I've been trying to do research on it, and I've been getting different answers which is annoying me. Is this a dog whistle or is this a band shirt and I'm overreacting?
Oh boy! Buckle up because this is going to be LONG. Mind you I am a stranger. She was the one that DMed ME
For the sake of names let's call her E, E came into my DMa to ask me to post a clip of her ex (N) falling on stage (it was a screen recording of When We Were Young Fest, the video is now deleted). I asked if she was comfortable of me asking questions about what her ex and his friends did, she said yes.
She told me that N' friend J ,and I quote: "Also his girlfriend at the time () was freshly 18, I was freshly 19" as she sent a laughing emoji, which looking back on it now is really weird. I looked on J's Tumblr blog, J's Tumblr blog has photos of him and a literal 16 year old (yes the same girl he was dating) some of them had semi nudity, I looked up if that counted as CP in incognito mode and it said yes, he posted CP on one of his Tumblr Blogs (he has three). ALL of the band members knows about this and I'd STILL keeping quiet about it years later. J deleted everything about her on his Instagram
She also told me that when the same band had a new lead singer (F) because the old one joined another band in 2012, they knew that new lead singer was talking to minors and didn't say anything about it, they moved on and enabled it which is absolutely disgusting, again as I'm reading back the DMs I had the question of "how the hell did she know that". She later on told me that N knew S BECAUSE F and S were working together and basically best friends. But N wanted to "take him from F because made up a plan to basically steal S from F and manipulated him into working with N instead of" (that is literally what she told me)
E started telling me personal things about S is a trust fund baby and had a TON of money until his dad got sick. N took thousands of dollars from S. And when S got his own band signed to a record label so he could get the $10,000 album budget to record the album but he blew all the money on drugs within about 2 months. S has been N's sole provider of money for as long as he has known him. S ALSO had a girlfriend who he abused because of alcohol AND cheating on her like now N cheated on E and many other girls
Oh boy it gets worse! N and S are freeloaders! S's rich ass parents got him a place with his ex and they housed N and his second ex wife R? What happened to R? He dumped her in the middle of the road while she was pregnant with N's kid after she "asked who the other girl was" (this was in 2018 or 2019 she didn't specify the year) . S fakes being poor and KNOWS ALL THE HORRIBLE THINGS N HAS DONE, smoking meth in front of his kid, vaping inside the house, this man made excuses to not get vocals for a song because "he has to raise his kid alone" (who's fault was that?!) . S said on a live stream when he called him out (twice) "as long as it's not heroine, I love you! I just want you to recover. As long as it's a little meth"
S KNOWS THAT N IS A PEDOPHILE! he said and I quote on ANOTHER stream "they've been nice to you, I don't trust that shit. Look out! My man's predatory ". SPEAKING of N being a pedophile, he dated E when she was 18 in highschool AND btw N was married to a girl named L AND they got divorced 7 days before E turned 19 (that doesn't sound like a coincidence) had a secret Kik account god knows when Kik was around and didn't tell her. A fan ( let's call her anon girl) of N told her IDK where that the anon girl was sending him money often. She couldn’t have been more than 16. E was told that, argued with N. She reached out to the anon girl once E and N broke up in 2017
E also told me that N has owned pets and abused her and his own pets too, N stole personal stuff from E for five years and used it for drug money
Btw S and N are still friends, N's band mates and S himself enable each other's behavior
I then asked her about someone I was a fan of C, she said and I quote: "Sorry, I just don’t feel super comfortable talking crap about everybody with a stranger. Just N because I’d say all this to his face. I feel like I pretty much said everything I need to say, and pertaining to (band name) if I can come up with anything else, I’ll try to send evidence over, but I don’t really want to get sued or involved in drama. I’m way too old for that!"
It's been 8 months, she's been silent (I get it because she's probably busy). I DMed her again last Saturday and she hasn't said anything (again she's probably busy)
What do I do with this info? Is it bad that I post about this? I don't know what to do, she knew this entire time and I'm the only person that knows about this
I'm genuinely done with everything (this might be selfish I'm sorry)