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How do you know if someone actually wants to be your friend vs just being polite?

I sometimes struggle reading social signals.

There are people I talk to regularly, but I can’t tell whether they genuinely enjoy hanging out or if they’re just being nice. I don’t want to overstep or assume closeness that isn’t there.

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u/CesareEskandani24 — 4 days ago

Do you think my wife’s friend is attracted to me?

Relatively new friend of my wife. We share fitness in common as a hobby.

She has said in a group that I look “Greek or Mediterranean” and that I look younger than my age.

She saw me on my commute to work once and asked my wife what kind of car I drove. Then joked in a group that she was “always watching me” under the guise of keeping me from being sneaky on my wife.

The first time we were ever alone (by chance not by design) she pushed my hand down playfully, grabbed my upper arm when talking, then told me how great my wife was and then grabbed my arm again later in the convo.

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u/SquallidSnake — 6 days ago

Are there man who don't masterbate?

The feeling of doing masterbation. Are there people who don't feel that when they are exposed to any sexual content or any that triggers the feeling. If they feel so then are they able to avoid them. Honestly I really hate myself whenever I get that urge.

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u/Real_seek — 10 days ago

Need advice about sex/future sex

I (17F) lost my virginity several months ago, the sex itself was fine (given it was both of our first time). Lube, prep, the works. However the next day, from the waist down it felt awful! So painful!
For the next several days even. Does it ever stop hurting or is that just how it is?

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u/Comprehensive-Fuel70 — 13 days ago