Unecessary Reports!
We've been going through the last few months of reports while there hasn't been moderators, and honestly, some of them are laughable
We will not be removing posts and comments because they are
- not in English
- too long
- disagreeing with you
Someone disagreeing with your post is not "Targeted Harassment" - that's when they follow you across reddit
Someone disagreeing with you is not "Targeting a protected class" - that's for people being racist or sexist
Someone disagreeing with you is not "Not Being Respectful" - calling you insults is.
Someone posting screenshots with names redacted is not "personal information"
Someone posting about their boyfriend's mother is not "not about in-laws" - for the purposes of this sub, your partner's family is enough. Not everyone gets, or wants to get married, so this is explicitly allowed.
And currently we have no rule about anyone being able to post their side. We had people referring to "Just Nos" in their report which isn't our community. If someone posts here who might be the problem, then let them.
We're trying to let you self-moderate - If someone's talking absoulte shit, you're allowed to disagree. You're allowed to downvote.
This might change in the future, depending on what the community needs, but please stop reporting everything. Downvote or move on or leave the community if you need something different.