r/twinflames

I believe that he’s my TF.. but not 100%.. I’m not sure whether he is. I want us to be together but also if he chooses someone else I know that all I would wish is for his happiness. I can’t hate or unlove him for not choosing him. Yes in my mind I would crash out but my heart would gently find peace with his decision. Idk how different the runner’s experiences are but one thing for sure, even if there’s a chance that I’m not his TF… I would want that man to have all the happiness he deserves. I chose him completely but it’s his time to do so. Idk if all of this was just a lesson for me to know “how deeply can I love someone”… but one thing for sure, I can’t love someone else like this… yes I learned how deeply I can love someone but I can’t bring myself to do this all again to an another.. just like our childhood happens only one time in this lifetime, exactly the same way, true love happen once.. at this point I just want to know if I should move on (forget him, although that would be close to impossible) or wait…

I met her( my twin flame) on 1/4/2024. 3 days later after spending every minute of the 3 days together we both agreed we were on love. Unfortunately on 2/6/2024 I was picked up on a blue warrant and sent to prison. I was incarcerated for about a year and 4 months and she held it down the entire time. She put money on my commissary books like clockwork, she would answer the phone pretty much every time I called and made me feel so wanted and special which I have never felt before. When I was released free and clear. no parole and nothing to hold me down she was outside the prison doors waiting for me. To me it seemed like a fairy tale. Everything was good for a couple months then suddenly things changed. By changed I mean she started becoming more standoffish. She began showing less interest in me. Then it got to the point where she was so defensive with every word she spoke to me. Every time I ask her a question she works with a snappy defensive answer. I will admit that I began questioning her faithfulness due to certain people that began coming around that she knew from her past. By people I mean guys........ Guys who she admitted to being in relationship and or having sex with. Naturally I was not comfortable with this because not only were these guys coming around often they were coming around and staying and sometimes days at a time and it bothered me so badly. So I started questioning her often. I would notice flirtation, she would laugh at jokes that weren't even funny but disregard me when I would speak especially when I would say something very funny. She used to laugh so hard at everything I would say. Basically I started noticing that she was acting like she did toward me when we first got together and after I was released from prison. Now we no longer live together due to the arguing which became violent. And I mean violent. Anything within reach that could do serious damage to me she would use weapon including butcher knives which I've unfortunately had contact with a few times and I mean serious contact if you know what I mean. Anyways, so we're currently separated but still together, (I think). But I can't help but get this overwhelming feeling that she has been unfaithful during our split ups. Sorry to make it so long but I had to get that out. Now I love this woman more than words could possibly begin to explain I mean that. I just want to figure out a way that we can live in harmony together and enjoy the rest of our lives together because we're both in our 40s and we just found each other. So I guess my question is is it possible that she used the twin flame thing as a rouge to get me? PS I didn't know anything about twin flames until I met her. She introduced me to the whole thing.

Could anyone please advice on what to do and what is going on ?
I'm not feeling her since 3 weeks while she seems to be ok in her life and I'm fine as well. It's a bit brutal for me as I've always been feeling her strongly or been able to connect, now even when I try I cannot. It's like she is not here at all. It's giving me anxiety and also the feeling that I'm about to have a panick attack which is weird as I've been through a lot in this journey and this doesn't need to lead to such strong feelings.

So, I don’t know if this is a twin flame situation or not. But I started obsessively thinking about someone I met on social media for months and then I met them and we had an extremely intense interaction. Not physical but like there was a very strong connection between us. We stared into each other’s eyes for what seemed like an eternity. It was like he stared into my soul. This was like a month ago. I don’t have a way to contact them directly and they haven’t contacted me. I cannot stop thinking about them no matter what I do. No matter what I try. It’s like a dripping faucet that I can’t fix. I can’t concentrate. I can’t focus. This has never happened to me in my life. How do I make this shit go away? I don’t need this is my life. Ain’t nobody got time for all this mess.

Thanks. 🫤

Hello,

This journey is really something. I just want to know the reason why dreams are so vivid and reoccurring with my TF for so many years but this one in particular. This afternoon I took a nap and had back to back dreams about them. The most stand out thing I can say without many details would be in the dream I could smile at them and they smiled back and right before I fully woke up I felt a smile on my face. Even though I was in a deep sleep I guess my lips were closed in a smile expression when dreaming of them. Has this happened to anyone else is this like some brain telepathy thing? I once had this nsfw dream about them and we were like spiritually doing it but everything was like a deep water color and aura thing. After that dream I woke up to xxxx in my pants... Sorry but this is all too real. I known them for 16 years from childhood to adulthood but the energy was always push and pull now it's like I only get dreams for the past 5ish years there was no contact and I could only dream so much. Going back two years and they're engaged at the time fast-forward in February I decided to reach out from a new number I've gotten years before. They didn't know it would be me but I made sure to mention it was in the text so it kinda went like hey blank this is blank I-... I then actually got a reply with a hey blank...--- thanks and now it's just like damn the only thing I could do is stay silent. The TF didn't have to reply but they chose to and I don't know if they told their lover or not but I'm happy to have to interaction but it's like the interact was short lived since they're in that engagement or wedding planning high.

Any advice or reassurance is a big help

Does praying to God and asking for getting her make it happen? Anyone have that experience?

