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Hey everyone 💜

I’m a 22 y/o trans femme looking for someone to connect with and hopefully build an online relationship. I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately and really miss having that kind of closeness, attention, and affection with someone who genuinely cares.

I’m open-minded, affectionate, and enjoy deep conversations as much as playful, flirty ones. I’m definitely someone who values emotional connection, but I’m also totally comfortable with NSFW topics if that’s something we both vibe with.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone kind, communicative, and also wanting something meaningful—even if it starts online. Bonus points if you enjoy chatting regularly and forming a real bond 💕

If you think we might click, feel free to reach out or comment!

Hello like the tittle says im looking for another transgirl in S.A TX not just to mess around but im open to that if thats what your looking for theres pics on my profile if ur interested in seeing how i look or dm me and i will glady send some

Howdy yall! I’m looking for more friends with benefits! I love to show off my body and love to goon to different material with people! Or just talk about spicy topics in general!

Bonus points if you like books! I’ve read so much this past year and always love to yap about it. I do prefer people around my age

Hewwo!!! Somehow new to this, and I usually don't like to expose myself this much, but I see the years counting down and I'm starting to realize I'll never find someone unless I actually try to look, so... yeah, I guess that's what I'm doing here!

I'll start by mentioning I tried to keep this short, but I feel like it's impossible to do a proper introduction while doing that, so yeah, thank you in advance if you decide to read all of it!! I'm kind of a yapper and if we end up talking and I get comfy with you there will definitely be more of these :3

I'm a strictly monogamous demisexual trans lesbian, or something like that, and I don't do anything casual, so if you're either poly of are mainly looking for sex, you should look somewhere else, sowwy

Oh, and I'm fine with both cis and trans girls, what you have down there is not what matters to me

So yeah, being as direct as possible, I'm looking for a long term relationship, someone I can deeply connect with, someone I can see is as interested in me as I'm interested in them, someone I can see puts as much effort into our relationship as I do, someone I can build something meaningful with, something built on mutual respect, understanding, kindness and loyalty.

While I'm honest and pretty direct about my goals, I know what I'm trying to build requires a lot of time and care, so I'm obviously not expecting it to start like that right away. Ideally we would start with a nice friendship and hopefully slowly build up to something more, if all the stars happen to align~

I'm a firm believer of "the person you date should also be your best friend", so in the end of the day, that really is what I'm looking for, both a best friend and a lover, someone I can connect with in a deeply emotional level and do everything or almost everything with

I'm looking for someone around my age, but I guess I usually have an easier time connecting with someone younger? so I would say I'm open to a range of around 23 to 35, maybe? something like that, but it's not a hard requirement

As you can see in the title, I'm in Europe, and while I would prefer if that was also the case for you, that's definitely not a requirement and I'm willing to also meet people from other places!

With that said, as for distance: I'm generally fine with LDR's initially, but I'm at a point in my life where I would like something more, so we would need to have some sort of plans to eventually close the gap in a reasonable amount of time (months to 1-2 years). As for how that gap would be closed, it's obviously something we would have to talk at the time, but I can say I'm very flexible when it comes to that

I speak 3 languages: my native language, fluent english, and mid level japanese, which I've been learning for about one year and half or so.

Japanese is a language I really love and I've been wanting to learn since forever, and since I started doing it for real it ended up becoming a big part of my lifestyle and day to day life, so ideally it's something I would love to share with someone as part of my daily practice

While I don't have any official diagnosis, I'm most likely neurodivergent in some way because there's no other reasonable way to explain the amount of brain worms going on in my mind (incomprehensible gestures at all the silly nonsense I'm writing here). As you can probably guess from the way I write, I often sound considerably younger than I am, and I'm kind of an extremely awkward shy baby

I'm kinda silly, cringe, extremely random, I don't care about appearances, I constantly make a lot of horrible jokes with the most obscure references, and I don't care if people don't understand or laugh at them, that's my kind of humor style! This can obviously get annoying pretty fast if you're not into that kind of nonsense or bubbly personality, but if not, it would be nice to be with someone I can laugh together with as that's probably the easiest way for us to have fun together~

