r/t4t

Hey I'm 26 mtf name's em!

If your cis person sorry but this ain't for you

I recently along with some help made a server that is still a little bare bones but it coming together, this is a place for us trans people no matter where you are in your journey to come together make friends, community and maybe have a little spicy fun along the way in your interested please DM me n such and we can see about addeding ya :)

Also not its obvs that this is also 18+

I'm a big polyam gamer nerd with ADHD so when a game latches onto me I'll play it for several hours at a time until it's completed. I love having a quiet morning with my partner sipping coffee and discussing the events of the day. I have an anime watch list that reaches the moon and back so I need someone to tackle that with me! (Then there's the ones I've seen and you haven't, it never ends UGH ;P). I play just about everything but I tend to avoid fighting games and racing games because I REALLY suck at them ;p. Earth defense force was on sale so I just bought and am chewing through edf 6 and I also got edf 4.1 to add to the collection. I'm a PC gamer but I welcome all gamers :D. If you were to sit in my lap catching pokemon on your switch while I'm murdering bugs on my pc that would be incredible.

I just read that paragraph back and DAMN my ADHD is bad 😅. #### it I'm rolling with whatever comes off my mind.

Other hobbies that aren't in the foreground but I have either tried or really want to get back into - mtg, ptcg, Warhammer, d&d, rc ANYTHING (1/10 scale drift car next?), anything to do with shooting- targets not living things, airsoft, nerf, cooking, baking, knife making, knife sharpening, maybe owning a motorcycle some day (you backpack maybe?)

I'm a sadistic dom top and for those of you who like those things, you know who you are and I'm always looking to adopt.

Hi all,

I saw a post earlier about people looking for a discord server or group to make it easier to chat and interact with other trans people, so I figured I'd help out and set one up cause why the hell not lol.

Soooo short and sweet post here if you're interested feel free to reach out to me via DMs

hi, i'm ethan, 24 year old trans disabled twink thing :). i'm looking for some new trans friends, anywhere is fine but i'm in socal if you'd like to meet up! i like to draw (oc havers to the front) and dabble in different arts and crafts. i like playing video games (even though i'm terrible at it hehe), i'm currently into ark, bl2 and diablo 2! i also have a wonderful trans gf too who you will definitely hear about lol. hope we can bond over arts, games, music, the trans experience, or whatever else! i'm online a lot rn so you'll probs hear from me :)

Hit me up, DMs are open for your best pitch of what you’d like, how you’d want me to own you, how good you want to be for me…and how much you want it. I’ll decide who made the best case and we’ll have some fun 🤩

Hi! A couple of trans friends and I are setting up a discord server that will be trans only, openly and freely horny while also hopefully serving as a community-- for making friends, mutual support and sharing/chatting about SFW interests, in addition to the horny stuff! We're hoping to find some people to join and maybe help shape it, if you’d like.

Something I'm hoping this server can be better about is helping new people feel welcomed and wanted, by doing more to reach out to them when they're new- since I always find it pretty sad when some people seem to struggle to get involved or end up getting ignored more often when they’re new.

I'm also hoping that it can be a place for your interests and that we can make a community with a big variety of people that all feel welcomed and like they have a place. And by community I hope that it will include a sense of community and activities we can all participate in-- like playing games, watching things, reading things, or whatever else you'd enjoy.

It's also a server that we hope to welcome a wide variety of kinks without shaming others, so hopefully you’re willing to share a space with others who may be into more divisive, niche or kinky things <3 Not including actually harming others of course.

Since this isn't a public server yet, I'd like to chat with people a tiny bit before letting people in to see if it seems like a good fit but it won’t be strict or too formal at all.

Keep in mind it'll be pretty small and private for now and hopefully grow gradually as we can handle it <3

Can't wait to talk and get to know you!!!

Started HRT like a week ago and I hate how anyone I talk to stops talking me to me once I don’t got a perfect body. Plz just I don’t need a gf/bf I just want a companion to explain what’s going on

I just want someone to be there sorry I’m dumb idk what I’m looking for tbh

Im 19 trans masc and the idea of a bigger woman throwing me around like a ragdoll, slapping me, using me wherever i am is so hot. Im 50 kilos and 161 cm, i want a woman i can compare my hands with and then giggle on about how big her hands are 😵‍💫😵‍💫

Hello, I am super open to long term stuff and getting to know each other. Drooling at porn just doesnt do it for me and i love having online FWBs 😁 I'm quite familiar with such things

🔹I love animals, slowcore/ punk rock, and video games. Pokemon, JRPGs, LoL, visual novels, and Marvel Rivals. currently in LOVE with Fields of Mistria

