u/kamsahamnida_zz

Just had this thought. Where do all the different colours come from? Like, why’s blue, blue? And yellow, yellow? Why do we see colours?

If you could see yourself from a third-person point of view, how would you describe yourself?

Not the version you show at work, school, or on social media — the real you.

Could be good, bad, confusing, contradictory, lost, hopeful, tired, proud… anything. Just curious how people truly see themselves when they’re being honest.

Could be about your personality, intentions, behaviour, emotions, or the way you handle life. Just genuinely curious how people see themselves versus how they think others see them.

I’m curious to hear different perspectives because modern dating feels increasingly complicated now. Dating apps make it easier to meet people, but relationships can sometimes feel more casual or less genuine than before.

Cheating and infidelity have probably always existed, but lately it feels like conversations about them are becoming more common. It made me wonder how people today actually view commitment, loyalty, temptation, and emotional boundaries in relationships.

I’m especially curious whether some people genuinely feel confident they would stay faithful even when attraction or temptation exists elsewhere, and what shapes that mindset.

No judgment here — just interested in hearing honest perspectives and experiences.

Take your time and answer as openly as you’d like.