u/alwaysdeletingacc

I’ve posted in this forum before but I can’t express myself anywhere else. I want to be released from this connection so bad. I want the cord to be cut. Every time my tf attempts contact with me I feel like it wakes me up inside and then when he pulls away I have to put it back to sleep… we were suppose to see one another this week and he never followed up with me. I reached out today to see if he had second thoughts and I told him he can tell me if he has doubts and he never responded to me… he was typing and then disappeared. I feel so ridiculous and emotionally unstable whenever he comes around. I’d describe it as a dog that lost its owner and it’s so pathetic. I don’t know if any of you have any advice for me but I can’t do this anymore

I need some advice for anyone that’s willing to give it. I’ve known a guy for 10 years.. we met when I was in my early 20s and I’m now 31. When I first met him I knew he was going to be a big deal in my life. Not sure if I knew he was gonna stick around for this long but a part of me is glad he never left and he stuck around for this long. He is always in and out of my life. We don’t go longer than a year without trying to attempt contact in some way. I can’t seem to imagine my life without him and I have tried to move on numerous times and can’t seem to shake it. He tells me he doesn’t want anything to do with me in a romantic sense but still maintains contact with me and entertains the possibility of something physical. I can’t seem to shake him and I wish I could but I’m starting to realize I’ll never move on from him and the separation is terrible

I need some advice for anyone that’s willing to give it. I’ve known a guy for 10 years.. we met when I was in my early 20s and I’m now 31. When I first met him I knew he was going to be a big deal in my life. Not sure if I knew he was gonna stick around for this long but a part of me is glad he never left and he stuck around for this long. I am dealing with the fact that he’s always in a serious relationship and tries with me. He never views me as someone he can take seriously. It’s been going on back and forth for years and I can’t seem to cut it off.

I am spiraling and hoping someone can calm me down. My Tf attempted contact with me last week and we’ve been back in communication and now he’s basically not responding or being kind of vague. I know he reached out for a reason or at least attempted contact with me for a reason cause I know his patterns but now I’m sort of having a hard time controlling the spiraling thoughts that he’s going to leave again because this always happens. 🥹

My ex situationship resurfaced again and I’m not sure what to do or how to feel about the situation. I miss him enough where I want communication but I don’t think I can bring myself to get close to him again in a physical way. I want to have him in my life in some way and I can’t imagine my life without him. The longest we’ve gone without communicating has been a year.

do I hook up with my tf again? when I know it’s not a good idea at all.. and we’ve had such a back and forth for years. I know it’s not a good idea but I miss him and we’re in contact and I don’t know what to do

I need some advice from anyone willing to listen - my ex and I have been on back and forth cycle for years. About a year ago we hooked up and things sort of blew up for both of us because I couldn’t handle being physical with him and I cared about him too much. I just sort of realized that I’ll always want more from him. Long story short, he recently tried to contact me to talk and he told that he felt bad about what happened and he knows I’m a genuine person and thinks we’re capable of having normal conversations. I can’t tell if he’s just trying to pull me in but I’ve decided to run now because I just know nothing can come from him and I but I also miss him often. Will this connection ever end?..

I need some advice from anyone willing to listen - my tf and I have been on back and forth cycle for years. About a year ago we hooked up and things sort of blew up for both of us because I couldn’t handle being physical with him and I cared about him too much. I just sort of realized that I’ll always want more from him. Long story short, he recently tried to contact me to talk and he told that he felt bad about what happened and he knows I’m a genuine person and thinks we’re capable of having normal conversations. I can’t tell if he’s just trying to pull me in but I’ve decided to run now because I just know nothing can come from him and I but I also miss him often. Will this connection ever end?..

looking for everything’s views on Prozac. I am tapering off my lexapro as it made me so sleepy and I’ve gained a lot of weight on it. I didn’t feel like myself on the medication but I struggle with anxiety.. how did everyone feel on the Prozac? Were you able to shed that weight off? Did you feel more like yourself? Please share any advice you have

looking for everything’s views on Prozac. I am tapering off my lexapro as it made me so sleepy and I’ve gained a lot of weight on it. I didn’t feel like myself on the medication but I struggle with anxiety.. how did everyone feel on the Prozac? Were you able to shed that weight off? Did you feel more like yourself? Please share any advice you have