u/littlehimebunny

Hewwo!!! Somehow new to this, and I usually don't like to expose myself this much, but I see the years counting down and I'm starting to realize I'll never find someone unless I actually try to look, so... yeah, I guess that's what I'm doing here!

I'll start by mentioning I tried to keep this short, but I feel like it's impossible to do a proper introduction while doing that, so yeah, thank you in advance if you decide to read all of it!! I'm kind of a yapper and if we end up talking and I get comfy with you there will definitely be more of these :3

I'm a strictly monogamous demisexual trans lesbian, or something like that, and I don't do anything casual, so if you're either poly of are mainly looking for sex, you should look somewhere else, sowwy

Oh, and I'm fine with both cis and trans girls, what you have down there is not what matters to me

So yeah, being as direct as possible, I'm looking for a long term relationship, someone I can deeply connect with, someone I can see is as interested in me as I'm interested in them, someone I can see puts as much effort into our relationship as I do, someone I can build something meaningful with, something built on mutual respect, understanding, kindness and loyalty.

While I'm honest and pretty direct about my goals, I know what I'm trying to build requires a lot of time and care, so I'm obviously not expecting it to start like that right away. Ideally we would start with a nice friendship and hopefully slowly build up to something more, if all the stars happen to align~

I'm a firm believer of "the person you date should also be your best friend", so in the end of the day, that really is what I'm looking for, both a best friend and a lover, someone I can connect with in a deeply emotional level and do everything or almost everything with

I'm looking for someone around my age, but I guess I usually have an easier time connecting with someone younger? so I would say I'm open to a range of around 23 to 35, maybe? something like that, but it's not a hard requirement

As you can see in the title, I'm in Europe, and while I would prefer if that was also the case for you, that's definitely not a requirement and I'm willing to also meet people from other places!

With that said, as for distance: I'm generally fine with LDR's initially, but I'm at a point in my life where I would like something more, so we would need to have some sort of plans to eventually close the gap in a reasonable amount of time (months to 1-2 years). As for how that gap would be closed, it's obviously something we would have to talk at the time, but I can say I'm very flexible when it comes to that

I speak 3 languages: my native language, fluent english, and mid level japanese, which I've been learning for about one year and half or so.

Japanese is a language I really love and I've been wanting to learn since forever, and since I started doing it for real it ended up becoming a big part of my lifestyle and day to day life, so ideally it's something I would love to share with someone as part of my daily practice

While I don't have any official diagnosis, I'm most likely neurodivergent in some way because there's no other reasonable way to explain the amount of brain worms going on in my mind (incomprehensible gestures at all the silly nonsense I'm writing here). As you can probably guess from the way I write, I often sound considerably younger than I am, and I'm kind of an extremely awkward shy baby

I'm kinda silly, cringe, extremely random, I don't care about appearances, I constantly make a lot of horrible jokes with the most obscure references, and I don't care if people don't understand or laugh at them, that's my kind of humor style! This can obviously get annoying pretty fast if you're not into that kind of nonsense or bubbly personality, but if not, it would be nice to be with someone I can laugh together with as that's probably the easiest way for us to have fun together~

So well, let's talk about my interests?! These are a huge part of who I am and they're most of what I talk about, meaning they're the easiest way to connect with me, to the point I have trouble communicating with people I don't have common interests with

I'm a huge weeb, watch a lot of anime, read some manga here and there, pretty much only listen to jpop/anison music. I'm a himejoshi at heart and yuri is pretty much my whole personality

I have an extremely specific taste in media and mostly focus on a few genres: shoujo, magical girls, music, idol/bands, yuri/romance, fantasy

Once in a while I might watch or like something outside of these, but these are exceptions! The point is, you can expect me to have watched a thousand episodes across 20 different seasons of a niche magical girl anime made for little girls, but I most likely never watched the super popular shounen everyone likes.

I like playing games once in a while but nowadays it's harder for something to actually catch my attention and I would never call myself a gamer (derogatory)

I have an easier with multiplayer games, so ideally we would play things together! I guess I would also be up to just watch you play something while cuddling or something

I have a computer science degree, work full time and live on my own (with that said, I'm kind of a hiki and barely go out, which is something I would definitely like to do more)

While I work in software, I love hardware and manage my own small homelab, which I definitely plan to improve in the future. I use nixos, btw

Software wise, I'm also kind of a jack of all trades and like a little bit of everything, lol, both high and low level, from assembly to css and other extremely cursed content

I'm a tinkerer at heart, and I often like getting into super random fun projects, from coding, to 3d printing, to hardware, to sewing, bricolage, etc. However, I'm also a chronic procrastinator and lose motivation pretty easily, so ideally I would like you to also enjoy doing these so we can have projects together and motivate each other!!!

I looooooove food in general, cooking and trying new things, so I would love someone I could go on food adventures with! If you message me, please tell me if you're team butter or team olive oil so I know you've read this

I also really like traveling, going on long walks, appreciating nature and exploring new places, even if I don't do it nearly as much as I would like to

I'm also interested in public transit, walkable cities, and I think trains are the coolest thing ever! Also space!!! I love space and I think we should do more of that

I live a pretty frugal life and have an anti-consumerism mindset. I don't take this to the extreme and have a decent understanding of what is and isn't worth doing, but yeah, I'm the kind of silly girl who talks about how evil companies are, watches consumer advocacy youtube content and fights for the right to repair

Of the 5 love languages, I would say the most important one for me is by far quality time as I love doing things together and that's something I require a lot of. Given my interests are a huge part of my life, this means I'm ideally looking for someone as similar as possible to me when it comes to these. You don't need to be a perfect match about everything I like, but I thrive when we both share a bunch of stuff we can fangirl together about, so it would be pretty nice to have a somewhat decent overlap! (for example, it's fine if you don't care about tech as long as we have the same taste in anime).

With that said, I also value acts of service a lot and these small things we can do for each other on a daily basis to show how much much we care. I would say I'm also a touchy-feely girl, but not necessarily in a sexual way.

If it maters to you, I've been on hrt for about 6 years now, I'm fully out and fully living as a girl.

I consider myself a femme! I dress in a very feminine way and would say I'm also very feminine when it comes to my personality and interests. While I don't really care about physical appearance much, I have a tendency to naturally gravitate towards people who also have a more femme energy, at least in terms of personality and interests. With that said, I wouldn't call this a preference, so please don't let it stop you if you think we're a good match, I'm open to try new things!

If you care about sexual details, like I said before, I usually consider myself demisexual. For me sex is just a direct extension of my feelings and it's mostly an emotional thing, so it's something I'm only interested in doing with someone I have a deep connection with.

I don't have much experience, but I consider myself pretty versatile and a switch, so if we hit it off I'll match whatever your needs are. It's pretty much the same for my libido and I also have a tendency to match whatever your needs there are (with that said, I would definitely feel more comfortable if you're more moderate, but extremely high/low libidos are not a deal breaker either)

Also, I consider myself pretty vanilla, but again, very lack of experience, so who knows, really! I'm pretty open to try new things as long as they don't cause any harm or pain to either of us

Given my lack of experience, I would honestly also feel more at ease with someone more inexperienced as well, but again, this is more of a nice to have and far from being a deal breaker

So well, if you managed to reach the end and I sound appealing to you in some way, feel free to send me a DM! Please introduce yourself if you do so!! Tell me about yourself and why you think we would be a good match :3