows.

I bring this up because I see so many people asking about their negative circumstances and taking them as fact. I see these same people say they can’t get it to work (a decision), they can’t experience something new (a decision), everything is going teets up (a decision), nothing is changing (a decision), their person is still off entertaining a 3P (a decision)… I could go on and on about all the decisions we make that literally tell our RAS to give us the opposite of what we want.

Truly, I can’t say this enough. Nothing matters unless you decide it matters. And because of that, things will happen because you’ve made a decision that that’s what’s happening. Just as God does. Because He just is, and it is just so.

With Moses and the Red Sea, God didn’t sit there and say, “Ok Moses, I’m going to deliver the Israelites from Egypt,” then wait an hour, have Pharaoh reject his plan, see the Red Sea blocking the way, and change his mind. He said, “I made my decision, and all things will happen to bring that decision forth. The unthinkable and unimaginable to Moses and his people will happen for me, through me, because of me. Because I am God, and what I say, goes. What I decide, becomes.”

So when something “negative” happens, ask yourself, “Did I expect this? Did I create this? Did I have this thought?” The answer may be obvious in your conscious mind, or it may be rooted deeper in your subconscious. But it came from you at some point, otherwise your RAS wouldn’t have shown it to you.
It doesn’t really matter where it came from or why it’s there. To be honest, you don’t even have to fix or heal it. Once you identify it, you can let it go and allow it to no longer define you. More importantly, no longer decide for you.

I won’t sit here and say, “Just decide, it’s done” because trust me, I’ve been there, done that. The decision can be hard to commit to. You make it at first but that decision lingers until you forget what you decided because you’ve been programmed with a different decision for so long. But I am going to encourage you to keep deciding over and over and over again.

One thing that helped me become firm in my decision of what I wanted, who I was, and what I experienced was waking up every day and texting myself.

“I decide (insert desire) is true for me.”
“I decide this is what’s happening for me today.”
“I decide (insert desire) is already mine.”

Etc etc whatever decisions you need to stand firm in your newly decided identity. Then throughout the day, I’d go back to that text anytime I felt myself deciding something different. Anytime I wanted to read another post, ask another question, or check the 3D, I went back to my decisions. Did this at night sometimes too, and would write my list and make my identity decisions for the next day so I’d wake up as the new identity. Sometimes I’d picture myself as someone like catwoman or other cool characters, whoever I felt would embody the mentality and mindset of the identity I was deciding on when writing them. Also don’t force any technique…this one included, do it or others only when it feels natural, stabilizing, exciting even! One reason I think core identity always beats techniques is because techniques are often done from a place of lack and fear rather than gratitude, knowing and natural certainty. When you rewire and decide on a new identity, those fears and lacks go away. When negative circumstances happen (and they happen no matter how perfect you are at “manifesting”) your new identity will react to them differently and thus receive different results than your old yucky identity.

Anyway, once I started doing this, I became a man of my word. I became a god who decided in my favor rather than against it. A version of myself who had what I wanted because I knew it was so. It may feel unnatural at first, but it’s really the only technique I used to step into a new identity rather than force one. You’re just deciding over and over and over again until it becomes your new normal. It helped me get the love of my life back, make over $250k a year, live in my dream home, have the most amazing friends and family, basically live the life I always desired.

I spent so much time on techniques that just made me feel crazy and triggered. I wasted so much of my life trying to force a fake identity, when all I really had to do was make a decision and stick to it no matter what I saw or experienced. I kept those decisions and never changed my mind until my RAS had no choice but to select and show me experiences that aligned with them.

I still keep those decisions because they’re my new baseline. And honestly, I truly think this is the key to that unlimited, abundant flow state we all hear about and dream of having.

Make it like a promise to yourself.
Are you someone who doesn’t keep your word?
Or are you someone who stands by what they say and follows through?

Speak with your decisions. Move with your decisions. Be firm in your decisions. Reaffirm your decisions.
The rest will follow.

And that’s ok. Just remember where it came from first. Within yourself.

Everything comes from the mind first. And your mind determines your world. And if you follow Neville and understand the power within your mind, the godliness of it, you begin to see the world and the things in it for what they truly are. Simply things you’ve decided and told your RAS you’d like (or would not like but are still requesting) to see.

