u/jossophie

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Things you refuse to do now because you stopped after they died

Things I stopped after he died. I know why I stopped but now after 2.5 years it's like a milestone I can't cross

* Watering plants with the hose.

Pot plants got moved to where they can get rain but apart from that they're on their own. A lot have died.

* Posting on social media.

Last post was his death notification. I will comment on others' stuff but no new posts from me

* Cooking eggs and making coffee at home. Also find it hard to actually cut up vegetables and cook from scratch. These have less of a no-go aspect than the first two

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u/jossophie — 2 days ago