🔹 ive been on HRT for over a year. strict instructions and getting bullied by the right person admittedly turns me on but is not at all a requirement

🔹Open to sharing what we find hot & pics of each other/ dirty talk. I love penis and bigger is generally better 😅 but with tgirls size doesnt matter to me

🚫Limits: anything piggy/puppy, preg, potty. words like goon, gock, etc are huge turn offs

Message me ASL & what youre looking for IF you want a response 🎯 effort and respect is hot 🔥

Hey, I thought a while about posting here and I think it could be fun to meet more trans masc (men and nonbinary) people! I’m enby (on T since a few years), demi/bi and from germany. I enjoy creative hobbies and fantasy media, anime and being in nature.
I’m mostly looking for people who don’t mind being flirty and are interested in regular texting and eventually talking on voice chat while working on projects or playing games, or maybe watching movies together. Due to work I’m mostly free in the evenings, I’d say 8pm to 11pm CET usually but obviously other times would work as well sometimes.
Since I am demi I want to put here that me catching feelings or interest along the line is a possibility, and while a relationship or fwb situation is not my goal at this point I would love to keep the possibility open. If we click, I would love to explore that! :)
I would love to eventually meet irl but it might take me some time to be comfortable with that.

Please only reach out if you’re between 25 and 35, and preferably don’t smoke (if you would want to meet irl as more than friends).
This has no time limit, but I would always prefer a +5/-5 age range.

I’m masc ftm but on the submissive side. I’ve been very horny lately but not getting much action and just in the mood to flirt/sext/maaaaybe swap pictures with someone more dominant or bossy if that makes sense. My availability is a bit limited so prefer something casual. I’m bored at work and so horny!! Tell me what to do and what you want to do to me. I consider myself kinky and super into dubcon. Pics on profile. 🫣

hii, sorry for the abhorrently shit post in advance but allow me to introduce myself

I'm a 20 transfem gender confused thing (will elaborate in private if you'd like).

with that out the way I'll get into the oddly pathetic things about me.

I am riddled with anxiety and my social skills suck until you get to know me, then I will cling to you like a parasite that you cannot get rid of (you can, all it takes is you to say for me to back off or go away and i'll obey near instantly), I am quite lonely outside of a handfew of people I speak to and I want to use this as an attempt to try and make more friends.

I sleep a lot, it's an escape for me and it helps me cope when alone, I don't like being alone with my thoughts, they're scary.

to not spoil some of the things i do, you'll have to reach out so you are forced to talk to me!!

on the other sides of things.

I'm open to all kinds of things, nsfw/lewd or not, i don't mind.
I love giving affection to others if it makes them happy, I am very touchy and also touch starved so expect me to cling to you if you give me permission to hug you n such.

feel free to reach out if you wish to put up with me, if not, take cares!! <3

Hi there!

I am just looking for a lovely woman with the desire to kick around a puppy recreationally. Ideally with the right click and room to lead up to more with the right vibes.

Archetypal lesbian borzoi, from looks to mentality, 28 years old, on hrt since about one and a half years now with a decent tolerance for unfair treatment.

My goal is a good time, friendship and maybe some day ownership. At least finding someone to yearn and burn over.

Mind you I prefer it on the rougher end.

Definitely interested and able to make a friendship physical with the right pretext.

Waiting for you~<3

Scratching the door already

Hiyaaaa I’m Maria, I’m a 23 year old trans woman from western Canada, I’m feeling bored tonight and I’d love to chat with people!! NSFW and sfw welcome :) I’m really into music (even though I can’t play an instrument lol) and have been particularly into Ethel Cain lately!! There is so much missing from here but I’m very forthcoming with whatever you may be wondering!! :)

hi! i'm looking for some casual sexting partners who would enjoy controlling my lovense toy! i have a wide array of kinks, so i'm sure we'll be able to connect on some level. whether you want to sext, swap pics, goon together, or rp, feel free to hit me up! please just be willing to control my toy as well <33

26 [TM4T] Anyone awake and looking to chat?

Hey, I am CJ, and I am a trans man who lives in Southeast Louisiana. I am looking to make some more friends. I don't have a lot of people I talk to regularly, and I find it nice to talk with people and share experiences. I have been out for 10 years and transitioning for just as long. I'm on T, post top, no bottom. Tattoos, piercings, and a short bear.

Kinks: facefucking, fucking and being fucked, cumshots, frotting, bondage, wax play, dom/sub, sensory play, blindfolds, cbt, cock worship,

Feel free to dm me if you're interested.

