r/vindictapoc

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How can I fix this w/o surgery? I have a masculine face, but I'm not looking to get cosmetic surgery since I know that my bone structure prevents me from looking the way I'd like. Surgery might help a few things, but I'd never look feminine in the face.

Got into it with my bf over this, I feel like they are (provided you don’t have extreme RBF), he says he doesn’t think ppl get complimented often irl unless they’re extremely attractive.

Even with my stunning friends, I don’t witness this often, but online, people say this frequently occurs to them. Wondering if part of this is a difference in what people are counting (e.g I don’t count compliments while out, compliments on outfit/styling, compliments from friends) and/or region.

So wondering, how often do you guys get complimented and in what contexts? Plus how does this compare to the norm where you are?

I didn't see much hate towards Priyanka Chopra when she started working in the US. Even when Aishwarya Rai first went on Oprah or showed up at the cannes, everybody was admiring her for her beauty. It also seems like stars like Mindy Kaling and other Indian origin actors don't get as much vitriol online. (Or maybe they do but I don't see the comments?). I'm not saying they should get hate or anything. Is this just because they are celebrities or because they mostly cater to Indian audiences? Most people are not racist towards Bollywood celebrities either (maybe because the exposure to non Indians is less).

i hate having to shave daily , i’ve done waxing with strips and it hurts so bad . it doesn’t even fully remove all the hairs . i legit feel like a boy because of this sometimes , have any of you done laser hair removal and is it worth it ? why does having body hair bother me so much even though it’s completely natural ? i know this is genetics and can’t be fixed but god damn i feel so bad sometimes because of it . especially because i like to show skin i have to keep up with shaving . one of my exes said he dislikes me with body hair and i grow more of it than him and ive never been able to be okay with afterwards .

Hi everyone!!!

I am looking for advice/help hair density. i have very thin, sparse eyelashes and eyebrows, alongside trouble growing hair on my scalp as well as zero body hair.

I am thinking of arranging a medical checkup around my thyroid panel, ferritin, and potential any other autoimmune markers to rule out an internal root cause, but in the meantime i was wondering if anyone had any success/recommendations with this problem.

I would love to hear anyone’s experiences with clinical treatments or specific products to help grow out hair, lashes and brows without any side effects like hollow under eyes. Thanks!

I typically wear braids or my natural hair. This will be the first time I’ve worn a full wig and I’m very nervous. I’ve been told that wigs will ruin your edges and they won’t grow back.

Is there a way you can protect your edges?
Is there a product I can put on before the install to keep the glue from ruining them?

Do I seriously need to be worried about my edges?

I’ve been using azelaic acid 20% sandwiched for over a month now and there’s literally no difference.i also tolerate it well and use cica cream w it.

I’ve been trying for the past 2-3 years all with no results at all and im so sick of it genuinely nothing works at all i also just introduced alpha arbutin to my routine,i wanted to add tret on some days (i only use one active a day) but i saw on social media that its best to wait for the azelaic acid but I have no patience for it anymore

Some people saiy glycolic acid .i am light skinned black and I heard it’ll either do nothing or make it worse so im scared.seen people say urea 10%.also seen benzoyl peroxide but its expensive around me i need to find a dupe or sth

Im just so tired and no the skin isn’t velvety or thick it’s just color.i didn’t have them back when I didn’t use a certain deodorant.i tolerate shaving so so well so its not the cause at all.and i refuse to use hydroquinone its so risky.please help

What makeup look do you think is the best or do you not bother with gothic or more edgy looks ?

After I have had a glow up, some women who I looked up to, had close bonds with, constantly put me down in social settings. When it's 1:1 they are sweet and nice. In social settings too, I don't talk much or try to be the centre of attention. I keep to myself. On the rare occasions I say something, they say something caustic/harsh/rude things. Today the girl I went on road trip with a couple of days ago said something on the lines of death when I was telling how I'd like to trek. Very randomly. 'You will fly away and noone can know what happened to you'. This is not the first instance. Not with one person. I recently got a pixiecut. While most women complimented me, one person who I thought was a good friend laughed at me in front of everyone. Thank God, noone else thought it was funny for her to laugh at me. How to deal with such circumstances/people? Sweet when with me alone and bitchy when in a group setting, actively trying to shame me or put me down.