Mirroring lives, crazy coincidences, different months
I'll try to keep this simple, but my partner and I have noticed that in our "relationship" (its quite all over the place) we are experiencing too many strange coincidences and similar events happening to each other, in separate months. Has anyone else experienced something like this? what does it mean spiritually and energetically, karmically??
Lets start with me.
- We re-met at the end of march, told him I was going away on a backpacking trip at the beginning of May but he was willing to still date me and get to know me.
- I got really ill, fever, and had a herpes outbreak on my lip
- My birthday is in April
- I went on a week long trip with my friends
- We had essentially one month together before I went on my trip
We kept in contact for about two weeks into my trip but then both decided to end it because I was unsure of when I was going to return, and couldn't commit to him after such a short time of being together, and our relationship was already hard for me. I came back after 3 months of backpacking and decided to reach out to him, and we restarted our connection. This is where the weird stuff happens
Him
- I came back end of July, he told me that beginning of September he is moving states, but we are still willing to date and see what happens
- He went on a week long trip with his friends
- His birthday is in August
- He got ill, fever, and a herpes outbreak!!!
- We essentially have one month together before he moves
How we met: Months before our first date he spotted me at a gas station after a night out with friends and we chatted shortly and I left. I forgot about him , but he never did, kept trying to find me for months until he recognised my friend and asked her to call me.
It's actually uncanny to me how much we are mirroring each other lives, just in an inverted way. The events that happened to me are now happening to him. I am on the verge of breaking up with him because of how things have been, I feel like I'm being ripped open raw in this dynamic, all of my wounds and insecurities are showing up and its been chaotic. But cannot help but feel this relationship was destined for something.