u/johnlennons_ass

So, I identify as agender because I personally don't like the idea of gender. But I also have really weird dysphoria and I really want to be a gay man. But I'll never truly get to being a gay man, and the idea of not being able to even be what feels like a true man has made me hate gender altogether so I identify as agender. I want to be a man but being transgender doesn't feel validating for me and I've come to just hating gender altogether, so I'm agender. Agender feels good to me because I don't have to fit into any exact boxes to be this, but I still just really wanna be a gay man. So like...What do we think I don't know how to feel