u/likeehearttoo247

I personally feel like a good step of relieving yourself of this addiction is to acknowledge your misogyny as well as your internal view that the female body is objectively inferior

Hello, let me first start by saying this is not coming from a judgmental place nor am I trying to make you guys feel bad or criticize/ go down the I hate men all male spaces are misogynistic etc etc point we all know too well, I understand as someone who has not had nor gone thru this certain addiction obviously I’m not going to fully understand it but that’s what discussion is for, but I personally think an initial introduction to sissy fetishization content comes from an initial misogynistic view of the female body and role in society, autogynophilia and addictions like this will always be present in heavily patriarchal environments and headspace’s, again I wasn’t raised or around male only intimate spaces but from what I’ve heard from peers and seen from research misogyny as well as the viewing of the female body as inferior almost starts immediately as the brain learns to gather information, I am not saying you are all inherently misogynistic it’s rather a socialization thing from birth normalized language peers, older men/ women, the media, etc specifically tells boys there is a certain way you should view the female body i think that sissy hypno as well as other forms of feminized fetishization is in the degradation category of porn rather then the gay category, I don’t think really any of you are homosexual men or have homosexual tendencies because the initial introduction to this content centers around the objectification of the female role and body in society and if you are what were your first signs? this particularly fetish has to come from the initial view that women are objectively inferior to men in almost every way physically and mentally, I am aware that many female hobbies and forms of expression are inherently viewed as sexual due to patriarchal domination, my question to you gentleman what about being a woman is degrading/exciting, why are female/feminine traits, dress, language and expression viewed as so degrading and erotic? I feel like you men are victims, but not victims necessarily the sissy porn itself, I feel a great first step to break away from this habit you do have to unpack misogyny as well as your view of the female body, like I don’t think it is the literal porn itself because acts and practices of degrading men by placing them in female roles for the purpose of sexual gratification has existed way before the creation of sissy porn vids or that category, I’ve seen similar inverses where women will go through gender transition but not because they feel an incongruous with biological sex and expression but because of an internal hatred of the female body due to sexualization, internalized misogyny and fetishization, i think if you just cold turkey stop jerking off to sissy porn it won’t really do anything until you combat why do you view the female body as inferior I read a lot of “I’m not gay” or “why can’t I get hard and fuck real women” or the whole dirty secret clean conscious thing but I don’t hear a lot of men talking about misogyny aspect to this fetish and again I’m not very informed of the history of this type of content nor am I’m addiction counseling for it so I don’t know what its like first hand but would love to have discussions with you guys

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u/likeehearttoo247 — 13 days ago