So well, let's talk about my interests?! These are a huge part of who I am and they're most of what I talk about, meaning they're the easiest way to connect with me, to the point I have trouble communicating with people I don't have common interests with

I'm a huge weeb, watch a lot of anime, read some manga here and there, pretty much only listen to jpop/anison music. I'm a himejoshi at heart and yuri is pretty much my whole personality

I have an extremely specific taste in media and mostly focus on a few genres: shoujo, magical girls, music, idol/bands, yuri/romance, fantasy

Once in a while I might watch or like something outside of these, but these are exceptions! The point is, you can expect me to have watched a thousand episodes across 20 different seasons of a niche magical girl anime made for little girls, but I most likely never watched the super popular shounen everyone likes.

I like playing games once in a while but nowadays it's harder for something to actually catch my attention and I would never call myself a gamer (derogatory)

I have an easier with multiplayer games, so ideally we would play things together! I guess I would also be up to just watch you play something while cuddling or something

I have a computer science degree, work full time and live on my own (with that said, I'm kind of a hiki and barely go out, which is something I would definitely like to do more)

While I work in software, I love hardware and manage my own small homelab, which I definitely plan to improve in the future. I use nixos, btw

Software wise, I'm also kind of a jack of all trades and like a little bit of everything, lol, both high and low level, from assembly to css and other extremely cursed content

I'm a tinkerer at heart, and I often like getting into super random fun projects, from coding, to 3d printing, to hardware, to sewing, bricolage, etc. However, I'm also a chronic procrastinator and lose motivation pretty easily, so ideally I would like you to also enjoy doing these so we can have projects together and motivate each other!!!

I looooooove food in general, cooking and trying new things, so I would love someone I could go on food adventures with! If you message me, please tell me if you're team butter or team olive oil so I know you've read this

I also really like traveling, going on long walks, appreciating nature and exploring new places, even if I don't do it nearly as much as I would like to

I'm also interested in public transit, walkable cities, and I think trains are the coolest thing ever! Also space!!! I love space and I think we should do more of that

I live a pretty frugal life and have an anti-consumerism mindset. I don't take this to the extreme and have a decent understanding of what is and isn't worth doing, but yeah, I'm the kind of silly girl who talks about how evil companies are, watches consumer advocacy youtube content and fights for the right to repair

Of the 5 love languages, I would say the most important one for me is by far quality time as I love doing things together and that's something I require a lot of. Given my interests are a huge part of my life, this means I'm ideally looking for someone as similar as possible to me when it comes to these. You don't need to be a perfect match about everything I like, but I thrive when we both share a bunch of stuff we can fangirl together about, so it would be pretty nice to have a somewhat decent overlap! (for example, it's fine if you don't care about tech as long as we have the same taste in anime).

With that said, I also value acts of service a lot and these small things we can do for each other on a daily basis to show how much much we care. I would say I'm also a touchy-feely girl, but not necessarily in a sexual way.

If it maters to you, I've been on hrt for about 6 years now, I'm fully out and fully living as a girl.

I consider myself a femme! I dress in a very feminine way and would say I'm also very feminine when it comes to my personality and interests. While I don't really care about physical appearance much, I have a tendency to naturally gravitate towards people who also have a more femme energy, at least in terms of personality and interests. With that said, I wouldn't call this a preference, so please don't let it stop you if you think we're a good match, I'm open to try new things!

If you care about sexual details, like I said before, I usually consider myself demisexual. For me sex is just a direct extension of my feelings and it's mostly an emotional thing, so it's something I'm only interested in doing with someone I have a deep connection with.

