u/NeckAdministrative91

So i know that for black women the beauty standard is to have that slim thick look but i cant seem to achieve that I love love loveee the way they look on other ppl but on me it just looks ugly idk if its body dysmorphia or what because no matter how much I look at myself in the mirror all I see is disappointment the way I think is that if I wanna be skinny I have to be skinny everywhere else or if I wanna stay chubby I should be chubby everywhere else so it's a never ending cycle of overthinking but yeah just a little rant I feel safe to rant here because it's a space made for black women so I feel like some ppl might understand me thank you for reading!!

Hello I'm looking for a store or bakery to order a cake from a small cake enough for 4-5 ppl if anyone has suggestions drop them below!

Hello I just wanted to share my good news bc I have no where to share it I don't want to post about it on my story incase some ppl might be sensitive abt weight but I have lost 4.2kgs since April lost 3kgs in April and lost 1.2 in May now this isnt where I'll stop ofc but I'm finally seeing results my tummy shrunk and my "after" I eat now looks like my before photos friends and family also noticed the loss and I'm feeling happy in my body and can enjoy a sweet treat without feeling guilty and once the food is fully digested I go right back to a flat tummy it feels so good and I get full fast ughhf is this what it feels like to be skinny? 😫 anyways thanks for reading!! Just wanted to get this out of my head its been driving me crazy knowing I can't talk about it anywhere