r/t4t

I’m a 40-year-old, Non-Binary Human (Assigned Male At Birth) seeking a firm yet nurturing owner to take full ownership, train, and transform me into their obedient and unconditionally loving real-life pet dog. I am based in Melbourne - able and ready to relocate.

🚫 This isn’t casual or pretend – it’s a total lifestyle commitment.

🐶 No human traits kept – I aim to live fully as your canine companion.

🏡 Real-world only – a tangible, daily life as your pet. I’m open to owner(s) of any gender, age, or sexuality. The only requirement is the ability to own, keep, and love and be loved by a pet like me.

🔄 I am ready to relocate anywhere for the right owner(s). Whether canine or another species under your direction, I’ll become what you envision.

♀️♂️ I’m Non-Binary (born male), but you may define my identity—male or female.

🤝 Built on leadership, safety, and trust: a true owner-pet bond thrives on structure and mutual care.

🦴 I bring dedication, responsiveness, and 24/7 commitment.

🚫Non Sexual - This is a non sexual dynamic.

🔑 I seek strength, stability, and clear guidance in return. If you’re genuinely ready to own a lifelong, living pet human, I’m waiting. Let’s talk.

Hi, I'm Ash (she/her). This is my first post in a sub like this so I am not sure what to expect. I'm 30, trans woman on hrt for 3 years, got dumped two weeks ago. I won't bore you with the details of that unless you want to know, but I find myself needing to fill time. I would love to make some friends with similar interests. I am not looking for sexting but I am not against talking about dirty stuff. I actually love talking kinks and sex and all that. Just not looking for anything like sexting or real romance. I'm also up for sfw conversations. I love movies and TV, big nerd, I do a little gaming but nothing hardcore, and I like to think I am capable of holding a good conversation.

hi! i never really know how to write these but here goes nothing.

im 32 and transfemme, currently between jobs (i promise i'm not a loser but working in tech sucks right now between layoffs) and im a pretty heavy introverted girlfailure doing her best to girltry to girlsuccess. im an introvert and spend most my time at home doing 'nerd' hobbies, and want to make it very clear, im very happy to get to know people but am not super capable of moving or doing much outside of a yearning long distance internet romance where we write our names in the stars and pine in a way only lesbians can. (i wont ever ask you for money, i have severance and can take care of myself for the most part, just unlucky with a department layoff i promise)

so a bit about me, i guess, im kinda just what happens when a person who grew up on tumblr and roleplaying weeb stuff grows up, but is still involved in silly online nerd culture so... im still a hot topic teen at heart. big fan of gachaslop (mostly genshin and hsr) and mmos and vrchat, fandom stuff like the stuff mentioned before but also digital circus, plushie collection, figure collecting, and pampering my two very old cats that mean the world to me. im happy to share my plushie collection with you and id love to see if you collect anything or also have your own hyperfixations.

id love some kinda mutual company that has similar energy or vibes, where the internet feels like a home more than just a thing that exists. i love watching shows and anime, we could start up a bg3 campaign or something id really wanna do is do genhsin achievements together. friends are lovely too, it doesnt need to be romantic, but i'd be lying if i said i didnt wanna do dumb stuff like have matching homura and madoka or columbina and sandrone pfps on discord. im a yearner and a pathetic edater. my libido isn't the highest, i just kinda want genuine company, someone that makes days less lonely and id love to listen to you yap about your interests and hobbies.

hope to hear from you folks~

Hey everyone my name is Ember I’m a 27 year old trans woman living in the southern United States. I’ve been having a hard time dealing with loneliness, and looking to put myself out there. I’m looking to make friends only im happily taken! A little about me: I’m a veteran, a trained hvacr tech, and currently in college for military history. I love gaming, music, learning about random things and a lot more. If this interests anyone send me a Dm tell me about yourself and let’s see if we hit things off :3

Hi there

I'm looking for a man looking for an st4t relationship MTF4FTM. Id like to start with becoming friends and maybe start a long-term relationship leading to marriage. No pressure though. I'm ok with long distance. Im going to edit this post some more, so I might take it down after a bit and repost later.

I'm 45 years old MTF, white, and Im 5'5 in height with blonde hair and blue eves. I'm still currently pre-op and pre-hormones. Im hoping to do both in the future. I live in central Florida.

I like running, beach walks, hiking, camping, reading history, sports, most music, photography, art, video qames, anime, dogs, etc. I'd like to try new things that you are interested in. I'm easy going/laid back and make an effort to be kind and patient with people though I'm also very shy. I love to cuddle/spoon/hug

Happy searching and have a wonderful weekend! Thank you!

Hello again! I’m a 26 year old trans female

I’m home alone this holiday weekend (of my own volition haha!) and am looking for some people to talk to and keep me company!

