[Men] How do you guys chat with your match in an interesting / engaging way without sounding like Q&A or interrogation?
Hi all, not sure if this is a way too trivial question (preferably if we have some Asian context here but if not any general advice would also be appreciated). I do get matches occasionally but most girls get dozens of matches a day and many of them will ghost you. Sometimes it is the other way round that I don't know how to kickstart the discussion and keeping them interested. How do you start the topic without sounding clinche? For example, I saw some of them put a travel bucket list then I would say "oh I also think [country] is nice and I also want to go there next time! Btw where did u go last holiday?" or maybe just something like how's ur weekend
Obviously most don't end well or even if it opens well it just turns silent or boring quick. So I wonder how to keep engaging, transition to maybe topics that girls actually care or build emotional connection even just over texts and heat it up so we can have a warmer meet up.
Thanks a lot in advance!