I don't have much experience, but I consider myself pretty versatile and a switch, so if we hit it off I'll match whatever your needs are. It's pretty much the same for my libido and I also have a tendency to match whatever your needs there are (with that said, I would definitely feel more comfortable if you're more moderate, but extremely high/low libidos are not a deal breaker either)

Also, I consider myself pretty vanilla, but again, very lack of experience, so who knows, really! I'm pretty open to try new things as long as they don't cause any harm or pain to either of us

Given my lack of experience, I would honestly also feel more at ease with someone more inexperienced as well, but again, this is more of a nice to have and far from being a deal breaker

So well, if you managed to reach the end and I sound appealing to you in some way, feel free to send me a DM! Please introduce yourself if you do so!! Tell me about yourself and why you think we would be a good match :3

Why do I keep posting here? 30, trans woman in Ireland. Pretty lonely lesbian. Really wanna find a girl I can bond and chill with. Late night chats, yapping about stuff all day, playing video games together, phone calls, video chats, just getting close.. and then maybe something more..

For details see my original post (this is my third and significantly less effort). The more I try, the more drained I become.

I have a pretty unhinged sense of humour so yeah I will say cursed stuff.

I'm monogamous, on HRT 8 months, run a business, play video games, listen to metal music, chronically ill, literally just message and ask me stuff but don't forget to introduce yourself first! Don't come in and tear my DMs up with an assault LOL also no "hey" BS

Please check out my first post, I put most about myself in there.

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Heya everyone, thank you for reading my post! I've been feeling really stuck & lonely lately, have been chronically online since my last relationship and have been single for a while now.

Really longing for a serious relationship, someone to pour my love into and actually be cared about in return, I consider myself poly and would prefer that (you'd have to be my perfect other half to convince me to go mono)

I hugely prefer other femme people but am open to everyone

I rent my own place in North Wales living alone, eventually I'd love to move out to some place new with someone, settle down and build up our lives together.

About me:

• 26, 5ft 6, AuDHD haver

• 8+ years HRT, post op (SRS)

• Pansexual/Demi, often hypersexual (Sub-leaning switch, very kinky)

• on benefits, unemployed (would like to start making my own content eventually)

• Likes/hobbies: gaming, music, photography, fashion, gym, pets, anime

• some games I like: warframe, elder scrolls, borderlands, postal 2, baldurs gate 3, tf2, bf3+4, bloons (and more, I got over 2k Steam games) :P

• other likes: Jojo, JJK, simpsons/futurama, reincarnated as a slime, shangri-la frontier, mashle, south park, nirvana, bring me the horizon, system of a down, sewerslvt, deftones, slipknot, korn, pokemon (mimikyu <3)

I will also have some links to my music, games and Discord on my profile, if you're interested please don't be shy and send me a DM either on here or discord <3

edit: also open to friends / fwb ;)

pleeeeease be in the UK, not interested in long distance

My name is Vae. Looking for something more serious. I'm currently living in Pittsburgh, but I'm not super attached to locations. I'd be willing to move after some time if I can afford it though I much prefer cities. I'll try anything once and like to visit new places. Alt girl who recently transitioned so my voice is still deeper for now. I love a good dive bar, concert, or Ren Faire. Looking for a serious relationship. Recently had a break up after a long term relationship so sorry if I'm not super familiar with everything. I ride a motorcycle mainly to get around. Leftist.

I'm Noah, I'm 21, FTM, I'm somewhat socially isolated. I'm located in the USA.

I work full-time, so my free time is somewhat limited. I like watching TV (shows like sitcoms and Law and Order-type shows), listening to music (pop, rock, jazz, etc., I like most generas it seems), repairing electronics, and taking photos. I also have a decent interest in cars.

I'm not looking for a romantic relationship, I'm looking for something platonic. Feel free to DM me! I'm always glad to talk!

Hiya my name is Alexandra, I’m a nerdy girl big into gaming, collecting retro hardware and accessories, and watching 7 hour monster hunter lore videos. Im looking to make connections with the transfem community as someone who was forced to step back from estrogen for a while after taking it for a year I feel a little disconnected with my sisters and I’d love to reconnect and find myself again, be that friends, partners or intimately, I’m a fairly quiet and subby girl but I get very excited when I’m with people I like. As for my gaming interests I’m really into final fantasy, Minecraft, any survival game really, big rpg girlie too. I honestly never know what else to add to these so feel free to shoot me a dm with a million questions and I’d be happy to answer :3 socials available on request!

