u/lilwaterone

Wants to take us to Disney

My MIL is mildlyno but also has severe mental health issues. This is one of her things, but this instance is by far the worst in my opinion.
I am pregnant with our second and we have a 3yo. I would think most people dream of taking their kids and family to Disney. We certainly do. We can afford to. Not every year mind you. And we haven’t yet nor have we agreed on “when the kids will be old enough”.
Now my MIL goes to my husband and asks if we would be interested in a Disney trip come this March. The implication is they will pay. And of course we are interested, in general. But I am apprehensive.
What ticks me off the most is then she tells my husband “Well I haven’t talked to your father about this idea yet.”
OH, so it isn’t going to happen. Mind you, they never took their 2 kids on any Disney or Disney-esque trip. I fear my husbands hopes are going to be squashed and the relationship will continue to deteriorate.
I am annoyed because we have never done a big, or heck, even small, family trip with them. They don’t like to spend money. This is going to be awful no matter the outcome.

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u/lilwaterone — 6 days ago