u/libragirly33

I really like this Aries guy I’m a libra with a libra moon and Taurus rising. He also has a libra moon and a Taurus rising. We have good chemistry good conversation but sometimes he goes distant when this happens I like to just give him a space but I’m also trying to figure out for myself. How do I navigate this situation better I’m wondering if there are any Aries people here with an Aries Stellium specifically in sun, mercury, Venus, and Saturn, who can give me some insight on how to build a bond with this person while also giving them their space

This is something that I’ve noticed specifically with Aries men when I text them even if the conversation is fun engaging light hearted goofy sometimes they’ll read my text and then respond hours later sometimes they’ll read a text and not respond at all and I’ll wait a couple of days and I’ll message them with something else and then they’ll respond to that message and then respond to the message that I sent them previously. Why do they do this even if the conversation is fun or exciting

So I’m friends with benefits and Aries guy
recently, I had enrolled into college and we were texting and I said “now I don’t need an excuse to wear my schoolgirl outfit for you”😏😜 when he responded, he said “Haha! Yes use yo naughty outfits to school” I’m just curious because I was clearly flirting about wearing my schoolgirl outfit for him, but he’s sort of deflected

We flirt all the time because like I said, we’re friends with benefits friends in the other day, I sent him a text that said “ hey friend, I can’t sleep want some benefit benefits”
He texted back “haha that’s sexy af!! But I’m to high”

My question is, how do Aries prefer to flirt

Hello there, my situation is a little bit unique please!!!

So I am a libra trans woman who happens to have cerebral palsy so I use a wheelchair to get around. I’ve hung out with a lot of Aries men. I love them and they love me.

The issues that I run into at times though is that I often get the impression that they assume I won’t be able to keep up with him

Often times when I am hanging out with them it’s usually when we’re doing something very low-key. We could be at home watching a movie we could be reading something that doesn’t really take a lot of energy.

The thing is I like Aries for there’s adventurous side how do I show them that I can keep up with them and we could still be adventurous

FYI, a lot of the Aries men that I date tend to be very introverted and not super adventurous but I would really like to date an Aries that is a lot more extroverted and can bring me along for his adventures

I’m talking to those Aries man and we’ve hung out several times we’ve slept together several times for the past three months. We have a very intimate relationship, but he made it very clear that he’s not really ready for a relationship, but I would say our dynamic feels very relationship adjacent so I’m just curious are Aries men particularly intimate with those that they don’t want a relationship with or is he playing games?

Most Aries man I’m encountered. I’ve been very brutally upfront about what they want for me. He seems to be unsure and every time I ask him, he says I don’t know. It almost makes me wonder what his rising and his moon can be. He doesn’t seem like the most confident Aries

How do I know if an Aries guy is using me as a rebound for Context this Aries guy that I’ve been talking to for the past three months broke up with his girlfriend of three years three months before we met. They broke up in February we met in May.

Things have been getting really intimate with us not sexual because he’s the type of person that doesn’t sleep with people. He’s not in a relationship with so we mostly just been kissing and lots of foreplay and just being very intimate and passionate.

My question is how do I know if I’m not just a rebound how do I know he won’t just leave me for someone else once he’s over his ex completely. How do I know he’s not using me I hope he’s not using me.

He said when we met that he thought our relationship was turning into something more, but he got scared because he wasn’t ready for a relationship yet we’re still being very intimate with each other. We just saw each other this last Thursday. We had a couple of drinks shared a lot of stories with each other had some great laughs. He even invited me to the park and to his house, but I did turn him down only because it was super late and we were both drunk and I didn’t wanna be out super late and drunk.

He was cool about it. We had such a great time and we’ve been texting pretty consistently since so does this guy like me or am I being used? What sign should I look for that? I’m just a rebound and that we’re not actually building towards something real

So I really need help from Aries people so the guy that I’ve been talking to and casually seeing for the past two months in an Aries and I’m a libra trans woman he is super supportive of this. He has a trans sister. When we first started casually seeing each other, it started off very hot and heavy. We were seeing each other quite often and we would text each other quite often. The first month was amazing and then he said he needed space

Our last time hang out together was June 23. I specifically remember this day because I actually had an appointment earlier in the day so it was marked in my calendar and I met up with him after my appointment since then it has been a month since we’ve seen each other in person

I’d like to clarify a couple of things we’ve only been casually seeing each other for going on three months so not that long and about one month we haven’t seen each other in person so I’m really two months of actually seeing each other also keep in mind that we have been texting pretty much every day

Also, I wanna say the Aries guy that I’m talking to works as a security guard overnight so we have very different schedules and we’re up at very different times

Now that you have some context, my question is since it’s been a month that we have not fully seen each other in person is it wrong of me to tell him that I need him to communicate a little better the reason why I bring this up is because lately he has also been slipping away from texting before he used to actually talk to me while he was at work. He used to tell me good morning. He used to tell me good night he used to tell me about his day or ask about mine, but slowly that is starting to fade.

It hasn’t completely gone away, but I’m seeing a pattern where he will go 24 hours to two days without texting me sometimes keep in mind. I’m not someone who needs to text someone 24 seven my issue with him not texting me more consistently is that because he’s been taking space for the past month and we haven’t physically hung out. I need more communication from text I feel like that’s only fair if he doesn’t want to text then maybe he should show up a little bit more but I don’t think it’s fair to want it both ways.

I don’t know if I’m overreacting because we are just being casual, but I also don’t think that there’s anything wrong with me saying I want him to communicate more especially given the fact that we aren’t seeing each other right now
I could really use some advice