u/je_penseje_suis

Are compliments the best measure of attractiveness?

Got into it with my bf over this, I feel like they are (provided you don’t have extreme RBF), he says he doesn’t think ppl get complimented often irl unless they’re extremely attractive.

Even with my stunning friends, I don’t witness this often, but online, people say this frequently occurs to them. Wondering if part of this is a difference in what people are counting (e.g I don’t count compliments while out, compliments on outfit/styling, compliments from friends) and/or region.

So wondering, how often do you guys get complimented and in what contexts? Plus how does this compare to the norm where you are?

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u/je_penseje_suis — 5 days ago