I am a trans man (20) and my girlfriend is trans (23). We've been dating, almost off n on, for a few months due to several things. I was usually calling things off because of how she went about things n I'd rather stay to myself. This last time we broke up was bc she kept saying she was detransitioning and I only like women... she was upset because... I see her as a woman? But as of late, and almost every week since we've gotten together, she swears that she knows I call her a he.

In which, I don't. Just as I explained to her, I'm trans as well and misgendering another trans person is...??? And I call most feminine presenting people she. Idk where she pulls this out of but it's to the point it makes me mad and she can never explain WHY she thinks this.

Because she never hesitates to demasculinize me. If I cry. I'm too soft. If I react to her yelling, I'm not man enough. If I smile, I'm too soft. If I don't talk, I'm mysterious. If I do talk, she talks over me unless I tell her to stop talking. If I smile, I'm not hard. If I'm hard, I'm dangerous.

She's not convinced that I protect her, but I've pushed a big ass drunk man off of her, pulled her from oncoming traffic and trains, and stopped her from destroying property on a federal charge.

Today, she said "any other girl would take your form of protection, but I'm a trans girl-" I cut my hearing off.

She especially gets like this after she's drunk. And she's so adamant on saying that drunk people tell the truth, but I get so confused. Today, she was saying she has to make sure that I'm on my p's n q's n not embarrassing her. But it's almost a guarantee that she will be fucking loud and act ignorant even if I took her to a 6 Michelin star restaurant.

It's embarrassing.

I messed up our trains one time and the amount of pure screaming. With people watching.

Not to mention the day before she said she has to make sure I'm not embarrassing her. I said no to buying her a vape. We are in a quiet neighborhood. Screaming. Yelling. Pushing. Crying. For ten minutes while we still walked to the smoke shop. Screaming in my ear. Pushing me and saying that she's playing after I said "don't put your hands on me."

I don't know what to do. I want to stay but genuinely. I can not deal with her projections and fears on to me. At first I wasn't hard enough bc I would smile when we walked around n want to hold hands. Now she doesn't want me to be hard bc a trans girl influencer got killed by a cis man.

I'm not over her "knowing" that I misgender her. I don't talk to people I'm introverted as fuck. She even tried to pull in a dream, I shut it down. She's trying to be intuitive and spiritual, but it's just... confusion. I have a devotion that requires things like this because it's bones deep for me.

And my problem is I want to help. I'm still nice and kind. I still take what she dishes out because I don't feel anything. She's constantly blaming her trauma n so on. Sometimes I just feel grief bc I can't remember mine and I think she's lucky. But it's causing her mental pain and distortion.

This was expected because I am calm and quiet. The usual reaction to me is "this is a scary mysterious man. We must perform, push, and pull." Sigh.

Her thinking I misgender her really sends me for a loop. It's not true. She says this shit so often and I'm just...????? Meanwhile her when she gets mad: "A man isn't supposed to do X! You a soft ass man! Do I need to hurt you? So, you WANT me to hurt you?! Are you even a man for real?!"

I need a pack of camel crushes, the green n blue kind.

Hi there my name is Diana and I'm a corporate queer that's going to be visiting Wales at the end of August. The reason is because I plan to check it out and see if it's somewhere id like to live in while I am on the Youth Travel Scheme visa in my effort to pursue a life dream of mine.

I just want people I can feel close with emotionally. Someone I can talk to and spend time with, that I can be a friend with. I don't need horny, I don't need sexy I just want genuine connections. I game, I watch shows, I read. I call myself the extrovert of most my friend groups because I'm the reason a lot of them are friend groups to start with.

I want friends for me this year and I'd love to get to know you if that's something you are also looking for. Feel free to shoot me a DM and if we connect I'd love to take it to dis.

Thanks!

6’ 3” 21 year old white trans woman, skinny build, tiny tits, reasonable gock. im hot as fuck and horny, i wanna show my naked body off in your dms just tell me what position you want me in. dm me with your age and pronouns and i’ll be all yours

Reddit probably isn't the best place to look for a genuine connection(romantic or otherwise) but I'm lonely af so here goes nothing

I'm a 22y/o trans guy who's pre-t but thanks to genetics looks presents pretty much androgynous/masculine(my voice is disasterous tho 😂). I'd pass if I cut my hair shorter but I live in a transphobic country so at the moment I'm just rocking the androgynous vibes with medium long hair.

I'm bi, 5'8(around 172-173cm), on the skinny side, East Asian, a history major currently in uni, a huge gamer, something of a nerd. I have a playful personality and enjoy being affectionately ridiculed by a more no-nonsense type of person.

I don't care about race/nationality and am very open to LDR but the ultimate goal of course would be to meet irl.

Sexual stuff is fine but I'd rather not sext from the start since at the moment I'm not looking for a horny chat that goes nowhere.