Estate planning with blended family
My husband and I have been married for 15yrs, when I met him he was divorced, filed BK and his home was foreclosed on. I made significantly more but over the years the salary gap has narrowed but I still make a bit more. I am a go-getter and he is just whatever, midway thru marriage he cheated. I asked for a postnuptial he has refused to sign, although that was contingent on me staying. Today we have 2 properties. One a 2nd home worth $500k and the other where we live worth $2m - he has two kids from prior in their late 20s with one married prior and we have 2 together 12 & 4. My earning potential is higher. I want my kids to get significantly more in trust but I’m also considering divorce since I haven’t gotten over the affairs but I don’t want to split the household for my kids sake. I’m struggling with what to do. Please help with thoughts