u/lucas_mober2021

I won’t bore you all with the background but just recently my wife asked to use my phone to look at LDS tools cuz she wanted someone’s number. I guess she went to go look at my “profile” and saw I had a picture of myself for my name. She got all offended and kept saying things like “let me find a picture of myself to put on my page”. I told her I honestly don’t care and to go ahead and do it. She was freaking out because she wasn’t on it. I showed her that’s just for me and that if you look at household I have a nice family picture of all of us. She was already pissed and it looks like I ruined our Sunday for simply having a picture of myself on my name on LDS tools. It’s not like it’s a dating app and for this same reason I’ve deleted my Facebook and instagram accounts. Anyways I’m the nice guy and will probably end up apologizing cuz it hurts her feelings and I hate to see her sad… but is it my responsibility to make sure she has a good self esteem or that nothing happens that will make her feel bad??

Hello all! Over the years I’ve come to notice something with my wife and was wondering if it’s coincidence or if you all have had similar experiences.

First off my wife says she doesn’t like porn. We haven’t talked much in depth about it but I believe it stems from the churches teachings and that her mom has told her about all these men that watch porn and leave their wives/cheat. Throughout our whole marriage of almost 9 years she has only told me she watched porn once way back when we were newly weds and she felt bad about it. She was very scared of me watching porn when we were first married and would always go through my phone. When nude or sex scenes would come on movies and shows we would watch she would expect me to turn away or she would turn it off.

Now the part I’ve noticed. She doesn’t do that anymore. Years ago we once saw a video on YouTube about Nuru gel and a couple with swimsuits on sliding all over each other. The man had an obvious boner and the woman had the top of her bathing suit move and her bare breast was showing, nipple and all. Later that day we had crazy hot sex. Just recently we’ve been watching GoT and Euphoria (which have tons of nude and sex scenes, I think my wife had never seen so much dick as she had ysterday in Euphoria). While watching we don’t turn away or skip anymore. Afterwards while having sex after my wife, she cums so much faster. It almost lets me down cuz I’m like we just got started lol sorta like premature ejaculation but for females haha.

The point of it all is have you all seen or noticed that porn use or watching/reading erotic scenes gets a woman going? I know the male perspective since I am a male but am curious to hear y’all’s experiences with this. Thanks in advance for posting!

Happy late Mother‘s Day to all the wonderful moms, future moms, and those who I’m sure act as moms to those who may not be their children. I really do appreciate all of you, the hard work and countless struggles you put up with, and your irreplaceable role and help to humankind.

That being said I had the GREAT opportunity to sub out the teachers in nursery yesterday so the main nursery leaders could all go to a meeting with the other women. While there a few moms stayed behind with their kids. These mothers had on dresses that showed off a large amount of cleavage. Neither of them were flirty and they were very kind and humble. Howeever they got me thinking about modesty and what it really means.

I live on the east coast, far away from the Mormon belt, and it’s interesting to see the different dynamics here as compared to when living in Utah. There is a lot more cleavage here than I ever saw in Utah at church but I don’t feel like it’s a problem. The women here just wear it and think nothing of it. They still seem like modest women to me by the way the act and carry themselves. I compare this to some women back in Utah who never showed cleavage or even their shoulders with dresses that werent too short but were very puffed up in the pride of their own hearts. Despite being physically modest, I don’t think they were in their hearts and I feel like that’s what God really cares about. After all having boobs is part of being a mother. Don’t get me wrong if a lady is flaunting her body and that makes her feel better than others and she looks down on others, I think that is immodest as well. I just feel like as a church culture we make modesty much more about the physical appearance when I feel like much more so it should be about the spiritual aspect of it.