u/kreznek

My life has change since that day. She died from CKD brought by lupus which we had fought for over 12 years. I didn't expect her to leave so sudden. A day before we were supposed to be discharge she complains that she can't breathe it turns out she has fluids in her lungs and doctors need to intubate her. I agreed since she had been intubated before and survive. After a while when she woke up she ask me for a paper and pen and wrote that there is something wrong with the tube in her mouth. The doctor decided to re intubate her but she had a cardiac arrest during the process. She was revived after 16 mins but there was damaged to the brain. She was comatose for 3 days and died on the 3rd day. That event really haunts me. I really miss her. I could have done something at least.

My life has change since that day. She died from CKD brought by lupus which we had fought for over 12 years. I didn't expect her to leave so sudden. A day before we were supposed to be discharge she complains that she can't breathe it turns out she has fluids in her lungs and doctors need to intubate her. I agreed since she had been intubated before and survive. After a while when she woke up she ask me for a paper and pen and wrote that there is something wrong with the tube in her mouth. The doctor decided to re intubate her but she had a cardiac arrest during the process. She was revived after 16 mins but there was damaged to the brain. She was comatose for 3 days and died on the 3rd day. That event really haunts me. I really miss her. I could have done something at least.