u/koala53421

24F - Australia

Salam all! After stalking this sub for the past year, the time has come to shoot my shot.

Your Essential Information:

Age: 24

Origin/Ethnicity: Indian but open to any ethnicity. I’m not cultural. 

Languages spoken (with proficiency levels): English, Urdu 

Level of religious practice: Strictly practicing 

Current residence (city, country): Melbourne, Aus

Willing to relocate (if yes, please specify or 'anywhere'): Interstate (but not WA, NT, TAS or QLD pls) 

Siblings: I have siblings 

Previously married/Kids: Neither  

Occupation: Consultant  

Education: Bachelors  

Smokes/Vapes/Hookah (Yes/No): none

Leisure activities: gym, sports, travel, reading, stalking this sub 

Your Preferences in a Partner:

Age range: 24-30 

Origin/Ethnicity: any 

Languages: English at the minimum 

Level of religious practice: actively/strictly practicing. 

Education: Minimum a bachelors 

Deal breakers: 

  1. Wants to live with his parents after marriage; overly controlling family dynamics or being heavily constrained by parental expectations.
  2. No spiritual or worldly purpose and goals to strive towards.
  3. Unhealthy coping mechanisms including substance abuse (weed, vaping etc). 
  4. Narcissistic, controlling and manipulative behaviours.
  5. A lack of confidence, decisiveness, and assertiveness that affects one’s ability to take initiative and responsibility.

 

Not a dealbreaker, but I would prefer someone who’s been raised in the West for compatibility.

A little bit about me: 

I’m someone whose life is grounded in faith, purpose, and continuous self-improvement.  I strive to live with God-consciousness in my thoughts and actions, have good akhlaaq, and have both wordly and spiritual goals that give me purpose and motivation. I care a lot about all aspects of my health and have good lifestyle habits. 

I would describe myself as kind, curious, and adventurous. I enjoy going on runs and hikes and love to travel. I value spending meaningful time with family and friends. I also value lifelong learning, and am particularly interested in areas such as law, politics, and history, alongside my ongoing Islamic studies.

As a future partner, I would be communicative, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent, with a strong commitment to building a relationship and warm, loving home grounded in sakina, rahma and mawadda. I would strive to be supportive and encouraging of my partner’s goals, challenges, and personal growth, and to actively contribute to a relationship where both individuals are becoming the best versions of themselves, and build a strong sense of companionship.

Alongside this, I would like to share in the joys of life together, such as travel, new experiences, good food, and the simple pleasures of the dunya, while remaining grounded in our values and purpose.

Reach out if this sounds like you. JazakAllah.

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