I’ve been doing cosplays and having a bunch of fun playing video games and such but it’s been kinda lonely so if anyone wants to talk, and maybe get a little naughty, I’d love to hear from you 💗

My main preference is for Fem presenting peeps but if you’re interesting enough I don’t mind talking to all genders 🤗

hi all! my name is harper :) I’m 27 and I’m a trans woman looking for something preferably long term! I know this may be a long shot but I still wanna try!

a little about me! I’m from Arkansas! yes, it’s as terrible as you’d think 😭 butttt I’m hoping to eventually move away from here. in my free time I’m usually listening to music or podcasts, reading comics, going on walks, playing video games, or watching tv! if you’re a gamer that’s a plus too :) some games I play are Minecraft, Fallout 76, Marvel Rivals, and Phasmophobia! I love anything horror! I’ve been on E for a little over a year now. I’m strictly T4T, I’d love to find something long term but I’m also open to friends. since I do plan to move out of Arkansas, long distance is fine as long as you’re good at communication! I am also only monogamous, nothing wrong with poly but it’s just not my thing :)

feel free to send me a dm if you’d like to know more about me!

Hi! I’m a 24 year old trans girl looking for sober friends! I’ve been sober from cannabis for one month today! I’m in a rehab type situation, I’ll tell you more about it if we hit it off, but I do have my phone after programming is done for the day! My hobbies include knitting, crocheting, watching YouTube and Golden Girls! I also listen to a lot of music! If you think I sound interesting and you also love a sober lifestyle message me! I’m going to have to turn my phone in for the day soon but I hope to have some cool people in my DMs when I get home!

Heyo, I'm Komo, based in Perth Australia 🦘

Have been feeling quite isolated as I recently moved and don't have many friends yet, let alone queer ones. Would love to talk to a fellow queer person and see where things go. Preferably someone between the age range of 20-30.

I'm a great conversationalist but will give up if you're a dry texter or if you don't ask questions back.

I'm an outdoorsy person and love going on hikes, bouldering and playing golf ⛳. I also enjoy listening to music/singing (although I'm not the greatest at it unfortunately 😔), gaming (currently playing a mix of The Sims, Paralives and re-playing GTA Trilogy), and watching my fav content creators on YouTube.

If you think we could vibe please dm me! (I swear I don't bite 😁) And we can go from there!

Hii, I’m looking to make genuine and sweet connections with people, mostly through friendships even though I could be open for more if we get to know each other.

My health hasn’t been the best these past few days (due to an auto immune disease flare up) and not being able to leave my home is getting pretty lonely right now :(
(and ok I’ll be honest my mental health hasn’t been at its peak either but I’m pretty funny about it)

Its not an understatement to say that I like to talk about everything, I’m not afraid to breach deep subjects (I actually prefer when conversations lead to that!), I get pretty enthusiastic talking about things I care about so I guess it’d be a plus if you can also match this energy.

I love asking questions about people and hope that you’ll be doing the same for me, getting to know each other truly brings me joy :3

As for the rest I’m really really into music of all genres, pokémon romhacks, visual arts of every kind, fashion, reading wikipedia articles to fall asleep and yeah I’m not the best at listing my interests but I have a lot (mostly through a cycle of hyperfixations lol). I don’t game much anymore these days but I used to be a huge completionist (ask me how many times I’ve played through dishonored I dare you).

My dms are open if you want to talk! (just no cis people please)

hello, im grace. I'm looking for another transfem aged 20-28, within say 3 hours driving distance of LA who finds my little description interesting enough to chat and get to know each other. I'll say that although its not the exclusive purpose of this post, a long-term romantic connection is very important to me and something i'm always searching for, so if that happens naturally, awesome, if not, thats okay.

about me: im nerdy, interested in the usual nerdy reddit user hobbies- video games, anime, though these days less so. Despite that i'm still very immersed in those communities. Magic the gathering id say is my main interest at this point. Very into it. I like learning in various forms. Language, art, sciences, the reality of human lived experience. I value knowledge in general. I try hard to be genuine, understanding, relaxed, kind, and warm. I value those things a lot. I'm not always that way, but i try. I struggle a lot mentally, im a complicated, tortured, and sad creature. But ultimately i just want to be happy and healthy and have bonds that make me feel good and just live my best life full of love. Have interest in various hobbies that i havent really explored just due to low motivation, but id really like to try them. Including crafts, dancing, ice skating, reading more, watching more movies, cooking/baking, live music, nightlife, among others.

I haven't painted an exhaustive picture, of course. But hopefully enough for you to be intrigued. Hope to chat soon.

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Hi! I'm Ray, I'm 19 and nonbinary (they/them) I am pretty bad about talking about myself so please bear with me.

I like birds, video games, music, and reading among lots of other things. The main multiplayer games I play are overwatch and arc raiders but I have plenty of other ones. My favorite games ever are both Hollow Knight games, Elden Ring, and Celeste.

I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I am taller than I'd like to be. I am also autistic and AMAB. I can get attached pretty quickly and I'm pretty anxious and clingy sometimes.

I'm looking for people I can talk to often and about anything. Someone that is open minded and caring as well.

I am good with nsfw talk and sexting even if that's the only kind of conversation you want :3

I also am not currently in college and I'm unsure if I ever want to go back but I recently started a new job. I don't think it's really for me but at least I have my own money again.

