Upset from match
I matched with a guy on Facebook Dating and we seemed to hit it off quickly. I asked fairly early on if he’d like to meet the following weekend because he seemed very much my type. I did make clear there was no pressure and that I was happy to chat more first if he preferred. He responded positively, said he appreciated me asking and was open to meeting, but wanted to chat more and asked for more photos because my profile only had one due to a Facebook Dating glitch.
We moved over to WhatsApp and I sent more photos. During the conversation he brought up sexual topics quite early on and asked if we could discuss turn-ons etc. I felt a bit uncomfortable because I normally only discuss that kind of thing once I know someone properly/in a relationship, but he said he just meant generally what I liked. A video call was then suggested as an easier way to talk.
We did the video call but it only lasted around 5 minutes because from the start he said he had to go help a friend soon. We mostly just talked about our days, jobs and holidays. Afterwards I noticed he’d unmatched me on Facebook Dating. I asked him if everything was okay and he said that "from the video call, the physical attraction wasn't there for him." He also said the helping a friend thing was genuine. He then blocked me on WhatsApp before I could really reply further.
I’m feeling quite upset and blindsided by it because I thought we’d already built a decent rapport and that the video call was just part of getting to know each other, not a make-or-break moment. I also keep overthinking whether I came on too strong by suggesting meeting fairly early, whether I said something wrong on the call, or whether discussing sexual topics so soon should have been a warning sign for incompatibility anyway.
I’d genuinely appreciate honest opinions from other people who use dating apps. I'd also wonder if anyone can help me to feel better about this as I'm still new to the dating app world and it's knocked me a bit.