Blocked or ghosted by EVERYONE
I am at my wits' end. I've used OKCupid on and off since 2009, and have never had an experience remotely like this. For the last several months, every time I've gotten an intro from someone and responded, within 3 responses they have either blocked or ghosted me; usually, it is after my initial response. Now, if I was being blatantly rude or offensive in my replies I'd understand this, but I tend, instead, to start off pretty slowly, just returning the hello and asking about something from their profile. I've asked others for input, and no one has seen anything remotely objectionable in the replies I've made, so I'm at a loss. I just want to connect with someone, and instead, no matter what I do, I get blocked or ghosted almost the moment I get a match.
When this began, I had indications my messages weren't all being relayed to people; one person I managed to connect with via email said they hadn't gotten any of the messages I'd sent on OKCupid, after giving them my email address. I've heard similar things from others about messages not going through, but since this keeps happening in the first one or two messages, I haven't had the opportunity to ask anyone else.
Looking for any tips, really, on how to fix this, or explanations as to why this might be happening. Yes, I'm a guy, so I get that I'm not going to get messages left and right, but I used to have no issue meeting folks on the app, and now it's just impossible.