Just a dominant trans guy looking for a sweet girl . Lemme have that pretty girl cock . I wanna suck it , ride it , hold it , have you put it in the way I like and please each other . If you're opened to romance and connection first with this dynamic, please please message me with a 💛. You're what I've been searching for .

Hi all! I’m looking for something more long-term. I’d like to start by getting to know each other as friends but I’m cool with flirting/teasing if that naturally happens. I’d like to find someone who has similar interests to me, likes deep conversations, and values getting to know each other.

A little about me: I’m a grad student and also work, but when I enjoy talking to someone I make the time to throughout the day. I love to craft/make things, okay my switch, read, and hike. I’m a writer, as a hobby and academically. I write poetry, fanfic, academic arguments and I have a blog. I love research, it’s a huge part of my grad program. I’m a socialist so very liberal and anti-government and I’m educated on the subject. Some of my interests are but not limited to: cats, philosophy, sociology, literature, neuroscience, marine science, plants, and film.

I am a dom/top and not opposed to bottoming occasionally with the right person and scenario. Kink friendly and enjoy d/s dynamic being a component of a relationship but it’s not exclusively what I’m looking for. I tend to be attracted to men who are more feminine presenting than me but that’s not a deal breaker or anything. I am gay/mlm. I pass, have been on T for 1.5 years, masculine presenting, but not hyper I would say. I’m 5’9, 160 lbs, physical health is important to me. I have a couple of chronic health issues so I work very hard to combat this with balanced eating and exercise when I can. I’m also autistic, this is important because direct communication is a must. Cool with sharing socials and face pics over time if we really connect. Please be US only as it’s difficult to be trans and travel outside of here currently. I live in the South East but would love to travel more and would like the potential to meet up in the future.

If you’re interested (thanks for reading!), feel free to message me introducing yourself. I will not answer if you don’t tell me a bit about yourself and what you’re looking for as well. Please include your pronouns and age. 23-30 only. NO cis men. Other trans men, trans masc, and non-binary (any AGAB) welcome!

Also I’m strictly monogamous romantically <3

Hi, I'm Erik (31) and I came out as transmasc nonbinary about a year ago and I've never dated/hooked up with another trans person but I am really curious about meeting an mtf out there who is patient and interested in going with the flow. I do want to clarify that I have experience with both cis men and cis women so I'm not completely brand new lol I am not poly but I don't have anything against it. I am also not looking for anything serious at this time but I am a little thirsty ngl lol please be kind ☺️🏳️‍⚧️ US/Seattle area

Im Annabelle or Anna for short I'm 37 Trans woman Pre HRT trying get it in june. Online friends are good too but really need some IRL friends. I love gaming, Going on walks, and cuddling and am up for trying new things. I am attracted to femininity. I love to cuddle. Im submissive and bottom but willing to top to plese my sexual partner. Cuddling dose not have to be sexual or lead to that though if do not want. Would want to video call with you before meeting IRL for safety. Added nsfw tag so can link my BlueSky so can see what I look like. It has nudes of me and shows my face. https://bsky.app/profile/annaxbell.bsky.social

And here's my discord annaxbell_

TLDR: Im 37tf pre hrt, lonely, touch starved. my discord annaxbell_

Edited because forgot to put my name oops >///<

Hello, hope you’ve had a great weekend so far! I’m posting in hopes of making more connections, whether that be as friends or maybe something more (just let me know your intentions when you message me haha). I’ve put some fun facts about me below!

•I’m a classical musician, and currently work as a teacher! (Bonus points if you can guess my main instrument haha) At the moment, it’s my dream to open a music cafe or bar, and continue to do some teaching as well.