Our reticular activating system sees 100,000 of things in a split moment, but filters about only 10% of that to us. That 10% is always going to be deemed as relevant to show because you decided it was relevant. Anything that you have accepted as normal, true, real, relevant will always be reflected back to us because of our RAS. You decide and RAS shows.

I bring this up because I see so many people asking about their negative circumstances and taking them all as fact. I see these same people express that they can’t get it to work (a decision), they can’t experience something new (a decision), that everything is going teets up (a decision), that nothing is changing (a decision), that their person is still off entertaining a 3p (a decision)…I could go on and on and on about all the decisions one could make that literally tell your RAS to give you the opposite of what you want.

Truyl I can’t say this ironically enough but nothing matters unless you DECIDE it matters. And because of this, things will happen because you’ve made a decision that’s what happening (as god does). Because he just is, and it is just so. With Moses and the Red Sea, God didn’t sit there and say “ok moses I’m going to deliver the Israelites from Egypt” then wait an hour, have the pharaoh say no and reject his plan/decision, see the Red Sea blocking the way on social media. He said I made my decision and all things will happen to bring that decision forth. The unthinkable and unimaginable to Moses and his people will happen for me, through me, because of me because I am god and what I says, goes; what I decide, becomes.

So when something “negative” happens, ask yourself “did I expect this? Did I create this? Did I have this thought?” The answer may be obvious in consciousness and sometimes it may be rooted deeper into something in your subconscious. But it did come from you at some point in some time, otherwise your RAS wouldn’t have shown you it. It’s important to note the mind doesn’t operate on specifics…it operates on themes, which is why your self concept is so incredibly important. Those themes will determine which specific details you’d like to experience play out. It doesn’t really matter where it came from or why it’s there and to be honest, you don’t have to fix anything about it. Once you are able to identify it, then you can let it go and allow it to no longer define you…more importantly, no longer decide for you.

You see, take peace and comfort in knowing that whatever you saw, no matter how negative it may seem, came from you. That means there’s no other obstacles for you to face other than the inner challenges that you set for yourself. The only one who can limit the abundance of the word and the law is you….and so if you want to give yourself bad decisions and limitations, you can, but just remember the same power that was used to create it can be used to create something different, something new, something favorable. It’s you vs you. If you can face the final boss (yourself, your ego, your fears and doubts) and actually allow yourself to just try to think differently, be differently, experience differently, you’ll see that there never was an outside world to tell you how it is to begin with. Only you.

I won’t sit here and say “just decide!” because trust me I’ve been there, done that. That decision lingers until you forgot what you decided because you’ve been programmed a different way with a different negative decision for so long. But I am going to encourage you all to keep deciding over and over and over again.

One thing that helped me finally be firm in my decision of what I want, who I was, what I experience - was wake up every day and write a text to myself, saying I decide this is true for me today, I decide this is what’s happening for me today, I decide this is what’s happening for me to give me what I want today, I decide (insert desire) is already mine, etc etc whatever decision you need to stand firm and maintain your newly decided identity. And then throughout the day, continuously go back to that text and remember what I decided anytime I felt myself deciding something different. Anytime I wanted to read another post, ask another question, check the 3d, I went back to my decisions. I became a man of my word, I became a god who decided in my favor rather than against it, a version of myself who had what I wanted because I knew it was so. It may feel unnatural at first, but it’s really the only technique I believe that actually helps you step into a new identity rather than force one. Because you’re just deciding over and over and over again until it becomes your new norm. It helped me get the love of my life back, make over $250k a year, live in my dream home, have the most amazing friends and family, basically living the life I always desired. I spent so much time on techniques that just made me feel crazy and triggered, wasted so much of my life forcing a fake identity, when all I really had to do was make a decision and stick to it no matter what I saw or experienced. I kept those decisions and never changed my mind until my RAS had no choice but select and show me experiences that aligned to those decisions. I still keep those decisions because they are my new baseline and this is truly what I think is the key to that unlimited abundant flow state we all hear and dream about having.

Make it like a promise to yourself. Are you someone that doesn’t keep your word? Or are you someone who stands by what they say and will follow through?

Speak with your decisions, move with your decisions, be firm with and reaffirm your decisions, and the rest will follow.