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The Relationship Wasn’t Changing You. Your Fear Was.
Have you ever pulled back from a relationship, not because something went wrong, but because closeness itself felt like a warning sign?
There's a reason that happens. New research shows avoidant individuals perceive self-loss that others simply don't see.
The feeling is real. The threat isn't.
Worth understanding before you sabotage your relationship for no reason.
u/lewandowskiphd — 6 days ago