u/lamigulmammadli

My provider seems like he is going to be broke.

1. I told him to find different ways to make money, but he said the economy is very bad and he can’t. (This is a third-world country and is literally on the edge of collapsing.)
2. He can’t afford the things I want, and he keeps future-faking.
3. He has a big business idea which is really nice and could earn him a lot of money, but because it is a broke, third-world country, customers likely won't buy it because every day everything is getting worse.
4. Today he confessed to point number 3 and told me he feels hopeless. I asked him, 'Now what should we do? Cry?' He told me, 'he doesn't know' 'If people protest, the system would change' I told him 'Nothing will change , everything will get even worse.'
5. Honestly, I feel like if he becomes homeless, he won't care at this point.

Now let's look at my situation:

1. My country is even worse than his. There are no workplaces and no providers. It is an extremely poor country; most people cannot even afford basic meals. Many women are sex workers, and foreign men come to my country to use women’s bodies. It is very miserable. I came to his country for some hope, and now my hope is dying.
2. I have no family, nobody, no money, no friends, and no home. I would probably have to be a sex worker which I really don't want to do, or I would have to work 12–14 hours with very little money that barely meets my basic needs.

Should I go back to my country, or should I stay, let him pay,(He pays for everything, I don't work ) wait? Honestly, I don't want to go back .I feel so hopeless.

Hello, ladies. We are moving to America next year.

Are there lots of competitions? Like, are there lots of drop-dead gorgeous women who are looking for a man, aware of Shera games or something similar?

My husband is a great provider, and I feel like the Shera movement is starting to get famous across America, so it means women can do anything to get the bag. No morals anymore. Which is fine when u do it but when others do it to you it turns sour real quick. So I need to be smarter

I know it sounds insecure, but I want to be ready if that is the case. I could work on my looks , keep more money, look for more mind games , have side dudes etc

I personally would like to move to quieter cities closer to nature with way less competition. Any advice?

I come from a Caucasian country.

(And for some who come and tell me aa don't be insecure, focus on urself, don't care. I am obsessed with myself , love myself soo much. But still I have to be aware of what is waiting for me over there.

For example next month I ll be in a different country with my husband and women there put lots of makeup and I have to do it too. Why ? Because I don't wanna look like ... next to some 18 y.o with full of makeup . Hell no. )

Thank you for reading

Why men look but don't approach? Yes I have a provider . I am pretty want to get more (without intimacy , just extra money) And how can I make them approach? Maybe eye contact?