I'm sure you'll learn a lot more about me if we end up talking. I'm very open minded and you can ask me anything. If anything I wrote interests you then please message me!!

hai I'm mel/melody I desperately need trans friends (or just friends at all 😭) not looking for a relationship!! just friends please <3 , preferably in or around East TN since I live there but just any trans people id love to be friends with!

umm I'm kinda chronically online , I've been on estrogen for 9 months but due to unfortunate circumstances I'm not rly allowed to present feminine like... ever 😔 id really like to get to know other trans girlies so they can teach me their secrets, but anyone is welcome of course. umm I'm rly bad at conversations, im kinda a dry texter I know I am but I'm trying to be better.

ummm I really like videogames (big surprise) I don't play a huge variety but some games I love and have the most time in are terraria, don't starve together, battle cats, and pokemon! i love pokemon but I mostly play competitive on showdown now cause I don't like the newer games tbhh.

i don't watch a lot of stuff cause my attention span is umm not great but I do like anime sometimes! my favorites so far have been assassination classroom and girls last tour.

I'm kinda ugly irl sadly, estrogen is working but the magic is slow 🙏 I know I don't rly pass at all yet but i can't do much about it, I'm also 6' tall and have kinda a masc frame, and I have a whopping ZERO progress on voice training, so yeah , I claim to be a girl but I know I'm not very girlyy, anyways umm I'll probably face reveal at some point if we are friends for a bit if anyone cares, anygays idk what else to put tbh, I'll try to respond to everyone but try to be interesting if u text me pls!!

yay :3

Hi, im fran :3 im a 24 year old trans girl. Looking for someone to have some fun chats with or maybe something more :) Relatively inexperienced but really looking to get into dating other trans women. Feel free to dm :)

Chasers F off

Im Vi, i live in Berlin and im monogamous Demisexual hypersexual trans guy.

I am into gaming/watching movies and series/ just chatting together and cuddling

Anything you want to. I want to make sure we both respect each other before Anything else.

I just want to find someone passionate and silly like me who has good humour.

I am a lover-boy who's very unlucky when it comes to finding love, so im trying my luck here.

Im open to SFW or NSFW topics, depending on our vibes and Anything you're comfortable with.

Your comfort means to me more than anything.

Hii fellow trans people! :D

23 yr old trans girl here! I’m in a spicy mood and would love to have another gal over for some company sometime! Maybe hookup or become FWBs if we click! ;D

Would prefer in person, but I’m also down for some chatting if any of y’all long-distance gals want to! ^^

I absolutely adore cuddling and being intimate, so if that’s ur thing then 100% reach out! 🩵

I have some spicy pics on my profile if you want to see xD

Thanks for reading my yapping! Hope to hear from you! <3

Hi. My name is Emily and I'm 37 from Bavaria Germany.

im into gaming, game dev. I like guitars, music, cats and weed. I'm 37 on hormones for about 2 years now, extremely shy and spend post of my time on discord(no voice though) and well .. it's getting lonely. I like to talk about everything and won't hide from the heavy stuff. If you feel like reaching out: my DMs are open / I have discord .

It's hard enough to even write this post... This will probably lead nowhere since it's incredibly hard for me to keep conversations going. But maybe someone wants to try anyway. :3

[TW: De-transition]

Me (TF) and my partner (TM) have been having regular sex where I'm the top, he is the bottom and for a long time it has been like that. We have switched roles once, we enjoyed it but it's not something we both want every time we are having sex.

The problem is now that because of HRT, my dick no longer gets hard or hard enough to be able to penetrate him and if I do, it gets flaccid pretty quick.

So now I'm feeling stressed as fuck because idk what to do.

I've been feeling like de-transitioning because it's hard for me every time I want to try again to get in and watching his face like no expression at all, or what I feel is a face with no expression and everytime this happens I end up crying in front of him.

He keeps saying me that not always has to be penetrative sex, and that even if I did bottom surgery he'd still enjoy having intimacy with me.

I still feel like shit because I don't know what to do.

Giving him oral makes him want to be penetrated (something he told me), and I've been proposing opening the relationship (I believe in poliamory/poligamic) and he is way against that.

He doesn't like to use toys and at this point I'm feeling like shit.

This is not affecting our daily relationship, but when it comes to intimacy, it makes me feel frustrated

first time posting something like this so I hope I'm doing it right.

I'm looking for someone to sext with and maybe even a fwb. I'd prefer to build trust first and talk about what we are comfortable with :)

And I'd like to build a connection as well and be friends. But If you're only open for a short term thing you can hmu as well ;)

If we're not compatible sexually then I'd still enjoy talking about sex, exchanging experiences or just being friends.

I'm leaning more sub but I'm open to explore my dominant side. And at the moment I also got really curious about puppy play and being clicker trained haha. I love being praised or getting orders.

Otherwise I really like cozy games, being creative or playing pen & paper. I also like card games and board games.

So text me if you're interested.

I'm aromantic so just so you know I'm just seeking out some spicy fun or friends and I'm not comfortable with anything romantic. So please respect that.

Hiya, as the title says I'm not doing great right now, a mix of a lot of things I'll discuss in dms, but right now I just don't want to be alone, I want to feel someone with me, hmu with discussion topics you want or just anything really, I just want to feel wanted.