u/kinzzzer

Hi! My cat gets litter EVERYWHERE! I have tried to buy enclosed litter boxes, I vaccum everyday!! I can’t take it no more. We have a self cleaning litter box. Could pine pellets work with a self cleaning litter box? My cat just turned a year old this month. Does anyone have any other recommendations?? Is there a reason why I shouldn’t buy them? This is my first cat, and I have no idea what I’m doing, and/or what’s the best for him.

Hi everyone. I’m a F (22) and my husband is (27). He has two children whom he had before he met me. I’ve never dealt with this type of situation before. I’m young, I was young when I went into this relationship. We got pregnant quickly. I don’t want to make this post super long so I will try my best to add in as much detail.
I’m having a hard time “staying out” of my husband coparenting with his BM. I don’t trust her, she’s rude, she’s disrespectful to my husband, & to me. I’ve done my best to be respectful, mind my business, and let them deal with THEIR children. I think I’ve done pretty well with keeping my cool, and staying out of it. My husband asks me to just stay out of it (in a respectful way) and let him handle her snarky comments or disrespect. I understand why, she’s a hothead, & so am I. Anyway’s, he was on the phone with her in front of me talking about their son coming to stay with us, pretty much doing the best he can to talk her into it as she refuses to let his 10 year old son come live with us. That’s a whole other story that has nothing to do with this situation. She made the comment “you’re fully financially responsible for him to come and see me”. she lives in the East coast, we live in the west coast. He handled it very well stating “No, we will split the cost”. She also made a comment “I think you owe me an apology for this and that”. She got disrespectful, he got disrespectful back. She’s constantly otp with his mom and sister talking about my husband, she talks about him more than her own fiancé. Making comments about my husbands “mental health”. When there is nothing wrong with my husbands mental health. Mind you he hasn’t been with her for over 5 years. I’m sure plenty of woman on here has dealt with this type of issue. It is incredibly hard to keep my mouth shut with the constant disrespect & demands towards our household or finances. I’m tired of it, it’s exhausting letting this woman talk to my husband like this, I feel weak, belittled, like I can’t defend my territory almost when I’m respecting him and letting him handle it. Am I over reacting?