u/lillouns

Leftover sesame chicken I'm going to try to eat because appetite is gone 😭

I just posted not long ago about just feeling overwhelmed with daughter's health things, and everything just got significantly worse in other ways.

On Wednesday, I got a friend request. I normally don't add people I don't know but she was friends with my daughter's former TAs. So I accepted. She sent me a message that afternoon and let me know that one of the TA's had aggressively grabbed and pulled my daughter's face and neck towards her to wipe her face. It left finger prints on her neck that were there for at least 30 mins. An OT(I'll call A) witnessed it and took pictures and immediately reported it to B (I'll use random letters so it doesn't get too confusing). B essentially said that because the prints finally went away, not to say anything to parents to not alarm us.

Now the part where things get worse. Teacher C, who has helped me tremendously over the years with my daughter was let go. Lady who friend requested me, D, was let go. Another TA, E, was let go. Teacher C is petrified that the school and program is trying to ruin her. She apologized for not telling me, but she doesn't want to speak out. She also said that the TA who put hands on my daughter, F, has accused numerous people of discrimination. I tried to contact police on Wednesday by calling the non-emergency line and they were going to contact the SRO. SRO never called me back. I delayed contacting Thursday because my daughter was at her special Olympics, and saw E there. E informed my F pretended to choke her. She reported it and was let go shortly after.

I was finally able to contact the police in the area of the school, who were pissed that the SRO wasn't handling things. They called me a few hours after and said they called to the school program and they seem utterly convinced this is just former employee retaliation, and my daughter is just stuck in the middle.

I said at the end of the day, yes, discrimination is wrong, but my daughter has marks on her body! And a witness who is still there. I tried to contact A, the OT to get her story and the pictures. I don't trust the school to be honest, because a few people I talked to seemed more concerned about the people reporting than the marks left on my daughter.

My daughter has had numerous instances of HORRIBLE bruising over the years when TA F has been there this whole time. I was told by D that F also let my daughter sit in her waste numerous times. We had SIGNIFICANT issues with her being properly cleaned and sent home with waste dried on her. This was reported numerous times

Everyone was let go in February and I'm just now being told. I don't know what to do. I trust no one at the school. Trying to find her a new program. But I want justice for my daughter. I know she was left with bruising in the past, and now I may have the answers as to who they came from. But I don't know if police are going to pursue things if they're believing the school program.

What do I do next? I contacted the OT myself and praying she still has the pictures. My daughter is non-verbal and cannot speak for herself 😭

Blocked sidewalk

It's unfair

Why does her face look like that?

My Great-Grandparents (1920's)

Others pics always showing her true self

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