•For hobbies outside of music, I like baking, crochet, art, and more! I also enjoy being outdoors and I’m trying to learn gardening haha.

•I also like video games, so I’d love to play together! I’ll play just about anything, but my favourites at the moment are BG3, Hades II, and Marvel Rivals. I especially like games with good stories and interesting characters, but I have the most fun when it’s a game I can play with others.

•I love tattoos, have a few already and would like to get more sometime in the future!

•I like animals, and currently have a cat! She’s a fluffy ball of chaos, and I love to share photos of her hahaha. I also recently got a puppy! It’ll be a trained as a service dog to help with anxiety.

•I hope to travel a lot one day, as I haven’t spent much time outside of Canada yet. I hope to experience many different places and cultures in my lifetime!

I’ll leave it there so the post doesn’t get too long haha, but feel free to message me if you’d like to chat!

(Also, for those messaging with romantic intent, I’m more of a bottom/sub)

Plural witchy catgirl (25tf) looking for something casual but horny. Chatting is fine, but looking for someone to come to with those late night urges. Kink inclusive and fetish friendly (will keep an open mind and try most things once), message here and if it goes well we can move off-platform.

Hiya im 23tf with a huge gock as ive been told, im looking for some cuties to worship me and do as i say~♡ DM me if you like any of this (NO Cis MEN ((unless youre 8 inches+ heh))

I also live in germany so CEST timezone would work best

hey, im lyra :)

you prolly will recognize me (if your brain remembers) and truth be told: i have been keeping my transition journey a secret and just posting as a M online, doing shit i wasnt comfortable with only to feel close to someone. i will say please be truthful with me, dont hide feelings and dont just ghost me, its a shitty thing to do as a person. im human, your human.

i’m a 19 year old transfem who likes to walk on nature trails, listen to music, play video games and nap a-lot. I’m a nerd, and love a variety of topics, conversations are so interesting with those who put effort into them. i’m a wide open book and will definitely answer whatever is on your mind. i wont judge or make you feel belittled or ugly.

onto the lewder side of things, im a virgin but i’m far from vanilla, im a switch, i love nudity and would love to show off (but only if you are comfortable). but also talking about fantasies and sexting works too, i like hentai and have a small stash already saved. be warned i like body hair and im pre estrogen (coming soon)

i’m not here for a relationship, im here for lewd friends. if you feel these feelings i wouldn’t turn them down, but i’m not actively seeking out a girlfriend or partner. if i feel uncomfortable or pushed, i have all rights to be vocal with what upset me or feel needed to remove you from my chat.

(If you read this, send a rat 🐀 for lewd, 🦆 for non lewd)

Do not interact with me if you are a Cis Man.

Hi, title says it all honestly, im pretty depressed, bored and feel all around pretty hopeless and id like more people to talk to and maybe date and not focus on all the bad shit going on around me. Im a pretty stereotypical goth girl, i love alot of creepy stuff, currently my life sucks and im just trying to make it to fall so I can be a bit happy again, until then id like some people to talk to and get me through summer. For hobbies I play cozy or horror games mainly and I love music which is (mostly) goth. Im kinda bipolar and very hypersexual so fair warning if i creep you out. If you read this much and are interested, pm me, or whatever.

hey so I just got the access to my acc back and now I need to find ppl all over again

looking for someone to sext! I really dont care abt pics and stuff I just want someone to text naughty shit while I play with myself

I tend to be a switch also, idk if that matters

37mtf 4 mtf 🖤👻

im into horror movies, goth shit, creepy cute art, music, resin crafting, weird little night creature activities, etc.

looking for someone dominant but actually sweet underneath it. clingy is encouraged. bonus points if you’re alt/goth/punk or emotionally intense 😭

im very affectionate, creative, chaotic, kinda obsessive when i like someone, and spend way too much time making creepy jewelry and posting online instead of sleeping

would love someone i can flirt with constantly, send music to, be obsessed with, take spooky pics with, and eventually become an iconic goth power couple with hahaha

i want chemistry and connection 👹