Should i freeze my eggs? Thanks to my husband’s career

I’m 31, my husband is 32. Our plan was for him to finish his residency next year, and towards the end of which we were planning to start a family. But, life took a turn. He was recently forced to resign at the end of pgy 2. So now we are clueless about what our next steps will be, will he find a new spot in another program, is this a dead-end, is he going to take up a new career, no idea!

I’m a non medico, i’m super stressed about our situation, i feel like our whole plans to start a family end of this year have suddenly vanished, i don’t know when we will be ready. Should i consider freezing my eggs(i’m battling with hypothyroidism and feel like my body is changing every fucking day). I’m scared about the process.

This has become more of a rant, but any thoughts or suggestions or experience might help wrap my head around it:))

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u/km_ok0207 — 5 days ago

Looking for an IM pgy 2/pgy 3 spot

No location preference. No visa requirement. Please let me know if you guys know of any spots that are opening up or someone dropping out, or if any porgrams are able to increase their complement 🙏

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u/km_ok0207 — 14 days ago

Looking for an IM pgy 2/pgy 3 spot

No location preference. No visa requirement. Please let me know if you guys know of any spots that are opening up or someone dropping out 🙏

Would also consider FM pgy1/2 spots!

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u/km_ok0207 — 14 days ago

Looking for an IM pgy 2/pgy 3 spot

No location preference. No visa requirement. Please let me know if you guys know of any spots that are opening up or someone dropping out 🙏

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u/km_ok0207 — 21 days ago

Husband’s PGY 3 contract is not being renewed

My husband, an IM resident has been on probation. No clear action items given, it was mostly about him not being engaged enough. His PD just told him that his contract isn’t being renewed as they unanimously thought he wasn’t ready for PGY 3. They gave him an option to challenge the decision or resign.
I’m in a non medico, so i’m not sure what the path further holds for us.
Please help understanding what are our options going forward. Would he need to apply to PGY 2 now (read somewhere that you have complete PGY 2,3 from the same program). I feel really bad for him because he was so close.

Please help if you know how we can approach this situation.

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u/km_ok0207 — 23 days ago