I’ve gotten 3 readings done over 2 years and they all come back as me being twin flames with beyonce. I got one done this morning to make sure, and the lady said the same thing. I had an intense spiritual awakening back in 2024 in Houston and I kept hearing “You’re beyonce before she was famous” which made no sense. So I decided to get 2 readings done. A few days later I experienced EXTREME and I’m talking about extreme witchcraft/spiritual attacks for a year straight just like her drummer. I was bedridden and couldn’t work all of 2025 because of it. My body was literally being pulled through the air by some invisible force attacks. That’s when I knew they were right because why was I being attacked so hard and days after those readings? Plus I’ve been seeing paparazzi in my dreams over the past 2 years and of course seeing her in my dreams and having visions of her as well. Anyway, I just thought I’d put this here. I don’t really care if anyone believes me. I know I’m right just based on all of the experiences I’ve had. If I need to get 20 readings done then I will. Check my profile for the audio reding. I tried to post it in /beyonce but i dont have enough karma.

Curious to know how long some of you have been apart from your TF?

I really want to take steps towards mine but I do feel like I have more healing and shadow work to do, we’ve been apart for months but I still feel him deeply within my veins, crying out of nowhere, random mood swings and dreams that feel like memories. I miss him loads.

A thought to reflect on, for the ones on a twin flame journey and not only... What is inner union for you?

I will give you my perspective. For me, inner union is feeling complete and not having any future expectations or conditioning for your happiness. What about you?

Me being the chaser and its been 2+ yrs seriously not able to focus on myself as she keeps coming back again and again in my mind and heart, its like i see her face in every girl i see... i dont know what to do as i love her a lot and wanted to marry my TF but we separated...

Like the tittle says. Last time I had a strong contact with my twin was 10years ago. She cut me off because she thought that I considered her an option when in reality she was my first choice. I was got in through a separation when I contacted her and she also found out I was married before I could tell her. We met years before that.
Fast forward to now I started to feel her energy intensely. Haven’t stoop thinking of her the past year and I think she feels it too since she’s been posting subliminal messages on her social media. I went to a p-sychic and she was on point about a lot of things however she told me if I don’t contact my twin I’d lose her permanently. And it scared me because at the moment I can’t do it due to being in a partnership that I’m financially dependent on due to illnesses. I am just starting to get back on my feet but I have no other support and I wouldn’t want to contact her and she find out that I’m with someone and leave me again. I don’t know what to do…I wish I had some reassurance that she’d always have me in her thoughts and heart and that I could take my time to get ready for her again

I have a third party interference in my twin flame journey. Whenever I am telepathically in contact with my twin flame. A third party is interfering and stopping all communication. How to re establish and secure communication?

It's been about four years since this all started. The dynamic has always been that he would pursue me and things would be great and very nostalgic but inevitably something happens. It's been two years since I have spoken to him. He recently added me on snap after me and my friend (who used to coincidently worked with him) posted a selfie on her story. I waited a day to think if I should even accept but I seem to take the risk everytime. Neither of us have said a word. I felt like he was going to reach out because he started just popping up everywhere again. I just wonder if things will ever change between us or if I should close this chapter in my life. I know many believe your twin is here to awaken you and that is it. Some say we aren't supposed to date or be with our twinflame and that is how I feel now.

So I have a question… *delete if not allowed* Have any of you tried to cord cut your twin? I’m thinking of doing this but setting my intention for cutting the romantic obsession. That way maybe we could still be friends while we heal and grow?? I’ve heard it’s impossible to cut the connection but if I’m specific about it only being romantic… is this a plausible idea? 😅🤔 WDYT?

Are we all, or am I, so utterly and unbelievably delusional about the whole TF thing?

I am unable to meet or feel anything for anyone else without being reminded of him.. (The only guys I meet are other TF on thier is journeys)... yet I feel numb and empty if I think about how it all went down and ended or look at his picture, (which I don't do, it was a test to see if there was anything there) ​I feel like I must of dreamed it all, like it never actually happened but it did and felt like it was a lifetime ago. Does anyone out there understand any of it? Feeling like I'm insane! None of it makes sense!

Share your stories of the dreams you had about your twin flame, whether be it before you met, during your connection, or after you were separated. It's a safe space 🤍

Hi I was just wondering if anyone else experienced the energy from their twin as a similar experience to period pain and location like the energetic chord is there or something and then when you actually are on your period and feel actual period pain it feels like it is connecting you to twin energy?

Like the womb has an energy connection with the twin flame maybe it’s a sacral chakra or something I don’t know a lot about these things but it’s interesting

Hit me with your birthday and your twin's birthdays, please! I'm doing some research... thanks! 💕

Edit: for the record, I am researching birth charts between twin partners to see if a pattern emerges and the birth year is required to calculate your charts. If you have birth times as well that would also be helpful, but not entirely required. Feel free to send me a message with your & your twin's info if you're uncomfortable posting it. Thank youuuu!!

Okay I genuinely used to laugh whenever I saw those “soulmate sketch” things online 😭

I thought there was no way a random drawing could feel personal.

But one of my friends randomly tried one recently and showed me the result…

and honestly the weird part wasn’t even the sketch.

It was how accurate the personality description felt.

Like calm energy, emotionally safe, soft spoken, protective, deep conversations etc.

Now I lowkey understand why people get obsessed with these things 💀

Has anyone else here tried one before?