
Why does deep, genuine romantic connection happen quite rarely for me?
I've always been cautious in love, haven't had numerous relationships as trust is fundamental for me, and that takes time. When I did have them, it was either wonderful, wholesome and safe until it had to end, or it eventually came after a long time of unrequited love from my side (twice even), when somehow they would finally notice my qualities too.
But it was all so rare. Going out, "putting myself out there", meeting through friends, through work, through events, or not doing any of that, none of it yielded much result and it was always rare for me to feel a special emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. Why is that, based on the chart? Thanks for any insight!