MA journey from failed to successful
Hello, I found out I was positive way back March pa after sex namin ng partner ko mga days later nag pt nako agad then positive. It was 2nd week ng March so nag hanap agad ako ng Abortion pills and bought a set from tktok seller.
Due to heptic schedule nainom ko yung meds mga april 3rd week na.
Its a set of
6miso
6mife
4medione
Worth 4k+ With a long procedure
Fasting 15hrs
7 hrs medicine procedure then need to push the baby out
I had bleeding and crampings but after 2 weeks of checking. Its failed
So I bought again a higher dose, same seller same procedure and again FAILED!
Sayang pera, sayang panahon at pagod.
Totally not worth it. Then I found out reddit, safe2choose, fredlis and ms L.
This time 16 weeks na ako. I did an ultrasound para makapag buy again ng meds pero yung mga legit seller until 13 weeks lang ang inaaccept nila. Mine was 16 na, some suggest to do SA.
Im desperate, I inquire..
Then I found out Ms L from reddit friend na tumatanggap sya until 18weeks then someone posted her journey with Ms. L and she was 18 weeks and successful. So I gave it a shot.
For context I am 18 weeks at this time.
June 23: ordered meds to Ms. L via LBC courier.
June 25: Notified by Lbc meds has arrived.
June 26: Got the meds
June 27: Saturday
(4-2-2-2-2-2-2) method
First dose of mife:
1:25pm 4mife intake with water
No cramps, no bleeding and chills at all
Wait for 72 hours
June 30: Tuesday
12:45pm 400mg ibuprofen
1:25pm 2 miso under the tongue
- slight chills no cramps
4:25 2 miso under the tongue
- slight chills and cramps
7:25 2 miso under the tongue
- slight chills, cramps medyo mas masakit tong cramps nato kesa sa nauna but tolerable
Still doing my usual things
Eat drink and clean the house
No bleeding yet
Told that I can swallow my saliva enough para lang hindi mafull mouth ko. But im trying to hold the medicine as much as I can.
What bothers me are the meds under my tongue, medyo masakit sya pag tumatagal.
8:20 bleeding
9:20 watery vowel with chills and cramps
10:25pm 2 miso under the tongue
Heavy cramps, chills
July 1 Wednesday
1:25am 2 miso under the tongue
Intense cramping like hell! Like nag lalabor. Chills and hilo.
Around 3:00 sumuka, yes sumuka po ako and I freak out kasi baka di na tumalab ang meds since nagsuka ako ng pag kadami dami. But it relieved me somehow, gumaan feeling ko. Nabawasan pag kahilo.
Around 3:30-4:00
Super sakit na cramps na may gustong lumabas so umire ako and push my tummy para bumaba si baby, sumabog yung panubigan kasabay ng paglabas ng baby.
Baby came out but placenta remains inside
And here’s my mistake, I tried to pull the cord to help placenta out but it cut out.
Note: WAG NA WAG HIHILAIN, HAYAAN LANG DAW NAKAHANG AT KUSANG LALABAS. I SUGGEST IIRE KASABAY NG CONTRACTION. OR MAG SQUAT PARA MAS BUMABA AT LUMABAS.
I put my diaper pads where my baby is in the basin. Then took the last dose of miso
4:25 took the last dose of miso under the tongue
Then naka sleep ako sa sobrang pagod, Hindi ko na nailabas yung remaining placenta, or sac.
10:00am woke up and still the meds are under my tongue
Swallow it with water
Rest the whole day after, nahihilo na lang and nanlalambot.
•did my research on how to remove placenta
reach out some Reddit friends to seek advice
Squat and walking
And worst part, grieving while burying our baby. The gender already seen, he is whole and complete.
Mine was buried in a big pot and I put plants on the top of it so we can see him every time everyday.
BLEEDING but not heavy
July 2 Thursday
It’s been past 24 hours and wala pa din placenta lumalabas. I did squat walk and took primrose to help soften my cervix but still nothing comes out.
3pm: decided to go to hospital
Hospital told me that I need referal fron my ob so I go to my ob and told I had miscarriage
5pm: tvs with my ob
Found out theres a lot of tissues and placenta still inside. I was told to go to hospital to do raspa
7pm: go to different hospital and assisted very well
9pm: inject of anesthesia
10:00pm-12:30am: DnC procedure
Thank God wala akong nafeel sa buong procedure. Right now nasa room na ako for recovery. No bleeding at all na.
July 3:
6am: nag wiwi at nakatayo na
10am: nakapag poop na
So far im good na. Bumaba ang hemoglobin due to lost of bloods during operation so need ko lang mag ferus
5pm: take meds (antibiotic, ferus, and pang pastop ng bleeding ng cervix)
By tomorrow morning pwede nako umuwi .
TO ALL GIRLS OUT THERE, please always used protection to prevent unwanted pregnancy. Because it’s not easy to terminate pregnancy, it will cost you a lot of money, time and effort to get an abortion. Especially in the Philippines it’s illegal. The procedure might kill you as well. And the guilt will haunt you forever.
THANK YOU REDDIT FRIENDS TO ALL THE HELPS AND CONCERNS. For those who need help, dmed me and I am willing to help you out as well.