u/love_those_animals

Doing a little research! Curious if men would be interested in doing a workshop where they can create a custom scented candle for their significant other. It would also include a cork base with a custom engraved message on it and beautiful Packaging that would be ready to gift to your significant other.

You would come, get a cocktail or two that would be included, create a custom scent for your spouse, create a custom message and just kick back and meet some new people.

As a woman I know I would love a gift like this from my husband because it means he took the time to do something special . But wondering what you guys think is this something you would do if it was offered ?

An alternate idea is to do a couples night where it becomes the actual Valentine's Day event..

Last night my stepsister messaged me on Facebook tricking me into saying I do not care about our father's estate. He passed on April 3rd. I have not spoke to either of them in over 30 years - after last night it was clear I made the right choice.

He was my stepfather - adopted me when I was 3 and was married to my mom for 50 years, she passed a couple of years ago. I never had a relationship with her either.

Honestly, I did not care about the estate at all until my stepsister basically verbally abused me last night. My other stepsister (her real sister) - does not talk to her either.

My good stepsister and I do not know if we are in the will or not. The estate is not big so I am not going to fight anything, but if we are in there, we do want what was left to us.

My evil stepsister took care of dad for the last 3 or so years and lives near him - she did not talk to him for like 30 years before that. My other sister and I are in the Northeast.

I know I can get a probate lawyer - but hate spending money just to find out we are not in the will.

I called the county this morning - probate does not seem to have started yet.

I am not sure the best route to take here? I know nothing about his financial situation and do not even have his social to get a death certificate.

- Do I attempt to start probate myself?
- Is there any way to get a copy of the will - or find out if there even is one?
- What happens if there is no will?

Any advice or tips would be so appreciated!