I can’t anymore with these men
I tried to find someone to go on a date with a few weeks ago, we hit it off pretty nicely in the dating app, he asked for my socials, our interests aligned well and he seemed chill. I gave him my socials - we follow each other, and i see that he follows a few trans girls i know, i see he frequents the same left leaning spaces they do, so i think - that’s probably a green flag, riiiiight..? he is known in those circles so maybe he’s chill.
Anyway, once we switch apps - everything goes downhill pretty fast. first he says that he wants to treat me and take me out, describes in detail his perfect date - love it.
then he begins sending me his pictures - like just walking, not doing anything just him. and then he asks for me to take a picture for him right then and there - i do so. he compliments me and then says: “can you send me a before and after of your transition”…. girl… i said i dont feel comfortable with that, he said “yeyeye its all good”, “just fyi-anything you send here will be just between us” - 🫥🫥🫥, thanks for clarifying i guess. then he says “im just a leftie guy looking for love”, im like yeah cool, and i tell him im very uncomfortable right now and he starts apologising. he keeps sending me photos of himself just walking, and then he sent me a meme of a boy and girl pissing at a urinal with an accompanying message “us”. and then said he misses me - how???? we haven’t even texted that much. right now im not sure how to drop it off without being too rude… i am very new to dating so I imagine y’all getting irked out much sooner than i did. would love some advice🙏✨